Faced with my runaway husband, did I make the right choice?

If you have problems just after getting married, you can only say that your vision is too bad, or that women in love are stupid.

It is obvious that your husband is very immature and especially self-centered, and such a person is rarely able to understand other people's feelings.

The letter was too long, and most of them were complaining and unable to express themselves.

I agree with your approach, first separate for a while, distance produces beauty, hehe.

The meaning of this letter can be the same, but the content can be changed, and the places where he is not deleted will be deleted, because it is meaningless, and he will correct it because of your complaints? Impossible, impossible, human nature is like this, it is difficult to accept criticism, for the sake of his man's dignity and face, he will definitely not accept it.

Let's see after a period of separation, if he doesn't cherish the marriage, then end it, it's as simple as that.

Alas, you should think it out before you get married.

In favor of the upper third floor. There is no need to count down his no, past experience has proven useless. Just show your attitude and your decision.

Let's take a look at it separately for a while, if he still doesn't grow, runs away when he encounters trouble, and has no sense of responsibility, then you choose to leave. Otherwise, you will not have a peaceful and comfortable life, and you are the one who has been wronged! Being unhappy is bad for your health.

I understand you very well, "speaking out is inevitably complaining, and if you don't say it, you will be accused of not communicating" That's it, he doesn't understand you, in fact, every family will have such problems, and it's nothing. The problem is that he is a man who does not dare to face it, and he will run away when he encounters something, and you will be very tired in the long run, and I want to persuade you to talk about it, but it is estimated that the final result will be unhappy, I support you, as you said, let's take a look at it separately for a while!

I understand your mood now, sister. My man and I have been together for 6 years, and both parents have agreed that we will get married next year. But my man is missing.

He's been away from home for 26 days, and he's also a **no, QQ doesn't open, and his parents don't contact. My man works less than 30 days a year, but at the end of the year, he left a note saying that he was very depressed and would work outside, so don't look for him. And let me try to forget about him.

Let's talk about myself for a while... What a contradiction. I don't even know how to face him.

Facing a man who runs away from home at every turn,,This is the second time he's run away.,Run away when you encounter something... No problem can be solved in this way. Hey, the only thing I'm worried about now is if my man doesn't come back for the New Year.

What should I do? I don't even dare to face my parents now, because I can't tell them about it, and I'm afraid they will be hurt.

Write the key points You are really weak enough A lot of the questions are asked by the wife who ran away You are just the opposite Women should be tough This time I advise you to get married as soon as possible 3 months Too hasty for you You are the female version of the gray wolf Too weak The vision is too bad.

Divorce. To each his own true happiness.

In my opinion, this wife is a cold, ruthless, selfish person. If you don't love your husband, you can choose to divorce. And walking away is the most naïve way to do it.

You're gone, but the gap between the two people remains, and the problem hasn't been solved by your departure. This is very immature and irrational.

As for this husband, he must have regretted it after the quarrel, but he probably never expected that his wife would leave him. Therefore, he began a painstaking search for more than five months.

In this unequal marital relationship, both people are actually victims. Therefore, if they are really not suitable, then get out of this deformed relationship as soon as possible, so as not to suffer for both parties. Divorce is also a way to stop losses in time.

Maybe if you leave each other, you will find a wider world.

I guess everyone's choice is different. But I know that I hope that you can live a good life and not regret the choices you made.

I also hope that the couple can face the problems of both parties, actively communicate and solve the problems.

I think this wife should not want to continue living with her husband, so the wife will run away from home, and the husband has been looking for 5 months and has not found his wife, which means that the wife wants to divorce.

I think this husband must love his wife very much, otherwise he would not have been looking for five months, hoping that he would find her sooner rather than later.

I think the husband has a deep affection for his wife, and the wife doesn't take her husband to heart, which is why she behaves like this.

If one party runs away from home and the other party files for divorce, then the people's court generally conducts the trial in accordance with the ordinary procedures. The specific procedures are usually as follows: 1. The party suing for divorce needs to write a divorce complaint and submit it to the people's court; 2. The people's court will file a case if it meets the requirements for filing a case; 3. Mediation.

