What is the heart of a person who is giggling on the outside

Under the lonely man. They usually have quite a lot of friends, they also like to be lively, and they are the pistachios of the group; But they are often very afraid of loneliness, and when they really have something on their minds, there is no one to confide in, and it is easy to feel disappointed and lonely. Are you one of those people?

Take a look at the following points, do you also have a relationship?

Getting along with different people has different personalities.

Although everyone has a more or less private and superficial personality, this type of person may be more delicate and considerate of others, always stand in the position of others, and try to understand the thoughts of others, cooperate with the interlocutor in attitude, and speak in the way that the other person likes, and let themselves live uncomfortably.

Because I like to bring joy to others, sometimes I care too much about the preferences of others, and I make myself not a human inside and out, or I care too much about making myself too tired. People who always make everyone happy are actually very lonely in private, because they are too afraid of losing other people's love for themselves, and they are always pandering to others.

Some people are giggling on the outside, but they hide the pain on the inside.

Of course, there will be such a part of people, they are actually very lonely in their hearts, as for the appearance of giggling, it is actually a manifestation of the desire to socialize, but. They are at all times. I can't control the sadness in my heart, in fact, because no one can really enter their inner world, many people are.

When necessary, maintain normal social interactions, but are eager to be read inside. But very few people can get into their hearts, so they will present two very different, big contrasts. This kind of person really exists, and it will be especially obvious in the younger people, because the older people sometimes have it.

Laughing and laughing and numb, I don't know what I want at all, already.

Yes, there are many such people, especially young people nowadays, who in a large part of the situation, actually refuse to socialize ineffectively, but many of them do not have the courage and the courage to try to take this step. Keep those ineffective social interactions away from you, and most of them want to go with the flow. to deal with those ineffective socializations, so it leads to the surface, giggling.

But he is lonely and helpless in his heart, like a child trapped on an isolated island. There are many such people among young people, but if you can't get into his heart, you won't know what kind of person he is.

It is true that some people are very cheerful and gregarious on the outside, but they are very lonely in their hearts, because he is forcing himself to behave so lively and cheerful in order to get more friends.

That's true. Some people are festive and lively on the outside, but in fact, they are often hiding their deep sorrows.

Yes, there are a large number of people, the happiness shown on the outside is just a cover for the loneliness inside!

Some people may be more introverted, but they are afraid that the atmosphere will be more embarrassing, so they will enliven the atmosphere, but in fact, they are still relatively lonely inside!

Yes, some people are.

You're absolutely right! A person who is lonely at heart seems to be very active on the surface, because he (she) uses the appearance that he or she is very active to hide his (her) loneliness in the depths of his (her) heart.

Looking at it in two phenomena, some people look giggling on the outside, but it doesn't mean that he has a big personality, maybe this is just an external performance, a way for him to do things, but another situation that he really cares about in his heart is that people who look giggling are grinning on the outside, and they don't care about right and wrong.

Are you tired? What the hell are you hiding every day? Is it loneliness?

Is it helplessness? Is it sad? Or are you afraid?

Why do you always look dispensable in the face of what you care about? Why do you always say duplicity? Why do you know that those are all perfunctory to you, but you still tell him about your deeds, and he just responds to you with "oh", you hate his "oh", you hate other people's perfunctory, hate waiting, in every minute of waiting, time goes so slowly, so slow that you are afraid...You care a lot, but you still have to pretend that you don't care; I like it very much, but I still stubbornly say I hate it; Obviously angry, but still smiling and saying it's okay; I'm obviously scared, but I still have to force myself to say that it doesn't matter...You are afraid of losing, afraid of being discarded, afraid of facing the night alone, afraid of being lonely and lonely, afraid of being lost...Every time you lose something, a friend, you will be confused and overwhelmed, but you skillfully use a smile to hide the fear in your heart, fear...Are you for the sake of your own face?

For the sake of your own stubborn temper? Or is it to show your generosity? Feeling tired?

Why don't you speak your mind? Afraid of rejection? Afraid of being laughed at?

Afraid of embarrassing yourself? Afraid of falling again? Why can't you even fight for your own happiness?

Why are you indifferent to watching others take away your happiness bit by bit? Is it that you don't care? Then why do you secretly hide under the quilt and sob...Why do you only choose to watch over your happiness in silence?

Why do you have to care about whether others have been injured by you after you have been injured by others? Do you know how stupid you are like this? Why did he leave you step by step when he saw you, and you didn't keep him?

Do you really care? Then why do you shed tears when you look at his back? You say that you want him to stay for you, not begging him to stay for you, knowing that he doesn't belong to you anymore, and you have to let go even if the loss hurts...Why don't you cry out loud?

Why is it that when you look up again, it's a smile again, and that smile is full of tears...Why do you always want to disguise yourself tightly...But you still feel the heartache? You fantasize about a sense of security, a happiness that is completely yours. You don't like to fight with others, others are active, but you like to be passive, you fantasize about happiness coming to you....You smiled silly, smiled contentedly....You're tired of laughing, it's time to rest, don't be naïve enough to think that others will see through the sadness hidden behind your smile, because each other is just passers-by, just strangers after passing by, that's all...Like, you can't see through others, and you won't change yourself for whom, what to do for whom...Please put away your hypocrisy, pick up your loss, and let go of the ...... nowRe-do the real you ......

The lonely man looks giggling on the surface, the reason is that he doesn't want others to see through his heart, he wants everyone to feel that he is happy, and even at this moment, he wants to make himself feel that he is happy, he is funny and humorous, he shines, he is the focus, he is in the sight of everyone, but through the depths of his funny soul, his sadness is hidden deep there, he can please everyone including himself, but in the dead of night, when everyone leaves, He couldn't escape and hid into the dark side of his emotions, he saw a self who was not understood, sad, lonely and depressed!

But not all superficially happy people are like that! Some people are really simple, happy, and give a little sunshine and it will shine!

Such a person has super self-control, can afford to put it down, and treats life with a sunny side.

The happier a person is, the more afraid he is of loneliness.

The more people like to sleep, the more they use sleep to escape reality.

Forgetful people use forgetting to numb the feelings they once had but later lost.