Why do you lose your enthusiasm for married couples?

I don't think it's because you're not good enough emotionally, or because you don't care and understand him in your married life, that he will lose interest in you and sex

Sexual frigidity, then you don't have to do sex in the future, then it's fine, hehe

Find a way to arouse her desire for sex, care more, and be like a man

Friend, if you don't think you have any physical or mental problems, you have to look to your wife for answers.

1.It could be your wife's physical aspect.

2.She may have been psychologically affected.

Sexual disharmony, the problem is serious.

Hehe, why, find the reason yourself, feelings?

For young people, Valentine's Day is the best opportunity to express their love, and giving gifts to each other on Valentine's Day can deepen the relationship between each other. But in the eyes of many people, there is no need to celebrate Valentine's Day after being married for a long time, and such a view is inaccurate. ......The reason why I say this is because love needs to be carefully maintained at all times, Valentine's Day is not exclusive to young people, and couples who have been married for a long time also need to maintain and develop their love for each other.

1. Love needs to be carefully maintained at all times, whether married or not. Family, friendship and love are the most important feelings in a person's life, and as love, it needs to be carefully maintained, and it needs to be carefully maintained all the time. ......The reason why I say this is because I am more likely to have all kinds of problems when I get along with each other day and night between lovers or husband and wife, and only by using love to maintain the relationship between each other can we maintain a state of intimacy and love.

Therefore, whether you are married or not, you need to maintain your love through Valentine's Day and other means.

2. Valentine's Day is not exclusive to young people, and couples after marriage can also celebrate Valentine's Day. In many people's minds, Valentine's Day is exclusive to young people, and young people are most active during Valentine's Day. But in fact, Valentine's Day is not exclusive to young people, people of any age, as long as they have love, can use Valentine's Day to express their feelings.

From this point of view, couples who get married can also celebrate Valentine's Day.

3. Husbands and wives also need to maintain and develop love for each other. For couples who have been married for a long time, it is more necessary to maintain and develop love. The reason why I say this is because after being married for a long time, couples will gradually feel that life is dull in the long-term life together, which will affect the relationship between each other.

And maintaining and developing the love between each other through Valentine's Day and other ways is very beneficial to the harmony between husband and wife.

Because of this, couples who have been married for a long time can also celebrate Valentine's Day, in this way to consolidate each other's love and make life happier and sweeter.

4414 starts to get tired of marriage after three years of marriage, and I think that generally about three or four years, especially after having children, everyone will quickly get tired of married life and get tired of each other.

Not long after we got married, I conceived a baby, due to malnutrition, and because I didn't know how to cook, my husband didn't have time to take care of me, so I could only go to my mother-in-law's house for a while, and then I felt that my husband and my husband slowly began to be estranged, I told him many times, his mother is not my mother, it is impossible to treat me like my mother, but he doesn't listen, he always says that his parents are very good, how is it, but I went to my mother-in-law's house, my mother-in-law plays mahjong every day, The cooking is not on time, and my father-in-law smokes at home every day, and it is useless to say it, and at this time he always says that I am not sensible, etc., and slowly finds that he is unwilling to call him to say these things.

Later, I went back to my parents' house, and my mother took care of me, she had a lot of things to do, but she was also dedicated to taking care of me, because I was pregnant and vomited too much, my appetite was really not good, and I was very picky, so I could feel the distress of my parents, and then after giving birth, my in-laws did not say to help take care of the confinement, nor did they say to help take care of the child, in short, my confinement was taken care of by my mother, and he felt that he believed that Wang's mother had a bad waist and could not come to me to understand.

Later, we couldn't take the baby alone, and it was true that a person would not take care of it, so I took the baby back to my parents' house, his parents ** did not hit one, at first I and he will be a day **, and then slowly I don't want to pick him up**, and I don't want to talk to him too much, we have been separated for about ten months After I went back, I felt that the two of them could not be like the feeling when they were in love, at that time we had just been married for three years, and the feeling at that time was that I really wanted to return to a person's life.

Before marriage, each other showed each other the best side, the shortcomings were hidden or disguised, and what was seen was each other's strengths. After the marriage, they stayed together day and night, and all kinds of shortcomings and bad habits were exposed, and they began to become speechless, or cold, or quarrelsome. The relationship also cooled down before the scum.

Everything has an expiration date, and so are feelings! Over time, aesthetic fatigue can occur. If you want to keep the freshness of marriage before love, you must give both parties enough private space, understand each other, support each other, and <>

Because they don't understand each other, they quarrel constantly.

Husband and wife love preservation treaty:

1.Home is not a place to reason.

This sentence is a truth that I understand after arguing with my wife for many years. It is impossible for husband and wife not to quarrel, but don't get entangled in a little thing, you have to make it clear, some things don't need to be said clearly, and it won't work well if you say it clearly. At the same time, don't ask the other party to admit your mistake, even if the reason is on your side.

Because there is no winner or loser in a quarrel between husband and wife, there is no need to distinguish between winners and losers. Instead, they should open their eyes and close their eyes; Not only that, but you also need to maintain it with your true feelings in order to maintain a real home.

2.Be honest.

When men are out socializing, they sometimes like to hide the truth and tell some lies to deal with their wives. In fact, as long as it doesn't involve work, there is no need to coax your wife under the guise of "being in a meeting" or "working overtime". Because, telling a lie often takes ten sentences to cover up, and it is inevitable that mistakes will be made, how tiring it is.

3.Skillfully do "strict wife".

There is nothing wrong with proper "strict wife", and families with "strict wife" tend to last long. At the same time, this kind of man often understands in his heart that his wife bears a lot of hardship and tiredness, so he is willing to be "strictly controlled by his wife", and many times, they refuse some non-important gatherings, but go home from work to help their wives cook, stir-fry, wash dishes and other household chores. Not only that, but this kind of man tends not to care.