Would you give up love because of the disparity in family background?

It is precisely because he loves you that he cannot surmount, he thinks that it is only after a lot of hard work that she can live your current life, and if she wants to give you a higher level of life, it will have to wait for a long, long time! So

Maybe! Sometimes, a man cares a lot about dignity, although you don't care about anything, but he still cares about it, he may feel that others look down on him! Think he's got a crush on your money, wait!

He doesn't deserve your love enough, and maybe it's upsetting to say that, but I really think so.

If he loves you enough, he is bold enough, what he will do is definitely not to give up on you.

He gave up, but there are two possibilities: one, he doesn't love you, family is just an excuse, and two, he is a coward and doesn't even have the courage to give his beloved happiness!

So, you give up too.

Don't worry about such a man anymore, he is not self-motivated at all, he has no confidence and ambition to himself like this, what can you expect from such a man, even if you break through this disparity and two people are together, you will not be happy if you live in the countryside with him, don't talk about him, you go to the department store to buy a dress for 300 now, and you can only buy a 30 piece at the stall in the future, can you accept such a gap?

But then again, if this man works hard to shorten the gap between you, to be able to be with you, and to love you and care for you, you should fight with him, but according to what you said, I think it's better to give up, you are just lonely and lonely now.

This question is troublesome ......

Because that's the case with me and her.

However, I don't think you can know exactly what your life will be in a few decades, because people will change, because we are all working hard, because we are all fighting for our common goals. When Li Jiacheng was young, he would not have imagined that he would become a monopoly in the future, and when Bill Gates dropped out of school and went to sea, he himself did not know that he would become the emperor of the Microsoft empire in the future. If he is a very self-respecting person, then he should use his own efforts to change his destiny, if he gives up because you are unattainable, it can only be said that he is too unconfident, he has no courage to be challenged, then, he can only live a mediocre life.

Look at what kind of man you are......

Look at fate, you can't force it, in your life there will be another one at the same time as he will appear, bring you.

You may not feel it now, but you will understand later.

Friend. It's so sympathetic. I'm almost in your situation right now.

But I'm 6 years older than my male position. I'm running into this problem now, too. His family is from the countryside of Fuxin.

On January 23, he went home for 20 days for the Spring Festival. Came back on February 10 to break up. I can't take it.

The main reason is that my family is very opposed. I am sad. The heart of death is gone.

None of our families are wealthy. His family could not afford to buy a house in the city. My family is from Dalian.

I didn't give up. I'm still working on it. I went to his house three times after that.

I've never been far away before. I don't care about that much. Sometimes, there are certain things you have to do.

I'm afraid I'll regret why I didn't stick to it in the first place. I'm determined to be with him. Although it will disappoint our parents, our parents can't be with us for a lifetime.

Yes, he loves you very much, because he feels that he can't give you the life you should or can get, and he is afraid that he won't bring you joy and happiness, so he gives up on you! You can have a good talk with him to see if he just loves you and the breakup is just a reason for him, or does he love you and is afraid that he can't give you the material life you deserve? Take advantage of it!

Yes, money is not everything, but without money there are a lot of problems.

Each other is not a person, how can they be together well, even if they love each other now, but there will be a lot of problems in the future, and the problem will be money.

I thought I was the only one who would encounter such a problem.,It turns out that there's a person here who is connected to the same fate.。。 My boyfriend is similar to your boyfriend, but he has a drive, he loves his career, he dares to fight, but we are still separated. Many people say that it is because we are people from two different worlds, and it will only be painful to come together.

However, I am still persistent, and I will wait patiently for the time I make the agreement ... I am sure that I will impress him, and so will you... Don't put too much pressure on him, let him fly, and when he gets affirmation, he will look for the true love he once had!

1.I often hear people say: Let's get a divorce, I have met true love!

I think many people have heard this sentence and are not unfamiliar with it, because this is why they meet true love after marriage, and the other half is also looking for it. This not only shows that they want a divorce, but also that they have found their next home. It can be said that this reason is really good, killing two birds with one stone.

Couples who marry for the sake of getting married and have no emotional foundation. You know, this kind of couple has no feelings before marriage, but they can't work together all the time after marriage.

2.They yearn for true love, pursue true love, and finally divorce for true love. This is the path that many people often take when they meet true love after marriage.

The reason for the divorce is to be with true love, and it is impossible to just be friends. From another point of view, meeting true love after marriage can also be understood as an extramarital affair. Since it is an extramarital affair, all excuses are also reasons to deceive yourself.

If two people have true love before marriage, but the dull days after marriage turn love into family affection, then when they meet true love again, they must learn to let go, because a warm family is more important than "halfway true love", and choosing a family is choosing responsibility.

3.Remember, the person who marries you is your true love, and there is only one true love, and more is not true love. When you meet true love after marriage, if you are sober, you should think about your family, your children, and whether you and the other person are really in love or have feelings.

Never make a mistake, take it one step at a time! If your parents are against it, then you can stay together and try to make your life happy and show your parents. Turn back to the shore, turn back, there is nothing.

Before you reach your destination, all failures are abandoned. Persevering to the end is victory, and the more you grind, the sweeter the victory becomes. If you are a man, do what you can to chase him.

