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I think that postpartum anxiety, including postpartum depression, is a widespread but also widely ignored phenomenon, which is unfair to women who are experiencing childbirth and suffering from emotional distress.

It can be seen from the ** that the woman who angrily eats instant noodles on the high-speed train is obviously out of control, and in a public place, she is so emotionally excited, fiercely criticized and blamed a stranger, and in front of young children, it is no longer a normal person who can control her emotions and behavior. In fact, we also learned in the follow-up report that the woman said in an interview that she had communicated with the man who ate instant noodles many times at that time, and her child was allergic to instant noodles and discouraged the other party from eating instant noodles, but the other party insisted on not listening, and deliberately did not pour it out after eating, and the woman lost control of her emotions.

From the report, we can see that the woman was afraid that her child would be allergic to the man who ate instant noodles because she had a conflictAlthough her approach was inappropriate, her anxiety about her child and postpartum anxiety caused her to be emotionally fragile and irritableNot to mention scolding, there are also many women who commit suicide with children after postpartum depression.

Why do women have postpartum anxiety?

Having a child, the trajectory and role of a woman's life has changed significantly,Taking care of a baby waiting to be fed day and night not only makes women physically and mentally exhausted, but also makes the mother almost lose herself, leave work, leave social, leave everything she loves, and watch a small baby who can only cry and defecate all day long, and some people are difficult to adapt to this transition. Moreover, being a first-time mother, endless love for children, and lack of parenting experience will also make women extremely anxious, mothers are most afraid of their children getting sick, and a small cold and cough will make mothers worry and feel distressed.

If the mother does not receive the understanding and support of her family, the postpartum anxiety will worsen and even collapse.

Although this woman is wrong, because of her special situation, we should still be more understanding and tolerant.

I didn't see the postpartum anxiety of this "roaring girl", I only saw her selfish side.

First of all, there is no document or provision that says that instant noodles cannot be eaten on the high-speed rail, not to mention, instant noodles are not a particularly flavorful food. When I was on the high-speed train a few days ago, there were several passengers eating instant noodles in the carriage.

I think that since there is no explicit prohibition, it means that it is not impossible. Everyone agrees that it can be eaten. At this time, you stand up and say that you can't eat it, what is the reason?

Secondly, if you are not allowed to eat, it must be from your point of view. Since it's your own reasons, then you should communicate with them well. I believe that everyone is more tolerant of people with children. If you can talk well, everyone will cooperate.

After all, this is not a big deal, and everyone can negotiate a solution.

And in public, such a big noise also affects everyone.

Finally, as a person, I try not to eat smelly food in public. I think it's a form of respect. The man who ate instant noodles, after the "roaring woman" accused her, did behave inappropriately.

After all, I ate instant noodles by myself. Although I think the reason why children are "allergic" to instant noodles is a bit strange, since it affects others, it is better not to go too far.

At the end of the day, it's all a consequence of miscommunication.

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Postpartum anxiety doesn't want to carry this pot, this is no quality.

The additives behind instant noodles are clearly written on the ingredients: oils, capsaicin, salt, monosodium glutamate, flour, vegetables, Sichuan peppercorns, water, carbon dioxide, nitrogen or noble gases.

These ingredients are very common and are not easily allergenic.

It is not known which ingredient the child is allergic to, because any of the allergies will make life very difficult for the child later in life.

Common protein allergies, for example, can lead to diarrhea, abdominal pain, vomiting, and possibly anaphylactic shock. People with protein allergies are usually very careful about their diet and try to avoid foods that contain protein. <>

Another example is starch allergy, which is due to phenylketonuria, which does not have the enzymes needed to break down starch in the body, which will affect intellectual and physical development. Patients with starch allergy must have a special diet, and if they eat a little starch, the consequences will be unimaginable. It's no longer about affecting everyday life.

This parent did make a little fuss, the child may vomit when he smells the instant noodles, but this is indeed not an allergy, the child did not eat it, but smelled it in the air, where did the allergy come from.

