As for the problems of life, the older ones come in and talk about it

Your current situation is indeed sympathetic. When a person reaches 30, he is energetic and has a certain life experience, whether he is engaged in entrepreneurship or starting a family, he should live a more fulfilling life. However, the reality is not as good as it should be, and the problem is not just what you say you are"The character is a little anxious"Lack of perseverance is the key.

People, you should choose a career according to your actual situation, don't set your expectations too high, set too high, and your ability is not competent, but things will be messed up, which will affect your emotions, and if you continue to do it, the result will be more and more bad or even a failure. Understand that people do things to choose what they can be competent to do, once chosen, they must persevere to do it, do not look at the mountain and see the mountain high, and change careers every day. The reason is that when you do the easiest things well, you will naturally accumulate some capital, and wait until you have a certain strength to go to a relatively large business.

At the beginning, ask to lower it, take it steady, and avoid being anxious. As the saying goes: you can't eat hot porridge in a hurry.

As for temper, it's not a huge problem, but it's better to change it. It will be angry at every turn, and it will affect the relationship between people. There are some things to endure first, this one"gas"After that, maybe it'll be okay and I'll be in a good mood.

When you get angry in front of you, you regret it later. Your impression in the minds of others is discounted. Taking a step back and opening up the sky, this sentence contains many truths.

I have a wife and a daughter for a few months. You are their backbone, and the man's shoulders are made of steel, so how can he not bear a little burden? The difficulties are temporary. When you change some of your perceptions and start your life from scratch, believe that you can get through the present"Extraordinary times".

Hold on, friend, and believe that everything will be fine!

First find a family and friend to borrow some money, pay back the money in the bank, and then find a job, live a good life, 20,000 yuan is not much, and it will be paid back soon.

Your wife is willing to follow you like this, what are you not satisfied with?

The big husband has to work up against the difficulties, you can't have confidence in life, there will be hope if you have confidence, come on, even if you are a working boy, there is nothing to be ashamed of, remember that you are not alone, you have a family to support you!

Oh, so just talk about it on the Internet, or bring friends together to meet and talk about it.

Transitions are very important! Care more about your children! I feel that there is no systematic transition education from kindergarten to primary school in China, and the kindergarten class should be a little restrictive to the child, so that the child will not be unable to accept the atmosphere of primary school in primary school, and the first and second years of primary school should also be a little relaxed for the child, and this period of time also belongs to the child's psychological weaning period.

I'm in my 30s and I don't have a house yet! Now I'm struggling with my daughter-in-law. The child doesn't dare to ask for it now, because he is doing his own business, so he is very stressed and has not made money for two years.

But these are the general directions.

The joy and happiness of life can only be found by ourselves, and those more distant troubles should not be too full of ourselves!

No one's life is smooth sailing.

As long as you work hard, it's wonderful!

Be optimistic about anything.

Keep a normal heart.

Life is inevitably about falling and waiting.

Be brave enough to look up.

The sun is always after the storm!

I'll give you advice, can you see it?

1.Look at the world with another eye, not everyone in this world is very smooth, just look at how you solve it, for example, you were hit by someone when you were walking, others apologized to you, sometimes you still feel very angry, but you didn't expect that the person who hit you was actually more uncomfortable than you, or think about the sentence "Happy is also a day, unhappy is also a day, why not be happy every day".

2.If you think that you are in a bad mood, you will be in a bad mood, then you don't need to think about it, if you still want to, then keep yourself busy, let yourself have no time to think about it, let yourself live every minute to the fullest, and then don't fall in love with the bed after waking up in the morning, get up when you wake up, get busy, open the window, breathe in the fresh morning air, relax your whole body, and let yourself imagine a happy little angel ......

3.Choose a place with fresh air, quiet surroundings, soft light, undisturbed and free movement, and take a position that you feel comfortable in, standing, sitting or lying down.

4.Move some large joints and muscles of the body, the speed should be even and slow when doing it, and the action does not need to have a certain format, as long as you feel the joints let go and the muscles relax.

5.Take a deep breath, inhale slowly and exhale slowly, saying "relax" in your mind whenever you exhale.

6.Focus your attention on some everyday objects. For example, look at a flower, a little candlelight, or anything soft and beautiful, and look closely at its subtleties. Light some spices and inhale the aroma of it.

7.Close your eyes and try to imagine some tranquil and beautiful scenes, such as blue waters, golden sandy beaches, white clouds, mountains and water.

8.Do activities that you enjoy that have nothing to do with the specific things at hand. For example, swimming, taking a hot bath, shopping, listening, watching TV, etc.

9.Life is easy, life is easy, life is not easy. Don't worry, there are a lot of people in this society who are almost like you, but they are all living happily, not everyone can succeed, as long as you work hard to treat everything, take life seriously, as long as you take every day seriously, no matter how your life is, I believe it is wonderful.

Brother, I really admire you, replace me with you, I guess I can't hold on, I've been to Beijing, it's too big, it's full of people on the subway, and it's crowded to death.

I just don't understand, why everyone wants to go to Beijing, you are now 5000, and your income in Beijing is only considered to be in the middle and lower, you just have children, and the expenses will get bigger and bigger in a few years, why don't you consider changing the environment, the house in Beijing is sold, and you go back to the provincial capital where your hometown is located, I think it's not bad.

If you don't want to go back, then you can only persevere, and when my wife can work, I guess it will be better.