Generally, after the people's court accepts the case, it will first conduct mediation between the parties to see if an agreement can be reached; 4. Judgment. If it is not possible to reconcile, the court will grant the divorce.

Laws. Civil Code of the People's Republic of China Article 120: A complaint shall be submitted to the people's court for prosecution, and a copy shall be submitted in accordance with the number of defendants.

Where it is truly difficult to write a complaint, the complaint may be filed orally, and the people's court will record it in the record and inform the opposing party.

If you still have questions about this issue, it is recommended that you organize the relevant information and communicate with a professional in detail. Lihu.

Divorce is everyone's right, and it is also possible for a husband to file for divorce if he runs away from home. First of all, you can file a divorce lawsuit with the court, and the court will notify the parties to serve after accepting it, if the service is unsuccessful, the court will announce the service, and the court will choose a date to conduct the trial after the expiration of the notice period, and if it is believed that the relationship between the husband and wife has indeed broken down, the court will make a judgment according to the specific circumstances. If the husband has been declared missing, the court can also make a judgment in accordance with the law.

[Legal basis].Civil Code of the People's Republic of China Article 1076 Where a husband and wife divorce voluntarily, they shall sign a written divorce agreement and apply for divorce in person at the marriage registration authority.

The divorce agreement shall clearly state the parties' expression of intent to divorce voluntarily and the consensus on matters such as child support, property, and debt handling.

1. Divorce can be divorced by agreement or litigation. 2. After the two parties reach an agreement on issues such as divorce, child support, property and debt disposal, the two parties shall register the divorce with the civil affairs bureau where the husband or wife's household registration is located. Provide the ID cards, marriage certificates, household registration books, and divorce agreements of both parties.

3. If the divorce cannot be agreed upon, the divorce shall be filed with the court. Litigated divorce is usually filed in the court of the other party's place of residence, and the other party's place of residence is not the same as the place of habitual residence, and the lawsuit is filed in the court of the other party's place of habitual residence. Provide ID cards, marriage certificates, lawsuits, and evidence of broken feelings.

The court's criterion for determining divorce is whether the relationship between the husband and wife can be truly broken, and if this criterion is met, the divorce should be granted. If there are circumstances limited by Article 32 of the Marriage Law, the relationship between the subordinate husband and wife has indeed been broken. The court will determine the ownership of the child on the basis of the de facto requirements of both parties on the basis of the principle of being conducive to the child's development.

However, when a child is less than two years old, it is usually given priority to the mother's care, and the court will also consult the child when he or she reaches the age of 10. If one party is raising the child, the other party has the right to visit and pay child support. The standard of alimony, if there is a fixed income, maintenance is usually paid at 20 to 30% of the fixed income; If there is no fixed income, the court shall make a comprehensive determination based on the child's actual expenses, the local standard of living, and the economic status of both parties.

In the case of divorce, joint property and debts are usually divided equally, and personal property and debts belong to the individual, but the woman and the child are taken care of. If there are no or both parties have the circumstances specified in Article 46 of the Marriage Law, they shall not compensate each other at the time of divorce; Otherwise, the innocent party has the right to claim compensation from the wrongdoer. If one party has financial difficulties, he or she may request the other party to provide financial assistance at the time of divorce.

If the dowry is registered and co-ordinated, the dowry is usually not required in the event of divorce, unless the man can prove that the payment of the dowry has caused hardship.

Article 1079 of the Civil Code of the People's Republic of China: Where one of the spouses requests a divorce, the relevant organizations may conduct mediation or directly file a divorce lawsuit with the people's court. People's courts hearing divorce cases shall conduct mediation; If the relationship has indeed broken down and mediation fails, the divorce shall be granted. In any of the following circumstances, if mediation fails, a divorce shall be granted:

1) bigamy or cohabitation with another person; (2) Committing violence or abusing or abandoning family members; (3) Having gambling, drug abuse, or other vices that have been repeatedly taught; (4) They have been separated for two years due to emotional discord; (5) Other circumstances that lead to the breakdown of the relationship between husband and wife. Where one party is declared missing and the other party initiates divorce proceedings, the divorce shall be granted. Where, after a people's court has ruled that divorce is not permitted, the parties have been separated for one year, and one party initiates divorce proceedings again, the divorce shall be granted.