The boyfriend s life is unplanned and annoying

I'm in a situation where I'm like the boy you said, and I believe that your boyfriend is just like me and he is only concerned about how to make more money, but he hasn't thought about how to make more money.

Now I am very content with the status quo, although my salary is not as 3k5 as your boyfriend, but I am in the same mood as him: I have a more stable job and a wife who knows how to care about me, and I can live my life in peace. I also wanted to make a lot of money in the past to make my girlfriend's life better, but the limitations of my work made us settle for the status quo.

If you are still in love with him, you should not break up with him, and if every man has to go out as you imagine, then he can only be the saint you conceived. Unless he tries to change himself, like I'm about to change myself right now.

If you think his point of view is very important to you and he doesn't want to change it, then it's best to break up now and stop hurting him. (I knew it was going to be very painful for him, I tried, and my heart hurt and hurt after she said it to me once...)

It's hard to say if you try to adapt to him yourself or try to change him to adapt to you.

As his girlfriend, you should have confidence in him, if you really can't, then you have to break up.

There are a lot of hiccups when every woman faces getting married.

In fact, I chose him because I should have faith in him.

Contentment.

In fact, life does not have to make a lot of money.

Guide Him spiritually.

Try to change or accept ......

Maybe life security later.

You shouldn't break up! He needs someone to help him!

I feel that there must be a goal in life, and if I don't even have a goal in life, then I feel that this person may not have a sense of responsibility at all, and he doesn't want to go with you to the end at all. Your boyfriend doesn't have a purpose in life, what should you do at this time?

In fact, I think it is very important to have goals in life, and when choosing a boyfriend, I will definitely see whether the boyfriend has a sense of responsibility.

If your boyfriend doesn't have any goals at all, then the boy's career will definitely not develop very well, and it won't bring you great happiness in the future, because you need to go through a lot of things after marriage, and there are a lot of places to spend money in life, so if you don't like this very much, you can clearly communicate with your boyfriend, tell your boyfriend that you don't like this very much, and hope that your boyfriend can correct it.

In fact, in real life, many boys are particularly annoying, such as royal girls are very materialistic, in fact, in real life, material is very important, because of the economic base.

Decide on the superstructure.

If this boy can't provide you with the corresponding material security, then even if you marry this person in the future, after having a child, this man may not even be able to raise a child, so if this boy has no goal in life, then it is recommended that everyone leave his boyfriend, because this man has no future at all.

If your boyfriend doesn't do it on purpose, but your boyfriend is a more casual person, then it is recommended that you establish life goals for your boyfriend, so that you will also feel that Zhao Oak is very happy, and both of them can work together and then enter the palace of marriage.

In such a situation, I think you should take the initiative to communicate with your boyfriend, and at the same time, you should encourage your boyfriend, and then cheer up the other party, and at the same time, you should also establish a common goal with your boyfriend, and the common struggle of the two people should tremble.

I feel that I may motivate him to have a goal in life of his own, and I will also accompany him in his struggle.

I should set him a goal for his life, and I should also guide him correctly to let him know what is the most correct. It may be better to also let your boyfriend be a little more responsible.

I think this kind of thing depends on personal subjective thoughts, so in your eyes, you can't get used to his lifestyle, and he thinks it's good, so it still needs communication and understanding between the two people.

First of all, you can communicate with your boyfriend well, say your views on life and what you expect from him, what you hope he can change, and then he will also say his attitude towards life, you can find out your differences, and then discuss the topic.

Secondly, I think two people can change each other's lifestyle, after all, lovers still need to run in with each other, you feel that his life has no plan, you can make some life plans for him appropriately, and suggest to him with a better attitude, but you don't have to force him to do that, I believe he will also change for you, and you have to understand him more.

All in all, it's about respecting each other's way of life, understanding and tolerating each other, and making a little change for each other.

I think you should talk to him when you encounter such a problem, stand in an equal position and tell him the importance of having a plan in life, and you can also slowly influence him to a certain extent. You can also give him some encouragement while he changes, so that he will ask for your opinion when he is making some plans in life, and slowly change the bad habit of not having a plan for life.

