My mother objected to us being together, saying that we were not the right people

Updated on amusement 2024-05-24
35 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    The conditions of your family are also very ordinary, and what do you ask for the right door, two people get married and live together, and the happiness in the future depends on their own hard work, don't think about how much help the woman gives the man, and be self-reliant. You really want to find a rich one, it's good to meet a good wife and mother, and meet a princess, you don't need to say that you want to get it yourself. Money is very important, but money is not everything, and a happy and long-lasting marriage is not based on money.

    The reason why you are asking here is because you yourself are also wavering, and I hope you see the facts clearly and do not miss a good woman.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    Marriage is your own. She's marrying you, not marrying your family. Happiness is earned by oneself, and money is not the only one!

    Your girlfriend should be family-oriented. And then your parents have to find someone rich ... Hehe, it's hard for me to say anything about your parents.

    But I'll tell you, you can't be wrong by following your own heart. There's no such thing as a doorman. What age is this!!

    Nothing else matters. As long as the person is good, you should also be working, don't you know what women are like in society now. It's good to be able to find a good one, cherish it and don't let her down!

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    The person who will live with her for decades in the future is you, so the decision is up to you, you are a man, and your own conditions are not bad, there is no need to give up the person you love for other practical factors, as long as you are firm enough, your parents will not obstruct it too much, as long as you are happy together, why be afraid of obstruction? Be brave and don't wait until she knows that you have hesitant thoughts, no matter what the outcome, she should not want to know that you have ever wavered.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    This one is a bit of a tricky one. But you still have to communicate well with your parents, really. After getting to know your girlfriend from your parents, maybe your parents will like your girlfriend and make a difference.

    However, if you insist on disagreeing, I think you can still choose to give up. To put it mildly, many friends around me can't get the blessing of their parents, and they are not happy after a long life. The best marriage is when both parents approve and bless.

    But it's up to you. Bless you all.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    What if you don't have the right thing As long as you like her, she likes you too, don't you care if he is right Now your mother seems to be looking out for profit (I hope you don't mind, I'm just saying what I think).

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    My thoughts are also the right one, just having your own love is selfish, and those who do not have the blessing of relatives are unhappy. Besides, if the background is not comparable, even if you get married in the future, everyone's outlook on life, values, and many concepts are different, and you can't be unified, and you will quarrel over time. For example, today is the 5th anniversary of your acquaintance, and you should have gone out to celebrate, because you are usually very busy and have so much energy.

    It should be eating out and watching a movie. But he went and bought you a plate for you to watch at home. Maybe you won't feel anything once or twice, but after a long time, the problem comes.

    Trust me when I say it. Besides, the ancients said that the door is right, maybe you also think it is feudal, but the words of the ancients are not unreasonable. Plus you're not big right now.

    Let's think about it. In fact, the most unbearable people in this world are parents. I'm telling you from my experience, after I broke up with my previous boyfriend, it's also good to have the right boyfriend with my current family, so think about it yourself.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    It's good to be the right person, I'm a young man, not your parents' old mindset.

    When I say that I am at home, I have come to the conclusion after two setbacks.

    In your case, you can get it with a little effort, but it will be very tiring in the future, and both parties will be tired. Careful!

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Let's put it first, you're still studying, you come out and mix it up for a while, and then think about it! Because you're not mature yet, you know?

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Your parents are for your good! They don't want you to get married! You should bring up the breakup. Although this will hurt your boyfriend, it can only be helpless. The reality of this society is not what you can imagine!

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    Every parent wants their daughter to find a rich one, at least the right one, but do you think the love that your mom and dad choose for you will be happy?

