Mom was against us being together, and my mom wasn t okay with us being together

I support. There are two points.

First, he is very industrious, and a hard-working person will not die of hunger.

Second, he loves you very much, and you love him too, it is easy to find someone to marry, but it is really not easy to find a relationship that is pleasant for both parties.

But these are all advantages in my eyes, I admire his strength, I love him to take me to climb the mountain and bask in the sun, he is very hardworking, which makes me feel that he has developed. Of course, we will not starve to death together, and we want to start a business together, no matter what, we are not afraid. I know the road is hard and I want to break through...

What do you think of the madness of my love like this, am I wrong? It's not easy to meet someone who loves me, and I want to cherish it".

How good it is, you've already made your own approach clear. I still care what the family says" Although the children should think about the feelings of the family. In the end, it is your husband who can raise you and give you pleasure.

The last generation and we were separated by many ditches. When you think about it calmly, you feel like you're on the team. Have pity on our poor children.

Good luck.

Cherish it, and I wish you happiness.

We are next to each other, and I am also confused. I guess it depends on what we think. Think about what you value and need most, and whether you have the strength to go on. I wish we all the right choices.

It's not easy to stick to a relationship.

If you're sure, stick to it.

Take your own happiness into your own hands.

Cut. Does matter have to matter?You think for yourself...

Poverty is short-lived. Dignitaries are poor. You just have to work together. Entrepreneurship will also be successful. When the time comes, you will propose marriage to your parents.

If you really love him, you should stick to it. Parents are thinking about your future, and you have chosen this path, you should be confident enough about the future!! Talk to your parents and they'll understand you!

It's not easy to stick to a relationship, if you really love him or you really believe that he can bring you happiness, please don't give up and love well! Being poor now doesn't mean sticking to your choice in the future and not regretting it!

It's crazy, you have to experience your mother's mood, she doesn't look down on your boyfriend, but is afraid that you will suffer, your love should be very strong, as long as the belief is firm There is nothing that can't be passed You have to be mentally prepared The road is very long and bumpy True love will overcome everything Bless you.

Support your thoughts, but now it's just you need to be calm.

Make a list of all the conditions, and your mom is also thinking about you because she has been through more than you and she doesn't want to see you suffer. Analyze these conditions.

Make your own judgment and believe that you will choose the right path and be strong ...

Bless you!! good luck！

Then this is a test of love for you

If your love can continue without material support and the support of family and friends, it means that your love can stand the test and can live no matter what

If you waver, or if you give up in the face of setbacks, then your love is nothing more than that

In fact, this phenomenon is very normal The key is that your subconscious always feels: Mom doesn't understand anything, what she says is not right. You always unconsciously talk to your mother with this kind of nonsense, and once she says something that doesn't match your thoughts, this subconscious will be even stronger.

And then a quarrel ensued. Of course, it may be that the mother is also in menopause, and at this time she is already prone to anger (which is physiologically regulated). In this way, you will be more susceptible to quarrels.

I also had such an experience, when I was in adolescence, when my mother said a word I wanted to say to her, and if I did something wrong, even if I knew that what my mother said was right, I would stir up three points unreasonably. Afterwards, I would feel very sorry and wanted to apologize to my mother, but Chang couldn't pull it off. Now that I think about it, I was really stupid at that time, and my mother must have been very sad at that time.

In fact, what about the parents in the world who don't want to have a happy conversation with their children every day? Sometimes, it's us who go too far ... Think more about your mother, it's not easy for her

First, you need to be clear that you want to marry your boyfriend.

Second, your mother is against it.

Third, you also want your mother to agree.

Fourth, the reason your mother opposes is that he is out of town.

Fifth, you are very conflicted right now, the problem is not in you, but in your boyfriend's birthplace and your mother's opposition.

Sixth, your boyfriend's birthplace cannot be changed. The only thing that can be changed is your mother's opposition.

Seventh, you now have to try to get your mother to agree and first eliminate her objections. If your boyfriend bought a house in your local area and moved his hukou to your local area, is he still considered a foreigner? This is one of the methods.

