I m not a bad boy who always messes things up and makes things worse and everybody hates me.

Don't be so unconfident, we don't do well because of a lack of exercise, it's not a bad thing to exercise more. Sometimes you feel that others hate you because of your own psychological inferiority complex, and others may not think this way at all, or even others don't have time to think like this. So at this time, we have to let go a little more, don't take ourselves too seriously, no one will not make mistakes, remember the lesson that heals our wounds and continue to raise our heads.

In addition, doing something else that can be done to regain confidence and success is not about making 100 million or opening a big company. Success is doing what you have in mind, and that's success.

Child, you have to find the reason for one thing, prevent it in the future, and you can sum up the experience after doing it badly, and you won't do it when you're older in the future, and failure is the mother of success, understand no.

It's that people make mistakes, and it's okay.

There's nothing wrong with "bad boys", and all successful people don't find out if you look at their biographies that they don't claim to be bad boys.

In fact, I don't know what exactly is the mess you are talking about, but some of them may be the correct solution that you think is the right solution, and what others think is messed up.

Reading between the lines, at least you can see that you are a warm-hearted child! Because you always want to help others, but sometimes you think that others think that you are doing bad things with good intentions.

Suggestion, 1. Think more about the real needs of others when helping others, or politely ask others if they need help.

2. Don't be too inferior, everyone has their own life, and no one has to live like whom. Understand your own values, of course, the premise is the right values, and always adhere to them, you will eventually achieve your own extraordinary.

Good luck!

Although love letters have been outdated for a long time, the old method of communication seems to have more atmosphere. As long as it comes from your heart, I think she can accept it, and she doesn't need the beauty of the sentence, just say what you want to say.

I think it's okay to write what you want to say in your heart, and you don't have to deliberately pursue the refinement of the content.

Brother, you'd better the other way around, be humorous in front of women and show yourself in front of girls.

The pursuit of women should be bold and careful, women pay attention to details, details reflect a person's quality, and at the same time be able to hold a woman, hold her to the sky, when you are dizzy, you are good to start, everyone has a love for beauty.

Check out more humorous stories online! Accumulate more! In fact, the most important thing is to learn to pay attention to the things in life, and use things to talk about not pretentious. For example, if you go to Wuhan Yangtze River Bridge to play, you can say, "The bridge is so high, it is estimated that it will take 10,000 yuan to repair it!" Haha.

It may be that you are nervous, you can take a quick-acting heart-saving pill beforehand.

Hello to the answer, I am a teacher in the emotional field, good at marriage and family, love, psychology, interpersonal communication and other directions. Your question I have received, please give me a few minutes to write the answer, I am not a robot, please do not end the order, thanks!

Asking the question, my girlfriend said I was negative.

I see your question! Optimism should be slow 1First of all, you have to have self-confidence2

It's normal to find more topics with your girlfriend and don't need to be annoyed3You have to buy more gifts for your girlfriend, think you care about her, otherwise your girlfriend thinks that you don't care is very negative, you have to think that everything is bright, dear, what else will your girlfriend say I will be happy to solve it for you!

Asked a question and she said I was not motivated, she told me to learn this and that, I just couldn't learn, I knew she was good for me.

But sometimes it may not be what you like and you can't learn it so much.

Give me some time to prove that you can see my efforts!

Everyone has potential.

If someone else can do it, so can you!

Kiss you if you think it will be useful to you.

What should I do if I don't have the confidence to ask a question?

Society teaches you a lot, it can help you open up the world, and every little thing you can chat about when trying to trade is the beginning of your progress.

Ask questions and have low emotional intelligence.

The whole person is very numb.

Why do people say things?

Like why if your girlfriend says sudden stomach ache.

I'm not asking you to ask for a cup of hot water.

Rather, I want your warm greetings and nervousness.

You know, dear, as long as you follow me and slowly learn to change.

I think one day, your girlfriend will not only like you, but you will also be more positive.

Now it's just scratching the surface.

I also wanted to help a boy who didn't have confidence because I felt the same way.

If you want to, you can continue to look for me, maybe you can't chat with me, if you plan to do so, end the order, like it, dear

1. Be optimistic.

How can we be optimistic? First of all, it should be understood that stress is the biggest reason why a person is not optimistic.

Most of the pressure on men comes from finances and careers, while women come from relationships and family;

And the most stressful ** is the darkness.

The pressure also comes from the person's character:

Strength type: strict with others, lenient with oneself, will not arrive on time, no pressure, because pressure gives others nervous breakdown.

Peaceful: Everything is negotiable, the most able to be a leader, but the worst to resist pressure, suitable for being an administrator, this type of person needs to listen to a healthy subconscious**, which can easily lead to obesity.

Perfect type: give yourself the most pressure on others, the most need to learn psychological adjustment, relax yourself, and lack calcium.

Ways to solve stress:

Write down the most stressful thing (3 things) and choose the biggest of the three.

Posture: Stress is the source of all diseases, learn to relieve stress, assume that this pressure (i.e. this thing) has been resolved, use your imagination, which requires many exercises; Or often look up at the sky or go for a walk to the sea, looking for a feeling of getting back to nature, because humans evolved from the blue ocean.

**: Listen to subliminal tapes and use the waves of the human brain to relax yourself. Thank you.

1. Remember what should be remembered and forget what should be forgotten. Change what can be changed, accept what can't.

2. In addition to tears, it is time to wash away everything, and time to move feelings, the longer the time, the lighter the conflict, as if it is constantly diluted tea.

