Couples have been together for a few years, do you still care who sends long messages and who talks

Generally don't care much, but the most important thing depends on the individual's personality, some girls are more delicate, more concerned about some details, they will care about who sends a long message, who says more. If your girlfriend has this kind of personality, then you should communicate with her well, so that your relationship will be more long-term.

Don't let him guess that if he has a little temper, he must also know how to stop in moderation, otherwise, if the firearm that causes it to become very serious, the feelings between you will also be hurt, and the small quarrel is pleasant, and the big quarrel is not necessary, so the girl must understand the humility of the facts. Don't let him guess the other party to guess some small temper tantrums and know how to stop in moderation, otherwise, if it causes it to become a very serious firearm, you don't let him guess that the other party has a small temper tantrum, you also have to know how to stop in moderation, otherwise, if it causes it to become a very serious firearm, the feelings between you will also be hurt, don't let him guess the other party to guess some small temper tantrums, and you must also know how to stop in moderation, otherwise, if you cause it to become a very serious firearm, the feelings between you will also be hurt, a small quarrel, There's no need to make a big noise, so girls have to know the humility of the facts. It's not necessary to make a small noise, but it's not necessary to make a big noise, so girls should understand the humility of the facts.

The feelings between us will also hurt, small quarrels, big quarrels are unnecessary, so girls must understand the humility of the facts.

No, you don't! As long as your relationship is stable, that's fine.

If it's a girl, you should care.

Because after a long time, the two people will understand each other more, so the words will become very few.

Every couple will go through a dull process from the hot love period. At the beginning, when they are together, there will be a period of love, and then each other will have a sense of freshness. Some people say that as long as you are in a relationship for more than three months, if you are still together, it means that you should really love each other.

In the first three months of the relationship, you don't know each other well enough, and you will get to know each other through some conversations every day for these three months.

However, after these three months, almost some of each other's living habits and preferences have been understood. So there will be fewer and fewer topics to talk about. Every day will feel boring and boring, and this can easily break the relationship between two people.

The reason is that because of the lack of communication between the two people, the contradictions between the two people are resolved through the cold war, but every cold war is to lay the foundation for the next contradiction. If every conflict is not resolved in the right way, then in the end the relationship will come to an end.

For this situation, couples should find more interesting topics, such as going to a movie together, or listening to the same song, so that there will be more words to talk to each other when they have a common topic. When two people have a conflict, you can't have a cold war and you should communicate and say each other's thoughts, so that the other party can better understand your inner thoughts, and at the same time, if you are dissatisfied with or dislike one aspect of him, you should say it, if he is willing to change it, change it, and accept it if it has little impact.

When two people are together, the only thing that can resolve the conflict is communication, which can not only resolve your contradictions, but also enhance your feelings and trust in each other.

Although couples will talk less after being together for a long time, the tacit understanding will become longer.

Every couple will go through an ambiguous period, a period of passionate love, a period of running-in, and finally enter a period of stability.

In the beginning, this person attracts you, and you want to know more about each other all the time. The preferences, tastes, and habits of two people are gradually mastered in the communication between you and me and through silent observation.

Especially in the period of hot love, it seems that there are endless ** and endless topics to talk about. From poetry and songs, when it comes to the philosophy of life, accompany you to watch the snow, the moon, the stars, listen to the wind and rain, and sleep in the small window. This is the first sweetness in a relationship, morning and evening greetings, birthday morning wishes, nervous worries, every word is full of marshmallow-like flavor.

After entering the run-in period, the temperature of love tends to be normal, and the rational brain no longer amplifies the advantages of the other party and ignores the shortcomings of the other party.

From trivial to disagreeable, from sweet and salty to art appreciation, it seems that there is hidden thunder everywhere overnight, and behind every quarrel is deep helplessness and even sour tears. But after the wind and rain, crying and laughing, every quarrel can make people grow, and gradually learn to be tolerant and considerate.

Finally, it entered a period of stability, and it felt like a few years had passed in a flash, and friends began to shout that because you believe in love again, you no longer say any more coquettish words in your daily **, as if overnight, there will be fewer words.

However, when crossing the street together, he will still grab you by the sleeve; When she goes out to eat, she naturally orders his favorite dishes.

What you need, without words, not even with a look, I will hand it to you. I wanted to say something, but before I opened my mouth, you had already taken me into my arms.

When couples have been together for a long time, there will be fewer words, but love will be longer.

I think it's normal for couples to talk less when they've been together for a long time, because at the beginning, everyone was very shy, and they always had to find some topics to fill this embarrassment, but then you will slowly become more and more familiar with each other after a long time, and you will know more and more about each other's things, and some things can be understood without saying anything, so you can understand it without saying it, so you will talk less and less, but you won't feel embarrassed, because the tacit understanding is getting higher and higher, which is not a good thing.

Some people feel that this is not good, and it will make each other less and less common topics, and more and more estranged. Actually, I don't think so, isn't it a good thing that couples can understand something without saying it to each other? If you don't say something, he will know it, don't you feel very happy?

