Should I choose to maintain a family without feelings, or choose to be separated and left alone? 20

His behavior is already mutilating the child, and you two are tired of it, even if you two disguise it well, the child will feel it, but he just doesn't say it.

As long as you give a single parent, the hobbies you give are always better than his influence.

Separation must have an impact on the child, but I still feel that my life is the most important, if you are unhappy for a long time, it is impossible to ensure that your child grows up in a healthy environment, it is better to take it yourself, I am also divorced, when the divorce, the child is about the same age, as long as you care more about the child, tell the child the reason for the separation of the parents, I believe the child will understand, the child will have his own future life.

I recommend taking children alone. Children's growth requires a happy and happy environment! At the same time, you need to have your own future!

。。It's okay, my family's situation is a bit similar to yours, the main thing is to look at the child, he is independent and sensible, the contradiction between you is gone, don't give up, the child is most afraid of this kind of thing. It's very likely that you will ruin him, and you will stick to it like this, but it will be good for the child.

In the future, he is happier than a single-parent family and more independent than the average family, and there are children, the family conditions will be better, you have to educate the child well, he uses beating, then you use love, the child understands, you are relaxed, education first. I really sympathize with you, my parents are a bit like you now, that is, my dad only beats me, not my mother, and later, when I get older, it's okay, my husband or something is casual to him, ignore, the child is first, focus on him and everything will not be bitter, I sincerely wish you happiness, your husband is too much to find his parents, not to find the Women's Federation, someone will always clean him up, don't be afraid.

The key is whether the husband and wife really have no affection for each other. Many divorced families say that the husband and wife have no feelings and choose to divorce. As a result, after the divorce, I found out that there was still affection between the husband and wife.

It's just that there is something wrong with the relationship between the husband and wife. It was not patched in a timely manner. Besides, even good couples can also have visual fatigue after many years of marriage.

That is, there are periods of fatigue in marriage. Both men and women of this period had a feeling of wanting to break out of the siege. Therefore, marriages in this period are most prone to emotional transfers.

Therefore, with the intervention of a third party, many couples empathize and fall in love. Causing the disintegration of the family. Now that you feel that your husband and wife have no feelings, you might as well calm down and think about how beautiful it was when you were in love, and the husband and wife can find the lost relationship together.

Besides, now that you have children, if you don't have children, you can say goodbye, and if you have children, you can't say goodbye! Because marriage is responsible. How many children from divorced families suffer from spiritual torment, and how many children from divorced families are happy?

So now it's too late to find that there is a problem in the relationship between husband and wife, and the husband and wife face it together and think of a way together. Reflect on yourself, it's not too late to make amends! I advise you to weigh the pros and cons and choose carefully!

You love your child, then think about it for him Now we adults are under a lot of pressure, and it is distressing to let him be hurt by you at such a young age. It's better for you to treat your husband as air and raise your children wholeheartedly. Live your mother's life.

He threatens the child, and you know that you are not willing to give up the child. It's the same for women, and I understand your feelings. How long a person's life is, but I know how awkward it is to live with someone I don't love.

When your child goes to college, he has nothing to blackmail you. For such a long time, I advise you to maintain a healthy mindset and be kind to yourself and your children.

For the sake of the child, you might as well put up with it. After all, you used to have feelings, and I believe that it is not to the point of breaking off, and since he let you both choose, it means that you still have feelings.

You still have children, even if you want a child after the divorce, you will also have a shadow in your heart about the child, which will have a bad impact on him for life, and you may still hold a grudge against you, no child from a single family will be normal.

The impact of divorce on children is a lifetime You have to think about it clearly Are you really to the point where you can't get along with your husband Think about it from other people's perspectives.

Let's see if there's a situation to be salvaged, and if it really doesn't work, we're talking about divorce.

Marriage can only be married by people who are destined to marry, and you have children. No matter who the child is with, he (she) is the most hurt one, there is no happy childhood, or the childhood that should have been happy has been cast a shadow because of this, which is a shadow of growth for the child, an indirect blow.

Poor boy.

Divorce is actually more devastating to children than it is to adults.

Children want a complete family and want you to be cautious.

Since he still has feelings for you, let's try to get back to how I felt before. After all, marriage is not easy.

Hey, I feel the same way! Isn't there a saying, marriage itself is a mistake! Make do with it! Don't stand on this mountain and look at that mountain high! ok?

It's easy to do, you may still have feelings for your husband, otherwise go through the legal process: it means that you must have children.

It's okay, it's troublesome to leave

Think clearly, it can be solved through legal means!

Dizzy, how could I get married in the first place,,, it's not suitable for the main separation, and now divorce is not a matter of seeing or not seeing people.

If this is the case, it will only become more and more rigid in the future, and it is up to you to decide whether to persuade or not to dissuade.

It should be better to try to repair it first, after all, the beginning of marriage still requires the run-in and understanding of both parties.

