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This kind of love is reliable! You should feel lucky, some people spend their lives to love someone, but can not win a little return, your love is not in vain, he really fell in love with you is the return of your love, to cherish it!
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There is no need to doubt, love does not need to be doubted, love is love, and it cannot be reluctantly.
Just because you are usually good to him, he has become accustomed to your existence, maybe one day, he will be sad and annoyed because of your non-resignation, and he will not marry for the rest of his life.
Isn't that love?
Don't doubt it, the most important thing in love is to trust each other, isn't it?
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It is recommended that you go and watch the Taiwanese drama * Mischievous Kiss.
It's quite consistent with you.
Love is inherently diverse, and it can be turned into a heart because it is moved!
You can feel that he loves you, so what do you question?
On the negative side, how long does love last?
No matter how strong and deep the love is, the final destination is to turn into family affection!
In that case, how is your transformed love unreliable?
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Find true love in touching.
We can't assess whether he's reliable or not.
But this love.
It's something that will be cherished.
It's also something that makes people worthy of love.
I believe that as long as there is a pay, it will definitely be rewarded.
But don't try to measure whether the effort and the reward are balanced.
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In his opinion, you are a harbor, you can come back to talk about injuries outside, and you are the best person to be a wife.
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It brings me the feeling that love can be very sweet, life is very full of hope and motivation, and everyone has different feelings.
1. Love can be very sweet.
My love is good, reverberating throughout my world, the taste of college love is more dreamy than a fairy tale, it can be destroyed in an instant, and it can also be awakened in the next second. The difference is that your first impression of me is that you see me with bangs, ponytails, and jeans that you like.
Coming down from the upper floor, I casually meet your eyes at once, showing a smile that is not stained. That year, I was 19 years old and you were 21 years old. I say that love has magic, and you say that love is a light smile.
It is said that the best thing in life is in college, and the most beautiful thing in college is to talk about a love that is not in the world, and that relationship makes me know that love can be so sweet.
2. Life is full of hope and motivation.
True love can often bring us true confidence and optimism. People who are in love often have this experience, that is, when they are in love, they have inexhaustible strength. Some boys were originally reluctant to be motivated, and after falling in love, the two of them worked together for the future, and the woman was unwilling to do laundry, cooking, and housework, and was willing to make a lot of changes after falling in love.
People who are born lonely and have a confidant who can accompany them are very powerful in their sense of comfort to the soul. The third feeling brought about by true love is the baptism and maturity of the inner world. Regardless of whether our love can go to the end, love can promote self-growth, increase one's understanding of the sedan chair or life, the process of love is a process of constantly knowing oneself and maturing.
3. Everyone has different perceptions.
In this real world, all kinds of people have different desires and emotions for love, and passionate people are used to loving with all they have. Tender people like to open their hearts to love, but the expression is different. We don't have the ability to ask others to love the same as us, as long as we are still warm and peaceful, the way the other person loves is the best choice.
This love may be hot or boring, but it can always gently remind yourself that being loved is the favor of this life. I think that if you can have a heart that is kind and tolerant of others, the endless trickle of time can eventually give you the love of life.
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Hello. It is impossible for love to influence everything, that is to say, whether love can influence the object depends on the internal reasons of the probation object, that is, whether he (she or even it) has the possibility of being influenced. If the other person fundamentally does not recognize that your giving is love, then he.
Maybe he will take the sacrifice you make out of love as a kind of indulgence for him! It may also be used as a tool for him to achieve his personal goals.
When he has the ability to be independent, as a friend, you just have to tell him what options he should have, or what options may arise.
Different results – so you've done your best. Because the decision is not yours. Don't have any regrets or blame yourself.
1.Just let it be, don't ask about anything.
2.Love is not about gains and losses - it is about having true love for you. Why bother with people when the object of love doesn't recognize your love.
What about the home that accepts your love?
3.Don't you think it's harassing him?
4.Help him? Does he need it? You can do your friend's reminder. You can't control him. Look at his fate.
May you cross the hurdle of your own heart, a kind of understanding.
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First of all, his family relationship is very deformed, which can be derived from his relationship with his father and mother.
Secondly, his ability to deal with interpersonal relationships is very poor, he does not know how to understand the emotions of others, he lives in his own world, and he can endlessly hurt the people he cares about, and the most important thing is that he is not filial (although I don't know what the reason for him and his father, but it is wrong for him to be like this to his mother, although it is not ruled out that he has been hurt by his parents, but I don't think he is right in this way).
Third, he is very fragile in his heart, as can be seen from his frequent crying, he doesn't fight for what he wants, he only knows how to cry, and this performance itself is very unreliable.
Fourth, for your sister paper, excessive payment not only did not get in return but hurt again and again, don't try to change a person who has no feelings for you and refuses to change for you, everyone will say good things, and what his mother said may not be his true thoughts, maybe his mother just wants you to get back together?