    Also, if you find a rich man, he may not be good to you, he will mess around outside, I still hope you think about it

    Find someone you really love, and he really loves you

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    Your boyfriend's parents are some old ideas of their time, after all, they are their only son, of course, they will help him find a daughter-in-law who is the right person, instead of hoping that he will be unhappy and unhappy in the future. I hope the landlord can understand his parents' painstaking efforts, in fact, you don't need to deliberately show their parents, as long as you care about each other, you don't need to pay attention to your parents' opinions, maybe this sentence is a bit excessive. The landlord you just need to show your sincerity to treat each other, you don't need to treat him well in front of his parents or something, there is no need for that, as long as you do what you should do, what you should say is on it, the concept of parents is not so easy to change, or you need the landlord your own efforts, but no matter how hard you work, as long as the other party still cares about you, it will naturally help you tell his parents, as long as the parents are willing to listen.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    Change your boyfriend, if your in-laws don't look at you, it's the beginning of your hard life, and if you get married, you may not know what to do to you.

    Love is not the same as marriage, after marriage, your boyfriend will not ignore your parents' opinions no matter how much your family conditions are not as good as each other, it is a kind of pressure on your parents and relatives, and the other party's relatives will treat you as climbing high branches.

    You can do it yourself, and I'll be a bad person.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    It's easier for you to try to catch up with his condition than to get his mom to get rid of the idea. Either you use your charm to make your boyfriend marry you without caring about anything.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    It takes time, practical action, proof is king, it doesn't make sense to say more, just maintain a good relationship with your boyfriend as a friend,

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    Affection is important in persistence, as long as his mother sees your heart, it will be fine.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    There must be important people in important positions.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    Good boy, he still dreams during the day.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    There is no such thing as love, and if you truly love each other, I believe that nothing can hinder you from loving each other.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    It's up to you, the emotional problem isn't it supposed to be.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    What do you mean? If it's just for the family side, then you should stick to it.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    What era!? Love is free.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    This is an important yardstick to measure whether marriage is suitable since ancient times, but now that we have entered the 21st century, we are all vigorous and good at creating miracles, and the standards of ancient times may not be suitable for us. So, you don't have to care so much about the right person. The 21st century is a stage for people with a long-term vision.

    If you really like him and believe that he can give you happiness, then please give him a chance. The premise is that he must be a three-force youth with strength, hard work, and potential. I hope my advice can help you, and I hope you will be happy in the future...

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    As long as two people are willing, no one can break you up, but you will face many difficulties, especially the conflicts from both families, as long as you solve this problem, I feel that there should be no problem! There is also the premise that you have a deep relationship, don't let anyone think that you are with her because you are rushing for his family's money. You have to learn to be independent, especially financially independent, otherwise, I feel that your life will be very miserable in the future!

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    Being able to be together will come from many aspects of resistance, specific to family, work, friends, and married life.

    It takes two people to show 100% courage to face these resistances, and it is not something that can be solved by a few words from others.

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    Your question is simple, in fact, this is the reality of this society.

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    As long as the boy works hard and the girl's parents know, there will be hope.

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    Struggle to prove it to her.

  28. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    Either get married or break up, it's not what you want to do, it's what she wants to do.

  29. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    It's not what you do, it's what she does.

  30. Anonymous users2024-01-13

    In marriage, is it really important to be the right person?

  31. Anonymous users2024-01-12

    Under normal circumstances, you have to look at the right door, but if two people really love each other, don't care about what is right, as long as the two people can be happy

  32. Anonymous users2024-01-11

    First of all, I want to say that the family is very important for marriage, if two people's family education, personality, outlook on life, and values are all on a high level, then these two people will have a very tacit understanding in life, and they have a common language, of course, the possibility of coming together is very large, and if the gap between two people's family background, education, personality, outlook on life, and values is too large, I think it will be quite difficult for them to come together, because they have a lot less language in life than those couples who have a very tacit understanding This puts a big discount on love, we all know that communication is quite necessary in this society, and love especially needs sincere communication with each other to be maintained, but if two people don't even have a topic to communicate, I think this kind of love will eventually come to an end, it will dry up, so I firmly support the door as a protector is very important for marriage.

  33. Anonymous users2024-01-10

    It may be unimportant for many people, but reality is reality after all.

  34. Anonymous users2024-01-09

    You have to know that although the new is not the same pull! But the family must agree with it!

  35. Anonymous users2024-01-08

    What age is it, and it's still the right one.

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