Does love need to be simple, or intrigued?

Updated on psychology 2024-05-14
36 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    Love needs to be simple. But at the same time, give yourself space. A secret of your own.

    So in this world you have nothing but one person you love. You also need to have a good friend. Because there are things that can be shared with good friends, but not with loved ones.

    But there is no need for intrigue, if you live like this with each other, it is not love. It's a transaction. Love is great.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    Let the hand hold the hand and quietly turn into a skeleton. When I saw this sentence, I felt creepy. When I read it over and over again, I felt that it was very beautiful and romantic.

    Hold the hand of the son, and grow old with the son. This is the romance since ancient times, three thousand years, only flourishing. In the modern reinterpretation, not only to old age, but also to death.

    What kind of romance is this? When you lie quietly in the cold soil, you will not feel lonely, and you will not regret that you can no longer see this prosperous world, because at this time, under the cold soil, there is a person who cherishes you, lying beside you, holding your hand, warming you with white bones, and accompanying you through another life, this is life and death together. But how many people in the world can really do it?!

    The average survival time of love is only 30 months, and after 30 months, love will die. How long is the promise? Just like food, it can only be effective within a certain shelf life and in a certain environment?

    There is no mountain alliance and sea oath in the world"I love you"If you talk too much, it will become boring; There is no love that is old in the wilderness, and after love expires, it will either transform or die. And what is in the world is to hold her right hand with your left hand and quietly become a skeleton. At that moment, love is eternal.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    Occasional intrigue is still necessary, for the sake of your own happiness, it's right to put more effort into it, right? Can't you fight for your own happiness? But also to the extent that it does not hurt others.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    In real life, it's hard to do simply, and sometimes you have to face hope with intrigue.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    Love needs simplicity. It's trust.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Intrigue is not a modifier that love should have.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Intrigue love will only lead to destruction

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    A simple plain happy sentence line.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    Isn't intriguing love tiring?

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    Love is sacred, falling in love is cultivating feelings, it is mutual, it is not wishful thinking, that kind of love will eventually end in failure, love must be used to each other, not the so-called intrigue, if you do a lot of things for his good, he still has doubts about you, what is the meaning of such love, love is fair! You can be nice to him, very good, very good....If that person has no gratitude at all and thinks that everything is normal, then one day you will feel tired! There are many things that you actually know in your own heart, if you feel that it is impossible for two people to be together, it is better to give up as soon as possible and don't let yourself invest too much and hurt deeper!

    If you think that he is worthy of what you do for him, and if you are worthy of loving him with affection, then love with your heart......I hope you are happy! ......

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    Time will make you understand love, time can prove love, and it can also overthrow love. There is no kind of grief that cannot be alleviated by time.

    If time can't make you forget those you shouldn't remember, what's the point of the years we've lost?

    How nice would it be if all the sorrow, the pain, the failures were fake? It's a pity that there are a lot of false feelings and false meanings in the world, and your own pain, failure, and sorrow are always true.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    If you treat it with a normal heart, you won't be so tired.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    1. Love is so troublesome, because you want to be happier, you will continue to design your love, but when you design your own love, you will find many difficulties.

    2. Love has troubles and sweetness. So don't complain about anything, this is the same as happiness.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    There is no such thing as a free lunch! Don't love if you're annoyed Actually, it's good to be a person At least you won't get hurt and you won't hurt others Because you haven't found true love You should be upset because you care, and when you're not annoyed.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    Love is not troublesome, but when love has love, troubles will ......follow

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    Because you chose love yourself, it's so annoying "brain"!

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    Because love is used to operate and maintain, it is easy to want to love, but it will be difficult to get along, so love is more to protect love in ordinary times, and troubles are episodes of love, savor them, and happiness is behind the troubles.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    With the beginning, troubles will follow.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    In fact, I think it's because you personally see its negative effects, and if you change your mindset to pay attention to it, you will definitely get unexpected surprises. Love is a matter of two people, the key is how to treat and how to operate, when you really fall in love with someone, you will have the courage to face the troubles that love brings you, if there is any problem between two people, we are honest and relatively slow to solve, I believe there will be no big problem, I wish you happiness.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    Love is complicated, but you have a preference for it! There is bitterness and sweetness, cherish it! Don't wait for him to come to the end to regret it!