Is it true that if your children are allergic to dog hair, you should ban dogs in the whole community? Or maybe a person with a dog hair allergy walks down the street and wants to kill every puppy he sees.

Although the high-speed rail does not clearly stipulate that instant noodles are not allowed to be eaten, the ventilation of the high-speed rail is very good, and the instant noodles smell does not affect a wide range, and it will soon dissipate.

The mother in the news felt that her child was allergic to instant noodles, so she could take the child to the ventilated place for a walk, or politely tell the neighbor that her child was uncomfortable smelling instant noodles, and whether she could go to the ventilated place to eat it and come back. An adult with a conscience will also make concessions when he knows that eating instant noodles will affect others. But if the other party uses an aggressive attitude, who would want to be polite?

A person's quality is written in his own behavior, no matter how bad he is, he can't scold the street like this, let alone bring out such nonsensical reasons.

Whether this mother is depressed after giving birth is uncertain, but it should be that she has emotional problems after giving birth, or in the process of taking care of her child for a long time, she has accumulated a lot of pain in her heart, but she can't be relieved for a long time.

From **, it can be seen that this mother's emotional processing ability is very poor, and the more she talks, the more excited she becomes, the more difficult it is to calm down. This is definitely not the normal state of this mom! We can say that this accusation and these words are rude, but should we pay more attention to whether she has mental illness?

I have a live-in close friend from college who has very good grades. But after graduating for a few years, she has not been able to find a suitable job, and her family conditions are poor, so she has become more and more depressed. She began to scold people, babbling nonsense on QQ and WeChat, saying things such as:

Your whole family is cannibal! You're a bad guy! You go and graze!

And so on and so forth! Everyone blacked her out, I risked my life to visit her, she said that she looked at the ceiling and felt like the world was spinning, her mood was good and bad, and she knew that she was scolding people but she couldn't help but continue to scold!

Later, I informed her that her family had brought her back to her hometown. She disappeared for 2 years and reconnected with me this year. She told me that she was mentally ill and was hospitalized for 2 years. Now I can come out and work normally, but with regular check-ups and regular pills!

Everyone has their own pressures, but not everyone has a strong ability to self-de-elige and meet someone who can listen to them, especially when a mother is a woman, and there are many times when they can't be understood. This mother may be one of the unfortunate ones!

This may have something to do with postpartum anxiety, but this kind of performance is inseparable from the usual personal qualities.

There is only one paragraph, and there is only so much information we can get, and the cause of the incident is because of a bowl of instant noodles. There are relatively few people who eat instant noodles on the high-speed rail, but it's not nothing, I really haven't heard of the rules that don't allow you to eat this, maybe some people will say go to the dining car, the dining car on the high-speed rail is generally not enough, and many people without seats will choose to buy a meal and eat or rest there slowly. If it's a long journey, I think it's normal to bring two servings of instant noodles by yourself, and I don't care about anything when someone eats it, so why magnify things like this.

The high-speed rail is sealed, and whatever you eat will have a taste, maybe the instant noodles taste a little bigger, some people don't like it, consider the feelings of others and try to go to the junction of the carriage or go to the dining car to see if there is a place, both sides may be wrong, but the woman in ** is indeed a little excessive, has been noisy, constantly swearing, and the man is very polite.

I heard someone say in ** that it seems that people eat instant noodles during the Chinese New Year, which is not easy. That's right, for the New Year, why be intolerant, keep saying that others have no morality, have you examined yourself when you say it, eating instant noodles will affect others, so shouting loudly won't it, and even shouting in the end.

If it's because of the child's problem, I calmly discuss with someone and say that the child is here, I'm really embarrassed if I can eat in a different place, I think most people will change places or simply not eat. **After the man said that you still know that you have children, the woman directly said that my child is about your, so you say it's none of my business, do I still need to consider your feelings, as a parent, the child is yelling and swearing next to him, what kind of example does he set for his child?

