Sooner or later, I m going to go on like this, right?

Personally, I don't think so, at least not for the next 20 years. The reasons are as follows: First, the United States has always been a country that borrows but rarely saves, while China is a country that saves but rarely borrows.

According to statistics released by the Bureau of Economic Analysis of the U.S. Department of Commerce in February 2009, the annual savings of U.S. residents as a percentage of their disposable income rose to a new high in the past six years, and the total savings increased to $378.6 billion at the end of 2008. In 2008, the U.S. banking sector issued $764 billion in loans, more than double the total savings ($1.64 trillion in 2007, several times the total amount of savings). Imagine that your family only has 50,000 yuan in savings, but you borrow 200,000 yuan from the bank to buy a house and a car.

What would happen if everyone did that? In September 2008, China's total savings amounted to 45 trillion yuan, which is $6.5 trillion in US dollars, dozens of times that of the United States, and the total amount of loans is equivalent to 65 percent of total savings, and the annual loans issued are only about 15 percent of GDP (this year it may be equivalent to 30 percent of GDP). That is to say, we Chinese have a deposit of 100 yuan and spend only 15 yuan a year, while Americans have a deposit of 100 yuan and spend hundreds of dollars a year.

One is to save more money than to spend, and the other is to spend several times more money than to have, who is safer. The economist's view is that if the total amount of loans does not exceed 75% of the total savings, there will be no major problems. So there will be no financial crisis in China for at least a long time to come.

Second, Americans do not need to make a down payment when they take out a loan to buy a house, or only need to pay a 5% down payment. Chinese pay a 20% down payment to buy a house. For example, to buy a house for 1 million, the Chinese have to pay 200,000 cash to the developer and then borrow 800,000 yuan from the bank.

Americans, on the other hand, do not have to pay the developer, and the 1 million yuan is all borrowed by the bank, or only 50,000 yuan. And Chinese applicants for loans must be secured by a stable income, or secured by something valuable. And Americans can apply for a loan even if they don't have a stable income and don't mortgage anything (provided you don't have a bad credit history).

Imagine if a stranger asked you to borrow 100,000 yuan, and he had no job and no income, would you lend it to him? Can you get that money back after you borrow it? Even if he doesn't have money, he doesn't have to keep a record.

Don't leave this person, you have been in love for five years, the relationship is already very deep, you said it yourself, you can't find a second person who is so good to you, then you should cherish it. As for the latter, time can fade everything.

Let's cherish my current boyfriend! After all, your relationship has gone through five years of ups and downs, and it's not easy! And the other one may just be your momentary excitement and like him, whether you can go on together is very variable! Cherish what you have now!

Ask yourself your heart, which one do you love? It's really weird if you've been in love with your boyfriend for five years and you can still have a crush on another boy. Do you really know the boy you met later?

Have you ever seen a conversation between a woman and a Buddha? Cherishing the present is always better than half-heartedness!

It's so flowery, or both.

A little thing, and your father's temper may not be good, so don't take it too seriously, or how uncomfortable the day is.

If you often do wrong things and upset your dad, you need to reflect on yourself that you haven't done a good enough job.

Loulou now lives in a boring way, so go out and break into the outside world, or do low-level work from other places, or fight for your place in a developed place, in short, you don't settle for the status quo, let yourself move. Nothing has changed, of course people will be very tired, and we can understand that we are dumb.

Then go out and find something to do on your own

You face this problem squarely, because it's normal for lovers to have intimate feelings...You can see a psychologist appropriately.

What kind of meat, saying that I miss you and love you? If you don't even feel like you're in this situation, it's really your own problem.

This actually doesn't matter, everyone has a different personality, you don't need to see a psychiatrist, many people will look not numb, or even show love, but they like you very much and are very kind, you will definitely find someone like that, it's not a psychological problem.

That's because you don't know your own positioning and understanding, and you don't know what you like.

If you have psychological problems, it is recommended to go to counseling, which no man can accept.

I haven't met the one I like yet. I like people who give up everything for him.。。

What exactly happened? What are you worried about?

Okay, if there is any confusion you say, I'll analyze it for you.

You can be sad, but you can't be negative, you can miss your deceased relatives, but you have to live for your relatives who are still there, for your father, you also have to live positively, take 10,000 steps back and say, if you go on like this, I'm sorry for your father, even if it's for your father, you have to live well.

First of all, you want to grow old with him, do you understand what he means? He likes or loves you, and you're 27 years old, can you, as a man, give you the life you want? Including getting married, is there a sense of responsibility?

You can't hand over your heart because of ambiguity, you have to think about it, if this age is wrong, it's really a waste of your youth, after all, you still have to make your own decisions, if you feel that you love this man very much, he is also worthy of you to pay for him, then you should love him vigorously, and be prepared for failure. The most important thing is that you have to think clearly about what kind of husband you want to live. Don't be impulsive, don't be brave enough to make a decision.

In fact, all of us have such a wish: I wish to have a heart, and we will not be separated from each other It is recommended that the landlord should think about the problem simply, you like him, he also likes you, you are willing to marry, he is willing to marry.

Do you have to work hard to analyze why you like someone?

Hee-hee, I wish you happiness.

Hesitantly answer yourself. To love him is to tolerate everything about him, and if he has a problem with words or thoughts, you can face it together and help him solve it! If he doesn't trust you, open up and let him see!

I really don't understand why you're angry, your temper is quite violent, and if you want me, you'll be happy to death, there's a man who cares about you so much, put down your face, go jealous, go stingy, you're still hypocritical here

I just want to ask you what is freedom? What does it mean to be regulated? It seems to me that your so-called freedom is indulgence, and the so-called regulation is fed up with the life between you and him.

The question is whether it's you or him, and that's really a problem. What you said is very one-sided, but you can't stand it just because he's jealous, and I guess you don't know much

I don't know, forgive me.

This is what is often said to be a long-term love, it is time to make you have feelings for him, you should talk about it, open your heart and say, even if the result is not what you want, you have a heart, and then start your own new life.

A friend's girlfriend is 4 years older than him, so it's still fine.

In fact, two people don't have to have endless words together, as long as you feel that you feel safe with him, don't feel embarrassed, if you feel a little embarrassed, then you are still strangers, and the revolution still needs to work hard. Maybe there is only a layer of glass between you and his world, although everything about you is naked in front of him, so that he can see it clearly, but you can't step into his world even half a step after all...

It will be light, you must take the initiative alone, try to be a man, take the initiative You can also put your boyfriend's arm and ask him some questions that you knowingly ask For example, does he love you or not, and so on It won't take long for him to take the initiative Come on, I wish you happiness.

Do two people have to have endless things to say together? Is it developed to a certain level? If you really don't have a topic at all when you're together, it's dangerous, You have to take the initiative yourself, don't be bored with boredom, what are you playing?

I don't know how you guys got started in this relationship? Is it a classmate or a colleague?

Anyway, if you don't have anything to say when you meet, it's normal to just start talking, but if it's been a long time, it's still like this, that's not good! Unless you're all such personalities!! You can also ask your boyfriend directly!

It's okay! As a man, I will give you a satisfactory answer!

There is no language, so it is better to end it sooner rather than later!