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    I feel happy at first, but after a long time, I get bored. It's going to be a lot of thoughts.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    Lack of communication, enthusiasm, management, understanding, tolerance.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    When you fall in love, you will try to let the other party know your strengths, so that your brain will be fully mobilized, so you will feel tired, and people will be even more tired!

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    This only shows that you have no true love. True love is to give to each other selflessly and naturally.

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    That's tired enough, and the love is not deep

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    Absolutely!

    Intrigue and wariness of each other, so how can we talk about love?

    It's better to separate sooner.

    Communicate more, maybe he is also for your good, you have to tell him: being honest is for my good, I don't want you to lie to me!

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    Trust and honesty are the prerequisites of love, but this cannot be used as a criterion for judging whether it is true love. Love also needs to understand each other and give enough personal space, so that love is beautiful.

  28. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    It needs to be honest, and not being honest is not love.

  29. Anonymous users2024-01-13

    It depends, sometimes a little kind concealment can make love better.

  30. Anonymous users2024-01-12

    Unless the things he or she is hiding are harmless, it is better to say them. Because paper can't contain fire.

  31. Anonymous users2024-01-11

    Of course, you have to be honest, but you can't be absolutely honest.

  32. Anonymous users2024-01-10

    People live in the world in order to be born and live, life is true and false, so how do you treat it to experience!

  33. Anonymous users2024-01-09

    That's not called fake, but too realistic, anyway, I want to open it, as long as I do things worthy of my conscience, I don't want to regret it the day I left.

  34. Anonymous users2024-01-08

    Eat enough and have nothing to do, you need to have one next door, that's love.

  35. Anonymous users2024-01-07

    In social interactions, it is inevitable that people will suffer, be misunderstood, and be wronged. In the face of these, the wisest choice is to learn to be tolerant. Tolerance is a good psychological quality.

    It not only contains understanding and forgiveness, but also shows bearing and open-mindedness, strength and strength. A person who is not tolerant and only knows how to be demanding of others is often in a state of psychological tension, which leads to nerve excitement, vasoconstriction, and increased blood pressure, making the psychology and physiology enter a vicious circle. If you learn to be tolerant, you will be strict with yourself and lenient with others, which is equivalent to installing a regulating valve on your own psychology.

    Optimism is the elixir of psychological health Optimism is a positive character and state of mind. It can stimulate people's vitality and potential, solve contradictions, and overcome difficulties; Pessimism, on the other hand, is a negative and decadent personality and state of mind, which makes people sad, troubled, and painful, and is helpless in the face of difficulties, affecting physical and mental health.

    Indifferent, that is, tranquil and lacking desires, not pursuing fame and fortune. At the end of the Qing Dynasty, Zhang Zhidong's health name said: "No seeking is a peace of mind"; Bingxin, a famous contemporary writer, also believes that "people are self-exalted when they have nothing to seek".

    This shows that indifference is a lofty realm and mentality, and it is the positioning of the pursuit of life at a deep level. With an indifferent mentality, you will not follow the crowd in the world and chase fame and fortune; There will be no great joy in what is gained and great sorrow for what is lost; will not complain about the world and be jealous. The indifferent state of mind keeps people in a peaceful state, maintains a normal heart, and all factors that are detrimental to physical and mental health will be repulsed.

    Look at this fickle world, and then look at your own life, and suddenly feel how short life is, why not be happy? This is probably the best reason to comfort yourself. Life has both bitterness and joy, and it is best to laugh often; There are ups and downs in the career, and it is best to be calm and calm; Love is sweet and sour, it is best to be open-minded; There are long and short blessings, and it is best to be happy and happy!

    Bless friends: always treat life with a smile, enjoy life, and cherish life! ­

  36. Anonymous users2024-01-06

    Yes, why can't you, to be honest, as long as you are simpler, the world in your eyes will become simpler, no matter what others do and how to do it, as long as you know what you want to do and how to do it, we can't control other people's thoughts, because many people will take "to survive" as an excuse, as time goes by, people's desires will swallow people's simplicity little by little, but I believe that there are many people who can also hope to be simple, but no one is willing to admit it first, Because they are afraid that they will be the target of attacks by those who are not innocent in their eyes, everyone seems to be a little intrigued.

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