3. Complaint is the greatest offering from Heaven to mankind, and it is also the most sincere part of human prayer.

4. The price of wisdom is contradiction. It's a joke that life plays on its outlook on life.

5. The girls in the world always think that they are proud princesses (except for a few extremely ugly and a few extremely intelligent girls).

6. If the enemy makes you angry, it means that you are not sure of defeating him.

7. If a friend makes you angry, it means that you still care about his friendship.

8, Ling Hu Chong said, "There are some things that we can't control, so we have to control ourselves." ”

9. I don't know what I'm doing right and what is wrong, and I didn't know that until I finally died of old age. So all I can do now is try to do everything well and wait for old age to die.

10. Maybe some people are hateful, and some people are despicable. And when I put myself in his imagination, I realized: he is more pitiful than me. So please forgive all the people you have met, good or bad.

11. The fish said to the water that you can't see my tears, because I'm in the water The water says I can feel your tears because you're in my heart.

12. Happiness should be accompanied by sadness, and there should be sunny weather after the rain. If it rains after rain, if sorrow comes after sorrow, let us face this parting calmly. Smile and look for an impossible you!

13. Death teaches people everything, just like the results announced after the exam Although it is suddenly realized, it is too late!

14. When you were born, you cried and the people around you laughed; When you die, you laugh and the people around you are crying! Everything is reincarnation! We are all in reincarnation!

15. There are very few women who men feel that they are suitable for themselves before marriage, and there are many women who feel suitable for themselves after marriage!

In fact, optimism is your own attitude.

Think more about happy things, think about things as simple as possible, don't complicate them and think less about unhappy things, treat life with a positive attitude every day, treat friends, and interact with others with a sincere and grateful heart, in addition, I think life should be as full as possible, and feel happy from every little detail of life, you will become an optimistic and cheerful person.

It's entirely up to you.

First of all, have a healthy and positive mindset! Do more good deeds! For example, you are walking and someone (farmer or ,,, passes by and pulls a cart of watermelons, and he is pulling very hard!

What should you do? Be? Be?

What should you do? That's when you have to help him. Then you will feel happy.

I thought you were at least a positive person, taking the initiative to find happy things.

But happiness is not a smile on the surface, it is a pleasure from the heart, I believe that no one will think that they are an eternal lucky dog, everyone is the same, since there is indeed so much helplessness in the world, you are not the same when you are unhappy, hehe, be happy, maybe many things are not so bad!

Only simple will be happy, I wish you happiness!

You can see that you really have something on your mind, and I don't dare to say that what I said is really useful, but you can try it, at least you must first understand why you are sad, and then talk about it.

I think I'm at fault no matter what's going on, and then I let myself try to do everything well, and I never blame anyone or anything, because I find that it annoys me, and I don't have that qualification right now, and I've always thought that the most effective way is to do a few good things every day, which really makes me very balanced and happy. But you try. My QQ number is 468440309, let's talk about it if you can.

Happiness is relative, it depends on one's mood, if the heart is happy, everything is good. On the same cloudy day, if you are in a good mood, you will feel comfortable, and if you are in a bad mood, you will be depressed.

Let the heart be open, and everything will be fine!

The bread is there, and the house is not far away, right?

Greeting everyone he knew, showing a big smile, the corners of his mouth raised in a just perfect arc

To be good to others is to be good to yourself, and optimism is close at hand!

Appreciate other people's smiles.

Give yourself a reason to be happy every day.

For example: I have a healthy body.

The weather is good today.

Listening to ** can become optimistic.

Treat it with a happy mood.

Dig into the good side of everything.

Optimism is an attitude towards life.

Tolerance is a source of optimism.

Self-confidence is the driving force of optimism.

A smile is a sign of optimism.

Hobbies are optimistic and practical.

Mood is an aid to optimism.

Love is the only thing that is optimistic.

Just think about everything for the better!

Look at everything as plain

If you have a good mood, you are optimistic

Happy every day).

Lovers travel, in the journey together, will leave each other's various memories, if the trip is happy, it will be a very beautiful thing in life. On the contrary, if the trip is not pleasant, it will consume each other's feelings.

The journey of two people is like experiencing life together

In the process of starting this life, there are many things that need to be done by two people together. There will be many details of the trip process, and if you can't get along, the relationship between the two people will be suddenly reversed. If the shoes that don't fit are uncomfortable to wear, they will slowly want to change them, and in the process of experiencing their feelings together, they will not be able to get rid of each other, and they will also want to escape.

Traveling between two people is an important time to test how well they understand each other.

If each other is on the way to travel, each of them is willful to do what they want to do, without taking into account and cooperating with the other half's thoughts, the atmosphere of the trip will be messed up, the mood will become very depressed, carefully planned to experience a romantic and wonderful trip for two people, but because there is no sense of tacit understanding, it becomes a gamble, awkward twisting trip, and the taste of natural travel will all change. Feelings bumped and bumped in this trip, and it was inevitable that they would be severely tested. If you don't work well with each other, it can turn into a bad experience.

Traveling with two people is also a time to test each other's tolerance and understanding

If a person is in the journey, because he does not cooperate with the other half, the result is all kinds of dislike, impatient with each other, not enough tolerance and standing in the other party's perspective to think about the problem, always self-centered, and cold when encountering problems, then the travel experience process must be a kind of torture, not enjoyment. Just like during the journey, if someone accidentally falls, if the other party can't understand her pain, but blindly blames the other party for not even walking well, she will naturally feel cold.

Because during the trip, you can see whether the other party can take better care of you in the future, and test your patience.

Because when you travel, you can see a lot of details about each other, and you will get to know each other better.

It's because in the process of traveling, you will find many shortcomings in the other party.