Don't compare your life with others, be calm. I have a wife and children in the house, and I owe some money or something, so it's good to be tired and pay it back for a few years. There are 80% of people who are worse than you in terms of living conditions and wages in China.

I'll give you a sentence that my master said when I just graduated: Life is forced out.

It's almost 30 years old, I still have no car or house, or I have to run for life every day, and my monthly income is not as high as yours, so isn't my life more difficult?

In fact, everyone has difficulties in life, and it is not necessarily who has a particularly comfortable life, and every stage has its own troubles.

There are people who are more miserable than you are, but others don't have to live?

Yes, I think you should find some of your hobbies, because hobbies are the best way to relieve stress, because with hobbies, do something for your hobbies, regardless of gains and losses, "in case" to do "success", you can also get a special sense of achievement, maybe you don't need to be recognized by others, but you can feel very satisfied.

In addition, you should be grateful for life, because although your family does not work like you to support your family, the silent support of your family and the dedication of your family to you is a recognition of your work achievements. Taking time to walk around with your family, visit small parks, and go out for a little trip may improve your current depressed mind.

Hope it helps.

Finally, it shows that not all efforts will be rewarded, but the process of giving is a kind of wealth and a different experience.

When I get old, I can say: I want to ...... back then

When I heard a child say: I was ...... when I was a child

In fact, the joy of life should be everywhere, but you should let go of the boredom and discover the fun around you!

This is a problem that many post-80s generations are facing and will face, you are lucky relative to them, you also go fast, before the age of 30, you have reached, many people after the age of 30 to achieve a state of life.

As for the fact that you feel that you are not happy in your current life, it is because the life you originally wanted was not like this, and you are living this life now, this is the contradiction of unhappiness.

So, you have to feel happy in life, it's not what others say, what you are told to do, you will feel happy. Happiness is different in everyone's consciousness, and the higher our level of education, the more we understand happiness, and the older we get, the understanding of happiness will be different. Talking so much nonsense is that you have to feel, how comfortable you are, how you can live!

You're not yet 30 years old, you already have a wife and a child, and I think you should be happy. How many people don't even have a girlfriend now, let alone get married and have children. You have a house before you are 30 years old, and although you haven't paid off the loan, you now live in your own house, and you don't have to live in a dormitory.

You are not yet 30 years old but you have had your career, although you have failed, but you have experienced, how many people have never left their city since they were young. The most important thing in life is experience, don't care what you don't have, but look at what you have. We still have the support of our families, a healthy body, and a tomorrow and a future to chase.

I'm 30 years old, an old man, no money, no house, no wife, as long as you don't give up hope, try to get closer to what you want to do, you will be different in 10 years, I am determined to do this, work hard, do more, you are happy, what you want to do, people will be happy.

If the same thing happens to others, I think not everyone can be as brave as you to today, but if you persist for a long time, everyone will be tired, but the wind and waves have passed, how can you be willing to give up if you don't see the sunny day, then the previous suffering is not in vain?

There is a house, a wife and children, I think it is already the yearning of many people now, although it is hard in front of me, but patience will always turn around, life is not like **, there is always a fall, there is always a rise, it is impossible to fall forever, right.

You say you're almost thirty, but I think you should say: How many people can I have achieved before I was old, 30 years old, shouldn't be a hopeless age, I think 30 years old is the age when youth is not lacking in stability, the most reassuring and strong-blooded age.

If you are not willing to live only the present life, you can summarize the past, plan for the future, and don't spend the good time in sighs and regrets

In fact, this is a bottleneck period in a person's career, I am also 30 years old this year, and I often think about this problem again, I almost got depression in the middle, took half a year off from work, tried to change, and finally found that it was difficult to change. Because we all have burdens and responsibilities. There are also more things to think about when doing things.

Later, I finally found a way, since I can't change it, or change it, then I choose to study and be refined and long-term on the path I have taken. Take your time, life is hopeful and rushing. Let's do it!!

Friends are amazing, you should think about it in a different way, people like you, not as good as yours, hundreds of thousands of you come over and pay off, this is your goal, you have a child, you are very happy, he is your hope. Hang on.

Don't be too stressed, be optimistic, you should think that you have a wife, a child, a house, and you should work hard below. I don't think the child has to be a wife with a wife, unless yours is still very young. The two of you should fight together.

Whenever you are depressed, think about those who have no wife and no children, have a house inside, and have problems with food and clothing, if you learn to be content, you will be much happier.

Let's change cities, big cities are too stressful and burdensome. Children can let their parents help with them, but it is best not to leave you too far for too long, business can be done, but you can't start big, don't think about one step to the sky, sesame blossoming is the safest

Your situation is okay, similar to many people, many people are not as good as you, life is rich and poor, don't put too much pressure on yourself. There is pressure and motivation, but the stress becomes the trouble of life and starts to make you unhappy, or even hesitate. Let's go out for a walk as a family.

You're really powerful, I'm afraid of dozens of debts. Everyone has pressure in life, and the point is that whoever gets the pressure first is the winner. You don't have to have a house, a car, a woman, a career, and be looked down upon. The heart is wide, ** is home.

Keep working hard, you should be glad to have a house, a wife, children, although there is pressure but you should have it, learn to be satisfied, think about how many North Drifters, they have nothing so far, you are still young, learn to be grateful, learn to enjoy life, take your children and wife to the park on the weekend, and you are also happy. Come on, success is just around the corner.