My boyfriend is very good at spending, he spends as much as he earns during college, and he has no planning at all. When I need it, I rush to borrow money from others, so I hate his habit. For example, when I go on a trip, I will plan the hotel, travel route, and vehicle I need to stay in a few days ago, so that it is more convenient when I travel, and I will not be confused.

So I told my boyfriend directly, and I said that your lifestyle will definitely not work when you start a family in the future, and you must have a plan no matter what you do. I told him about the importance of the plan, and he listened to me. So I discussed with him to slowly get rid of his bad habit, and he agreed.

In his sophomore year, I asked him to write down everything he needed to do each day on a small piece of paper and tick each one he completed. This is true not only when it comes to life, but also when it comes to money. In addition to taking out the living expenses, the rest of the money earned is saved on a bank card, as the two of us will travel in the future or take it out when we need to use it, so that we don't have to ask others to borrow it, and we don't have to owe favors to others.

At first, he wasn't very used to it, but he still slowly persevered, and now he doesn't need to say anything to me, he will plan first, and then come and ask my opinion, and the two of them will implement it after unification. So I think this kind of lifestyle is very good, whether it is study or life, you need a plan to help you improve.

Between lovers, if you have an opinion or just a small opinion about the other person, then the best way to solve it is for you to take the initiative to communicate with your lover now, so that your lover knows what aspects of him you are dissatisfied with or just have some different views.

When there are these small different voices between lovers, you must not choose to endure and tolerate each other silently, unless you can confidently think that you can tolerate this aspect of your boyfriend for a lifetime, and will not have a seizure together under any other situation, if you can't, then it is best to tell your boyfriend what you think now.

As a boy in love, I can tell you very clearly that many times girls lose their temper and express their dissatisfaction with us euphemistically, we have no way to detect it, and if you don't raise your dissatisfaction in time, we will think that this way is acceptable to you, and we will even think that you may choose to be with us because you appreciate these aspects of us. So if you feel uncomfortable like this, the best thing is to say it quickly, don't let your resentment towards your boyfriend accumulate, and when you really can't bear it anymore, no matter how sincerely we apologize and show repentance, you will definitely have no way to change your mind.

Speaking up is the most reasonable way to solve most of life's problems. Don't feel that you have to be wronged because you love the other person, the likely result is that your boyfriend doesn't know that this will make you feel that you have been wronged, and feel that you are very satisfied with your current state, which may be the most wronged thing you will feel in the future: you have obviously suffered all the grievances, but even the person you are willing to be wronged for him does not know that you are now being wronged for him.

First of all, you can communicate with him first, after all, everyone has their own way of life. There are some people he just doesn't say with his mouth, but he knows it in his heart.

Many people may have the underlying will, but lack action or the tools and methods to generalize. It is recommended that you think and make decisions based on your own characteristics in combination with your desired life, career, and marriage.

In fact, men sometimes just deliberately want to be lazy about these things in life, in fact, I sometimes do, because I have always had to do my best at work, plan everything, and set myself the time to complete, so I envy that I can live freely. Then in my own life, I want to try not to plan everything completely at the beginning, I feel constrained, at most I will only make a general plan, after all, the plan can't catch up with the changes, I have calculated how long to play here, how long to play there, and I don't have fun when I encounter fun, and I don't have to worry about it. That's why I don't want to go on a group tour.

Of course, it would be nice to have someone to help me plan or plan together. There is another reason, sometimes I make various plans, but for some reason on the way, the plans have changed, and they are all disrupted, and my girlfriend will blame me for not planning well, which is that I have made plans and is not pleasing to me.

I think you should know best if your boyfriend is the reason for this, if it is not because of the pressure of work or something, then it will have to be changed. If so, you can try to understand him.

As a suggestion, if you want to make a plan, you can pull him along to make a plan, and he probably won't refuse.

It's hard to change someone's personality. That's it, or don't play. Either you plan, and you want to change him, it will take a lot of effort. If that's how it might as well be a different boyfriend, what do you say?

But if he arranges everything and forces you to do what he loves, can you bear it? He just uses to welcome you to make you happy Don't force anything As long as you like him Everything can be adjusted A person who is not picky about everything Just wants to accompany you Don't you like his spoiling???