Trust is lost, can it be re established?

I think so, but the process may be a little more difficult than you think.

Harvard Business School professor Frey once shared his experience in a TED talk that there are three key elements to building trust between people and people: authenticity, logical rigor and empathy. If the other person's behavior shakes you up to one of these three key elements during the relationship, your trust in the other person may be greatly reduced.

The first is authenticity. This point is actually very understandable, and I don't think anyone likes someone who always wears a mask of hypocrisy. In the process of dating, you want to gain the trust of the other party, which means that you need to show your true self in the process of dating, in short, you must be sincere.

If you don't show who you are, then it's hard for you to be trusted by the other person.

The second is logical rigor. Logical rigor is more about the ability that you embody in the process of communication. Just imagine, if you communicate with the other person on a topic, and the other party's words flicker and logic is confused when the other person is there, then I think your impression of him must not be good.

On the contrary, if the other party talks eloquently, and the logic is rigorous, and he expounds his own views in points, then after listening to him, you probably have trust in the other party's knowledge.

Finally, there is empathy. Empathy is actually the easiest to shake. The foundation of our trust in a person is the recognition of that person.

If a person does not have empathy when interacting and always thinks from his own point of view, it will be difficult for this person to get a good impression from others. And if you can't even get the most basic impression score, how can you gain the trust of others?

To sum up, if you want to re-establish trust between you and the other person, it is better to start with these three key elements, maintain your empathy, enhance your logical rigor, and finally communicate with the other person sincerely, I believe you will gain something.

Yes, but it will be very difficult, trust can collapse in an instant, but it takes a long, long time to build

If you meet the other half who don't trust yourself, the relationship will be suspicious of each other, and getting along will be very tired.

1. How to restore trust between couples.

1. Even if you don't trust it, it's because these things haven't been solved in the past. If you want to build trust again, you need to make sure that you are not to blame for the past, and don't talk about anything that happened before. It is the mutual pain between the two of us, that we have forgotten all these unhappy things, and I believe that we will undoubtedly trust the other party again.

2. At any time, you must choose your own management center, even if you are a couple, you must feel that you are fair, and you don't have to love someone humbly. If you keep circling around him, that person may look down on you. In order to have a stronger trust, it is necessary for two people to maintain the relationship fairly, and it does not have to rely on the diligence of just one person.

2. Five factors to create a trust flush posture.

1. Learn to empathize and think about it, and consider it for the other party, maybe you can't see a thing very thoroughly, and you can't figure it out. It is necessary to understand the perspective of the other party and discuss it with the other party.

2. If you want to create trust, the first factor must be to trust the other party, and you must open your heartstrings again, so that the person can dissipate and grasp what you think and feel. Cracks.

3. Be cautious, you don't have to yell when you encounter something, you have to have a stronger situation to deal with, so that the other party can feel that you are calm and calm.

4. There must be fun communication between each other, no matter what thoughts you have, whether it is right or wrong, if you tell the other party for the first time, then which excellent person can feel that you still care so much about yourself.

5. Understand that if you make the other party happy, then you can be happy too. Create a trusted friend, and if that person is happy, they will trust you more and more.

What trust is, it's really abstract to describe in words.

In my opinion, trust is a feeling between people, psychological dependence and unconditional trust.

In the interaction between people, because of trust, they will establish deep and pure friendships, make sincere friends, and get the true feelings and intentions of others.

Trust between people is watered, managed, and maintained with sincerity.

If you always consume each other's trust and patience, always hurt each other, and finally make each other completely cold, then it is the end.

Many people, don't wait for it to be lost, only to understand that the most important thing between each other is trust, and then regret it.

A lot of fate, if you miss it, you may never meet a second time.

Many people's relationships with people, once completely broken, will never go back to the beginning.

A lot of sincerity, if it is broken and cold, then it will never be warm anymore.

Between people, no matter what kind of relationship, when you have it, you should cherish each other's feelings, treat them well, and manage each other's trust and relationship with your heart.

In the world of feelings, no one can live without anyone, and there is no one who does not cherish whom, and they just overdraw each other's trust.

Many people who are clamoring to leave, most of them are just bluffing, not really leaving, just trying to get your attention, so that you can keep him, cherish him, and maintain mutual trust.

Only those who disappear quietly are the ones who are really cold, and those who are completely desperate for you are the ones who want to leave.

There are only zero and countless times of deception and lies between people, so there are only 0 and 1 points of trust.

If you deceive me once, then the trust between us is already 0, and I will always doubt it without limit.

When the trust between people changes from 1 to 0When you start to collapse, you lose everything, no matter what you do or what you give, it is difficult to recover, and the cold heart can no longer be warmed.

They may have trusted you very much before, trusted you unconditionally at all times, and put themselves in your shoes.

Now you might go to the bathroom, and I feel like you're doing something sorry for me, replying to someone's message.

Once the trust between people collapses, they will involuntarily doubt this and that infinitely, and uncontrollably fill in many pits without their own control.

The most chilling thing for people may be being hurt by the person they trust and love the most!

I was deceived by the person I loved, although it was uncomfortable, but I still had to live together, but my trust in you has collapsed, I can no longer believe all the words you get, and I may even have all kinds of suspicions and suspicions, which not only make me miserable, but also make the other party physically and mentally exhausted.

The trust between people is like a mirror, once someone breaks it or shatters it, it is completely wasted, and it can no longer be pieced together, and it can no longer be returned to its original state.

May your trust in each other endure forever and your friendship endure forever.

For the rest of your life, learn to cherish the happiness and feelings you have in life, cherish the moment, and live every day well.