4.Staying where you are and feeling sorry for yourself is not a man's behavior. If you are a woman, think about whether he loves you very much, cares about you very much, and whether it is worth paying for.

If so, stay the course. Most couples break up because they don't love each other enough and have nothing to do with their parents' opposition. If you identify with this person, your parents will eventually agree.

Because parents love their children. If you want to make amends, you have to convince your parents. Let them know that you can't leave the other person.

The second is to see if the other party has changed their minds.

In the early years, when I heard the word "door-to-door", I had a strong sense of resistance, and I always felt that this was a very backward word.

But when I reached the age when I was about to get married, I understood that there was a certain reason for asking for the right family.

I remember someone said before: My impression of the door trembling family includes my own education class, cultural background, etc. With different family backgrounds and different social circles, there will be fewer and fewer topics exchanged with each other after marriage, which will eventually lead to two people going farther and farther apart.

When you fall in love when you're young, you can not look at anything, as long as you like each other, it's enough. But when you fall in love when you are older, it is impossible not to consider the difference in family background.

Because what family can give a person, in addition to the material foundation, there is also the ability to love or the front, and at the same time, there are many things such as education, platform, aesthetics, preferences, and three views. Two people with too big family backgrounds, no matter how much they love each other, will be slowly widened by these gaps in real life. Today, the Internet is arguing again.

That is, when getting married, you don't need to consider the other party's family background.

At first, I thought that there would be two main groups of thought on this issue.

One faction believes that marriage does not need to consider the other party's family background, and the two of them just need to have love, and most of them are young girls.

One faction believes that it is necessary to look at the other party's family background, because the place where the money is spent is in the back, and most of them are older girls.

Netizen 1: If you don't consider your family background, what do you consider? Buying a pig to see the pen, what environment produces what person, family background not only refers to the economy, but also includes conduct, character, world view, etc. are related to family background.

Netizen 3: Looking at his family background, it is not to see whether his family is rich and powerful, but to look at his family's life, lifestyle and family atmosphere, because these are inseparable from his life and will be related to your life.

Perhaps under the impact of the epidemic, everyone has already punctured the illusion of reality.

What do you think of men, you ask?

Men must see, men are the most realistic.

Giving up a girl I like because of the difference in family background, I think this person is not only inferior, but also a person who does not work hard.

There is a saying that it is up to me to do my life, and I can't give up working hard because the gap between the two families is too big, and I seem to obey this sky that can never be fought.

Princely generals have a kind of Xiangning, those who believe that fate obeys fate and do not work hard, the final result is to degenerate into the mud man thrown out of the ancient mythical rattan, you will always use the excuse that you can't reach that height no matter how hard you try, and you are doomed to your mediocrity and yourself are not suitable for her.

What does she like about you? Maybe it's the happiness you bring her, or maybe it's the satisfaction that follows you. But you have to imagine that even if her parents agree that you are together, what will you give her in the future with such a self-imposed performance?

Did she marry you and live in a rental house all the time? Can she marry you and go with you to a small restaurant in a small corner and eat with bricklayers like us? Did he follow you with a few dollars of anti-cursion cream?

If you feel like you're unworthy, then you really aren't!

Clause. 1. Listen to your own heart, and even more so to reconcile the contradictions between your parents and your lover. Clause.

Second, the reasons for your parents' opposition to Li Dai can be used as a kind of reference, but the decision of the clan is always up to you.

In this world, not all love can turn out, and there are many loves who only know that this love is not favored by the family when they talk about marriage. If family factors hinder my love, then I will actually give up this love. It seems to me that there must be reasons for the family's fierce opposition to the relationshipI may not be able to understand it now, but I should be able to understand it after I become a parent.

For me, I'm not the kind of person where love is everything. Love is of course rare and precious to me, but it is definitely not the only part of my life, I still have family, friends, and work. If my love can be recognized by my family, of course, it is the best, but if I can't get their approval, and I can't change their opinion after all the efforts I have made, then I will give up.

I never believed that there really was so much love in this world that went hand in hand with life and death, or that I didn't believe that there were so many loves in peacetime that he didn't marry, or she didn't marry. I tell myself before starting every relationship to take the relationship seriously, but when the relationship really can't go on, you have to have the courage and courage to let go. It's useless to hold on to a thing, if after working hard, such a thing doesn't belong to you, it means that the fate between each other is not enough, in this case, it's better to let go.

Many people can't get out of a relationship because they are trapped in a relationship, so there are so many infatuated people, and there are so many people who do wrong things for love. In my opinion, these are all hypocrisy, love exhausts all effort, and letting go also exhausts all courage.

I don't want to give up easily, and I will pursue it through my own efforts and not let myself regret it.

It depends on how true this relationship is, modern people should have pursuits, if it is loyal and unswerving love, any obstacles you will resolve one by one, with practical actions to make it clear that you are happy and happy, I think whose family does not want their family to be happy, they are hesitant and the opposition of relatives will naturally give up.

I will give up my love, for me, family is more important than love.

Don't have to give up It depends on what is the reason for the family I am not optimistic about the wrong door because the door is not right Because the door is not right, there is generally no good result If it is because of other reasons, then it should not be given up It is not easy to have a real love in your life You must cherish it.