I find that my boyfriend and I are getting worse and worse, what should I do?

There is a lack of necessary heart-to-heart communication between you.

It means that there is already a gap between the two of you, and it is the problem that needs to be talked about. Find a suitable time and place, sit down calmly with each other, open your heart and talk about it, and if you find a problem, you will find a solution. Tantrums alone will not solve any problems, it will only make each other more alienated and eventually lead to a breakup.

If he insists on not wanting to talk to you, I'm afraid you have to be mentally prepared, or talk to a friend about yourself to find out why.

You can ask his good friend. Maybe they'll know. Men are like this, and there are things that you girls don't say. I would tell my good friends.

It should be the period of emotional boredom, even if you get married, this will happen, but when you get married, it is not easy to divorce, but love is different, so you don't want to tell your boyfriend everything, girls are unreserved, not to make your boyfriend love you more, but to make him more and more boring.

Always, it's the one that has passed the run-in period. I also suggest that your girls should not be too enthusiastic and have their own lives, so that they don't care so much about each other and seem to have a low status. And don't say a word, or a word is too competitive, be tolerant and considerate of each other.

Talk to him calmly, no matter what, the other party wants to know and know! Be tolerant of each other, too! Don't wait until you lose to regret it! It's rare to find someone who truly loves you!

Don't take the initiative to pay attention to him, slowly he will find out about your existence, if you keep bothering him, he will find you very annoying and even break up with you, so calm down and go with the flow.

Communicate with him more, and if you can't ease it, then choose to end. Because it is difficult to get along after marriage, there is a lot of pain.

It is recommended to find more time to talk to him when he is in a good mood and get to know him.

Another person who always holds others to high standards. It's really sad.

Have a good talk, and break up if you really can't do it.

What to do in this situation.

It's a lack of patience, isn't it? There was a communication problem.

If you guys work, then there are two scenarios:

One is that he works hard in order to be with you in the future, hoping to give you a better future, sometimes too much pressure will make him want to stay alone, you don't revolve around him, find your own world, you should also be very exciting; The second is that he wants to leave you, wants to slowly alienate you, so as not to hurt you, but I believe that girls have intuition, you observe carefully, you should be able to tell whether his feelings for you are still there, if the feelings are still there, then let him rest and rest slowly.

If you are still a student, then there are two cases:

One is that he wants to study hard, and the other is that he wants to be separated from you, the same reason, observe carefully, see if his feelings for you are still there, if he is still there, everything is easy to do, you also need to be independent, too much dependence is easy to cause huge psychological pressure on boys, if the relationship is not there, be strong, there is no problem that cannot be faced and cannot be solved!

Said to have broken up?

Find out why?

If you don't say break up, talk to him.

If you know what the reason is, the two of you can communicate it.

I only understand now.

The most important thing for two people to be together is communication and tolerance!

Maybe both of you need to calm down.

Is there a problem between you, or maybe he has a problem?

Is there a problem between you?

If you guys work, then there are two scenarios:

One is that he works hard in order to be with you in the future, hoping to give you a better future, sometimes too much pressure will make him want to stay alone, you don't revolve around him, find your own world, you should also be very exciting; The second is that he wants to leave you, wants to slowly alienate you, so as not to hurt you, but I believe that girls have intuition, you observe carefully, you should be able to tell whether his feelings for you are still there, if the feelings are still there, then let him rest and rest slowly.

If you are still a student, then there are two cases:

One is that he wants to study hard, and the other is that he wants to be separated from you, the same reason, observe carefully, see if his feelings for you are still there, if he is still there, everything is easy to do, you also need to be independent, too much dependence is easy to cause huge psychological pressure on boys, if the relationship is not there, be strong, there is no problem that cannot be faced and cannot be solved!