In my opinion, the behavior of the growler woman is purely selfish and impolite, and has little to do with postpartum depression. It is understandable that the mother is caring for her son, and she can also make friendly reminders and suggestions, but the behavior of roaring and blaming others is really unrefined and selfish.

Let's talk about whether her child will be allergic. If her child does have allergies, the child's rights should be upheld. The passenger ate instant noodles on the bus, which is also the right of the passengers.

In this case, the mother should not stand on a high ground or speak to other passengers with a "I am weak, I am justified" attitude. Because of her impolite behavior, the passenger's mood changed and she continued to eat instant noodles. If this behavior caused her child to fail, then in the final analysis, the mother also has no responsibility.

If her child doesn't have allergies, or if bubbles don't affect her child that much, then she is bluffing so much, it is selfish. In this case, the passenger enjoys the rights that should belong to her, but she bluffs and tries to deprive others of their rights because of her own selfish interests. Although she may have done this out of her love for her son, it was a kind of deprivation of rights for others.

This is completely selfish and unethical. <>

We can understand her behavior because she suffers from postpartum anxiety, but it does not ignore the public interest. If we blindly accommodate, we can only let those who have a sense of public morality or those who pay attention to public rights suffer, and let those who are only interested in profit take advantage of them. Therefore, this kind of thing should be handled fairly.

It has nothing to do with postpartum anxiety, it's just an excuse for my impulsiveness at the time!

Children who are allergic to instant noodles can communicate well with others, and I believe they can understand and cooperate, but there is no need to scold people. Such a mother has a great influence on her children! <>

For her children, I don't know if the taste of instant noodles has a big impact on her, or if her mother quarrels and scolds people. Don't put your rights above others! You can do whatever you want at home, don't come out and be embarrassed!

If someone else is influencing you, think about whether you are influencing others! Don't be too pretentious in everything!

If the economic conditions allow, how many people are willing to eat instant noodles if there are other more delicious things, eat instant noodles on the high-speed rail, and if the lid is not completely torn off after soaking, the lid can slightly block the smell of instant noodles, and after eating, re-cover the lid and throw it away immediately. <>

To be honest, most people are really disgusted by eating something big in public, and the smoke makes people feel disgusting and want to vomit, but never say anything about others when they encounter this situation. I can only move around from time to time to relieve myself. If I was holding the baby, I would go to another carriage to play for a while, and then come back later!

As for this, vixens are the same! All things, without affecting others, are your own freedom.

Eating instant noodles on the train has always been an old tradition of our people, although now there are high-speed trains and bullet trains, and all aspects such as carriages and environment are advanced, but people should still eat instant noodles. Actually, I personally dislike eating instant noodles in the car, the taste is too choking, just like a leek box. Originally, you listened quietly to the wonderful **, looking at the moving**, and suddenly a sour and spicy instant noodle smell rushed over, what is this feeling!

1.The attitude is too fierce, too bad, and unreasonable. Others eat instant noodles, no matter how disgusted and annoying you are, you won't come out with such an attitude, it's just four words:

Fierce gods! Can't you say something well? If you say it well, others ignore it, then you should do what you should do, after all, you are not a train conductor, nor are you a policeman, you can't care whether people eat instant noodles or not.

This woman is "I have the final say in the world, if you don't listen to me, you will be reversed", and the act of others eating instant noodles made her shout as if she was insane, the scene was too terrifying! In public, this is the case for outsiders, and it is unimaginable what attitude towards one's family is!

2.There is no rule on the high-speed rail not to eat instant noodles. Since the state doesn't have regulations on this, why should you?

Even if you are doing justice for everyone, it is unwarranted and untenable after all! Although the high-speed rail carriage is closed, the air is not circulated, and the smell of instant noodles affects everyone, but no one cares about it. You can't go to the self-appointed police and force others not to eat!