If you really don't have any feelings, it's better to divorce as soon as possible, the more this kind of thing drags on, the more troublesome it becomes.

If you really don't get along, get divorced as soon as possible!There's nothing to be done if it goes on like this!Avoid bringing a lot of damage in the future!

If you still have any nostalgia for her, and feel that she still has hope for you, it is best not to miss this opportunity!You should think about why you have a bad relationship and don't have children? This is the reason for the two of you, just go and correct it!

Forgive those who can forgive, and endure those who can endure first!

I don't know if you're in free love or if you've been introduced by someone else.

If it's really emotionless, then there's nothing to be nostalgic about.

Newlyweds often have a period of emotional run-in, at this time you have to get through, if you don't have any feelings before marriage, then there is no need to continue, don't delay yourself, don't delay each other.

If you don't get along, divide it, it's not always a way to drag it out like this. Come out and talk about it and make it clear, if you have the opportunity, you will be together, and if you can't, you will be divided.

After half a year of marriage and 4 years of separation, are you only 2 months together?

There are many reasons for a bad relationship, and you don't say that there must be your reasons, but the most essential thing should be that there is no common hobby and language, and each other can't go to each other's hearts. Since you are married, try to walk, if you really can't go on, you can leave if you want to, and when you have children, this matter will be more troublesome, a long life, if you can't get along, it's not good for anyone to continue to drag on.

Love is sweet, marriage is tasteless

Are you gone now? I'm in the same situation as you

It's still parents. The child is still young, and there are many opportunities to take care of him in the future. But the parents have been... Alas, it's good to do it yourself.

Choose parents, children will have time to accompany them in the future.

Choose your parents, first of all, because his family is in good condition and can give you a baby, a lot of things that you can't give, so your child will not necessarily suffer, and then, you said, she is not good to the people around you, right. You must be unhappy every day, and since she should not be good to your friend, then your friend will inevitably return to you for his reasons, and be further and further away, so what's the point of you staying there? If you're not happy every day, your parents aren't happy, your friends aren't happy, you might as well leave! ~

I sympathize with your experience, in fact, you were wrong at the time, you took the wrong path for money, which led to the miserable life now, even if you and your husband have a bad relationship, but you can't get rid of the relationship in this life, because you have a child, in fact, if I were you, I would not get divorced, I must stay up for a few more years, he is the second generation of rich, so his family must be rich, you can use your brain from this family in the past few years, and get some money on your body, In this way, you have the ability to take better care of your parents after having money, although money is not omnipotent, but it is also indispensable, just stay up for a few years, and wait for the child to be sensible, remember the mother, and then divorce him, so that even after the divorce you can often contact your children, if the child is so young now, you will leave, then the child will not know who the mother is, even if he knows who the mother is, and you have no feelings.

Marriage is a responsibility, not a child's play

If you could go back and look at yourself.

Zhi's children and wife.

will find that the love they give you is not something she can give.

Since you have chosen your current wife, it means that you love her very much, maybe that feeling of love does not exist or is diluted, but when you encounter difficulties, you will find that this kind of family and love intertwined feelings are incomparable to others.

Think about it.

Don't regret deciding.

I know a man who, like you, left his wife and children without hesitation.

After marrying the woman, they are now very unhappy, and both of them regret it but can't divorce anymore, and now they are separated and single.

Think more about your children ...

It's already irresponsible to make do with a marriage casually. If you divorce and reorganize the family, it will be irresponsible for the second time...

If you don't have children, forget it. This has the worst impact on the child...

I am neither against nor for it.

There is only one word left for you.

The past is always in the past, and if you go to the present, give up all that you have now and look back, it will only be a dead end.

That's going to destroy two homes! I don't support it! How is your relationship with your wife now? Can you live? If you can live! It's better not to get back together!

It's extremely irresponsible for you to do this, and you say that you've always loved each other, so what are you going to marry someone else, and if you're still entangled like this when you're married, you'll regret it later, and everybody will pay the price for the irrational things they've done.

Think about your children and your innocent families.

Persuading him to give up is just persuasion. After all, this is someone's private matter, and we can't decide other people's affairs. As a friend, we can only do this role of persuasion.

No matter what the outcome is. We've done our best. Many things should be self-aware.

If you do it even if you know it's wrong, it's not worth understanding step by step, moral theory, don't you know? Knowing that he is getting deeper and deeper, he still has no hesitation, and in the end he still has to bear the consequences for what he has done!

As a friend, you can only talk about the reason and the likely outcome, and the rest is useless, and she will decide for herself when she knows the pain.

It is recommended that you find more examples of failure as a third party to show this friend, if she still wants to be a man, you might as well go to the man she likes, and if it doesn't work, you have to tell the secret.

Why can't we be good friends together? Since you have a deep affection, do you give up for the same thing? I think you have to think about it.

Tell the big house that the big house will take care of it.

You mean to say that a nice female friend of yours stepped into your family, right? A slap doesn't make a sound, where's your husband?

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