I think the higher the degree of understanding, the more you love each other.

But it is not excluded that there is another situation, couples talk less together, that is to prove that some people have changed their minds, but I think this situation is still very rare, how can it be so easy to change their minds, everyone has been together for so long, more and more familiar with each other, more and more in love, why suddenly change their minds? Actually, I don't quite understand this kind of thing.

This situation is very common among adults, if you don't believe it, you can look at your parents, they will definitely not be as tired and crooked as they were when they were in love. But they are still very affectionate, that is, they love each other, and some things can be understood without saying each other, knowing what the other party wants to do, what they want to take, and what they want to do, this is a tacit understanding, I think.

If you feel that your partner has become less talked to with you, you should not be disappointed, because this is a normal process, everyone will be like this, and after a long time together, it will always become a little tacit, not as awkward as it was at the beginning. You don't talk, you don't feel embarrassed, don't you think it's the best relationship?

Because two people know each other well enough, a person's eyes and actions already know what the other party is thinking and what you want to do, so there are naturally fewer words between two people.

In the early days of getting along, two people will be very curious about each other, want to know everything that happened to the other party, want to know what kind of things he had before, happy things or unhappy things, and want to know everything about all his life in the first half of his life.

I want this person to have you with him for the rest of his life, and gradually the two of them have been together for a long time, and they know each other well enough, and they also know what kind of character the other person is.

began to gradually make the two people talk less, in fact, such a couple, although the words have become less, but the affection will not become less, and it will not gradually have that feeling of no interest in each other because the two people say less and less.

The loss of freshness is actually because there are fewer and fewer words between the two of them, which can fully show that they know each other better.

Recently, I have been watching the dear inn, Liu Tao and Wang Ke, Kan Qingzi and his boyfriend have these two pairs of lovers.

The feeling that these two couples give me is that Liu Tao, a couple, has very few words between the two of them, but they understand each other very well, and I know what they want to express when they smile at each other.

Then Kan Qingzi's pair gave me the feeling that the two of them often flirted and scolded, and the words between the two of them never stopped, but they didn't know each other well enough, because they would still quarrel, and they would still have some misunderstandings about each other.

So if there is such a sign between a couple, I think it's a good thing, and I don't feel worried at all!

It's because there's nothing to say, everything that should be said has been said, have you ever seen your parents have endless topics to talk about every day, everyone is the same, and after getting along for a long time, there are fewer love words.

If you are together, for a long time, the daily topics are what to eat, where to play, what to do after class, go to self-study together, go to the library to read idle books, go to the Internet café to play games, and you can go shopping on Saturdays and Sundays.

If it's a different place, ask some ethereal sentences every day, good morning and good night, ask him what he did today, ask a lot of questions to later, don't ask to know what you are doing at every time of the day, and then don't ask, boys sometimes don't like gossip, don't like to talk about, and most of the topics are found by girls, and one day they will have nothing to say.

A long-distance relationship is the most understandable way to have nothing to say, maybe one day you will not say a word, and you will slowly get used to living well even if you don't speak, no longer ask why you didn't say goodnight to me today, there is a little bit of a seven-year itch, but not to seven years.

My boyfriend and I are in a different place, I don't know why there are always a few days in a month when no one talks to anyone, no goodnight and no greetings, I will be a little unhappy at first, but then I get used to it, and it is not interesting to say the same thing every day, it is better not to say it and calm down for a few days. After a few days, I talked about it every day, or drove **, watching him learn his professional content, I learned mine, and it was a kind of calm, but it was beautiful, even if there was nothing to say, even if it was a long-distance relationship.

In fact, couples don't need to talk a lot every day, and when they say too much, they will say things wrong, and there are also differences in their opinions, and there will be unnecessary disputes because of this.

I heard that there are three stages of falling in love, one is the hazy freshness that has just begun, then the run-in period with many contradictions, and finally the period when two people achieve positive results. I think that at the beginning, there were endless words between couples, but gradually the topic became less and less, but in the process, the two of them got to know each other better and better. <>

It's not that after a long time together, it becomes less talkative, I think it's more about your words, you don't have to say more, because of your eyes, I think I know what you mean, and after a long time together, I know what you think. This kind of love is the most perfect. Maybe your love is that you've been together for a long time, and then both of you know each other well enough to know each other's thoughts, so there will be less talk between you.

Some people say that the best thing to talk about in love is that the two of you have already loved each other as each other's relatives, yes, do you think about it when you are at home, will you have nothing to say, of course not, so you and your couple have been together for a long time because of this situation, the two of you have treated each other as relatives in your heart, there is no need to talk to relatives every day, chat when you have something, chat when you want to chat, and ignore you when you are busy, And then you won't be angry either. This kind of love can be married.

You have already experienced the most beautiful thing in love, the run-in period has passed, and what is left is a long life, and the trivial things in life will trouble the two of you, live slowly. You will find that wordless tacit understanding is important.