Eighth, a person is dissatisfied with a person, to a large extent, there is not enough communication, which requires your boyfriend to cooperate, communicate well with your mother, and get the future mother-in-law done. For example, if you give more gifts, although your mother may not be greedy, it is not strange to have many gifts, and it is a principle to go more times, give more gifts, and this gift should be more expensive, especially in line with your mother's preferences. As soon as she was happy and accepted him, she had no special objection to it if she was out of town.

Ninth, to sum up, the key depends on your boyfriend. Let's do it. Hiding won't solve the problem.

It's hard to buy a lover.

Tell your boyfriend that your mother loves you too much, and is afraid that you will suffer, and always deliberately says that you are not good, and I also hope that you will cherish me.

The decision is up to you, and happiness must be grasped by yourself, and some of them cannot be recovered once they are lost. I hope you think it through for yourself. I wish you happiness.

If you think he's worth gambling with for the rest of your life, then don't give up, because the rest of your life is for the two of you.

If your parents don't agree, it's also for your own good, and if you can live happily and happily, your parents won't be sad.

But if he can't make you make up your mind, then it's better for you to have a long pain than a short pain, and think about it yourself.

In general, it is best to get the consent of your elders in love, especially if you are a girl, it is best to do the work of your parents.

1 Your relationship goes underground, and there may be ups and downs, but as you get older, your mother will be anxious, and it may be relatively easy for you to persevere.

2 Forget if it's not good-looking, I think the key may be because of the house. You can discuss with him if there is a way to solve this, if two people can take out a loan to buy a house first, that is also one of the ways to solve the problem.

3 At this time, boys should be more filial to their parents, and you should always consciously say more good things about your parents in front of them, so as to reduce some of the pressure.

You have to do more work in your family, and tell your parents that if they go to trouble and affect their work, you will be the one who will be unlucky in the end. And you don't want to exacerbate the conflict and persecute your parents too much at this time, you can deal with it coldly first and then see.

Hello! 1. Your mother has a point. It's just that I won't intervene like this, I just suggest.

2. It's a personal matter for the two of you to live. So the key question is in the two of you3, your current considerations: without considering the life after marriage, I can tell you that most people divorce not because they have no feelings, but because of their feelings, because of their dignity, because of all kinds of implications.

Your parents can't let go of their minds. If you are rich and capricious, you can build western-style buildings in the countryside and drive a BMW to be recognized.

Now the only thing that is fortunate is that both of you love each other, and although there are quarrels, it's normal for any couple not to quarrel, and besides, you also said that quarrels won't affect your relationship, is this better?

So now you're going to have to deal with your parents' worries, and if you solve that, you'll be happier.

Since we love each other, everything can be overcome.

My parents are divorced, and my mom and I don't talk much, but it's not like yours. It's because we're busy with each other and tired from going home, and we don't talk to each other. First of all, I want to congratulate you, you don't have the problem of autism as a single parent, you are willing to take the initiative to communicate with your mother, and you love your mother very much, which means that you are very smart and kind.

He complains that you don't have good grades, you have to know that your good grades are a fact, and you don't have to deny yourself because of this. He may do this to keep you from being proud, but also to show his love for you. After all, some parents advocate the education of love, and some people approve of tiger moms and wolf dads.

You have to know that the pressure of a single mother is far greater than you think, the eyes of outsiders, the burden of the family, and the lack of the most basic gender life will cause him to have a strange temperament. He doesn't understand you, and he may really be too tired to take care of your personal preferences, after all, he does the work of both of them. There are only four things you have to do, one, continue to be an excellent self and make him proud of you:

Two, take the initiative to take care of your mother and help her share the housework, three, you may not be willing, but it is best not to prevent him from remarrying: four, if you have something to say to him, writing a letter is a good way, may you have a harmonious family atmosphere.

In a single family, you have to be considerate of your mother, it's hard to earn money outside the home, and your mother wants you to study hard and motivate you.

Remember, when a person is uncomfortable in his heart, he is most likely to lose his temper with the people closest to him, think about yourself, don't you? Keep loving your mom and you'll be fine!! Bless you and your mother...

If you can't say it, you can actually write it Actually, maybe your mother didn't mean it, you said that you understand that she is under pressure at work outside, but you may not be able to fully understand it, be more considerate, and give your mother more love.

Mothers are like this, and so is my mother, and it has nothing to do with divorce. Understand Mom. It's right to love your mother.