What to do if your girlfriend isn t so perfect anymore

Updated on psychology 2024-05-01
12 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    Since two people choose to be together, they must have the three abilities of facing the ordinary, facing the imperfect, and transforming each other. As an ordinary individual, whether it is for the people we have been with for a long time or the activities we love, we will tend to be dull. We need to recall in our minds the happiness and satisfaction that the other person brings us, a certain heartbeat, a certain touch, and at the same time imagine a better side of the future, a certain vision, a certain plan, until you decide to improve this bland situation.

    A person who has no sense of the surrounding environment or the things around him is very scary. Because they are closed-minded, they don't feel anything even if the earth explodes. Learn to be a highly emotional and interesting person.

    For example, also in South Africa, a person only talks about loneliness, but he can't say that he is ugly. But another person went and came back and said that he was lonely, how is it a lonely method? He said that he had a chicken, and he had nothing to do with chasing chickens every day, chasing and chasing, chasing and chasing, and guess what in the end?

    The chickens are exhausted. Interesting, this thing is contagious!

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    No one is perfect, which means that there is no perfect person in the world, and while feeling that your girlfriend is not perfect, you can think about whether you have reached the level of perfection and then ask for each other. If the two of them feel that there is something bad about the other party when they get along, they can discuss it and cooperate with each other, don't break up easily because they feel that the other party is not perfect, which will only make you keep looking for the perfect partner in your heart and waste time.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    If you still love her, you should look at her with appreciation, accept her imperfections, change her imperfections, and if you can't change, adapt to her, which is the premise of true love. Everyone is not perfect, including themselves. The key is to tolerate each other, understand each other, encourage each other, and work together.

    This is love.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Don't look at your girlfriend from your point of view just yet, try to ask what kind of person you are in your girlfriend's eyes. Some questions may not be worth talking about, but these problems always appear from time to time, affecting the good feeling. No one is perfect, and they all have small emotions, when they encounter unhappiness, communicate in time and correct them in time, so as not to become a fuse in the future.

    If there is a problem, you have to change it, you can't just live and die on one side, one party has become better, and in the end, you can only break up.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    She was never perfect

    From the first glance, it is not a perfect ......

    But I don't need a perfect person ...

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    The word perfect has a certain one-sidedness. The perspective from which a person looks at a person and the direction in which he thinks determines his or her perception of that person. The phrase "in the eyes of the lover" confirms exactly this.

    When you find that she is no longer perfect, perhaps in other ways your understanding of her rises to a deeper level. She will also go through this stage of yours. At this time, what is more needed is mutual understanding, tolerance, and mutual appreciation of each other's advantages, so that we can go further.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    When two people are away from the phone, the happiness brought by the mobile phone is a little insensitive, and there is a feeling of opening the eyes and closing the eyes. Training a new hobby. Painting, handicraft, reading, cooking, some hobbies are one person, but the other party's appreciation and communication are all attentive, real, and belong to the real feelings of two people.

    Plan a trip, travel is a magical thing, you will see a different world, will make you happy. It's like you're used to living on the second floor, the noise and garbage make you disgusted, and when you come back from the tour, you feel like you're on top of a skyscraper, and the downstairs is full of scenery. Immediately, all the unhappiness disappeared.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    found that his girlfriend was no longer as perfect as when they met, which means that they already know each other. Whether it is emotion or life, we have to face the truth. If you keep pretending, such emotions will not last long.

    It's not a bad thing to find out that your girlfriend is not perfect, it means that she has relaxed in front of you and can face you calmly. Or maybe she's gone into your life.

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    No one is perfect at all, and if you're looking for the perfect girlfriend, you're very wrong.

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    I don't think it's okay to be imperfect, recognizing that everyone is not a perfect person, and accepting the shortcomings of others is also a kind of growth.

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    If you love her enough, you won't feel this way, or you can tolerate it. Perfect! What to do and how to do it!

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    If there is a defect in the quality of the product, you can negotiate with the manufacturer, and if it is really not possible, return it.

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