Fifth, I don't think that as a good woman, you can only pay without stopping, and your family doesn't have to pay for your love, the money he took from your ** pit (forgive me for using sharp words, in my opinion he is even cheating and pitting) can only prove that he is a selfish person who only thinks of himself.
In the end, the crux of the question for him is why he doesn't have a good relationship with his father. Why did he treat his mother like this? Why didn't he get married?
How his so-called emotions and psychological defenses are formed, the crux of the problem is **. If you have the confidence to bear this, to bear this, and you think that you can give endlessly, instead of being used to it (I think his mother is used to him), then you can get back together with him, but only if you are sure that he likes you enough, loves you, and is willing to change for you. If not, then you give up as soon as possible, it's not that he's not good, after all, I haven't been in contact with him, but I always think that at least there should be equality in the relationship, and blindly paying, not only will not get back the result you want, but will only indulge him endlessly.
Even if you are in love, you have to find the right person! Bless you.
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Looked at what you said. I'm disappointed in this man. But he has a withdrawn personality and does not know how to interact with people.
This means that his mental defense is relatively weak. He is avoiding you, perhaps because he doesn't want to divorce you, because he doesn't know what to say. If what his mother said is true, it means that this man still loves you.
This kind of person is generally quite inferior. If you want to help him get out of his mental defenses, it is impossible to have two places. If you still love him, feel that you can still tolerate his character, and feel that you can slowly help him out of his heart, then there is no need to divorce.
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Yes, but it takes quite a long time, if you are not ready to love him well for the rest of your life, please don't do it, because you can only hurt him more deeply, his psychology is something you can't understand, you don't communicate well, maybe love can really touch everything, but this must be long-lasting, sincere, and the most important thing is the love that the other party can receive, sometimes no matter how much you love someone, the way you love is wrong, he can't accept your love, this is not good, so love is also about the way An adult must learn to use wisdom and reason to get the life he wants, not impulses and desires, if you love, please love deeply, if you can't do it, please let it go, I can only say that this man is fragile and unusual.
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Is there true love? "I sincerely hope that he will live well" is one-sided, and your hard work needs to be accepted by him to be effective.
Do you want to raise a man of your dreams? Do you want to build the man you want?
You're wrong, and you couldn't be more wrong. Instead of cultivating, cultivating, and building, it is better to look for it, which is the "right match" of marriage.
Marriage is a perfect thing for a good interaction between husband and wife, and it will not end well unilaterally. Emotionally emotionalizing with sincerity is unrequited love most of the time, and the bitter fruit needs to be swallowed by itself.
You are a loving person, cherish your love and put it on someone who can give you happiness, joy, and a happy life, and don't get entangled in an ignorant man. Go find someone who understands your heart, and you will live well.
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Love can definitely change this man.
But the premise is that this man loves this person very much, then he will change for it If someone loves him very much, this may not change anything.
Just let it be.
Breaking the fate, that is, breaking this thought and this fate, may not be a good thing for you.
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This is his personal problem, and it will be difficult for you to help him through your own efforts. Being so withdrawn must be too affected by your family environment, and it is too difficult for you to change this situation personally. First of all, time is not allowed, you work in two places, you don't have time to accompany him; Secondly, haven't you seen him see you in three years?
In the end, it is a bit extreme and strange for someone like him to think.
I don't think you necessarily have the determination to change him. After a long time, you may not be able to accept it.
Happiness is your own, you make myself happy, I hope you live well, the past is over!
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I've met such a boy, to be honest, it's very tiring, but he does this, he should still love you in his heart, he is not good at words, but many things are actually spent on being good to you, his inner trauma causes him to be unable to get out of himself, he may be good at math, and he is also very calculating, the lack of a father in the family makes him think that others can't be trusted, and he won't trust you casually. He has put your efforts in his heart, and his mother will not be afraid of him, she is distressed, but she can't help him, she can only be obedient, and it is easy to be blind after obedience for a long time, and it is easy to become cowardly after that. He thinks that no one can approach him, he won't even consult with you because he doesn't want to separate from you, he is cold and violent, he just doesn't say anything, he doesn't share anything, because he doesn't trust anyone.
He desperately wanted to be understood, but he couldn't speak.
I think the best way is to find a way to let him vent out, tell all his suffering, and it will be fine, since you still love him, try to influence him from his usual habits, a woman's softness will make a man whose heart is as hard as a stone melt. Don't be tough, everything is negotiable. The most important thing is to find that breakthrough, and it is recommended that you talk to his mother to understand his growth state a little more.
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Of course, true love can infect everything, because it is really to warm a heart with a heart, to protect her (his) life with her (his) life, so that she (he) can sacrifice everything he has, without wanting to return the task, completely spontaneously and voluntarily, and giving up his life for her (him) is also very happy, without regrets!
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Some things are a lifetime, and I have never had a chance to do them, and when I have the opportunity, I don't want to do them again.
Some words have been buried in my heart for a long time, and I have not had a chance to say them, but when I have the opportunity to say them, I can't say them.
Some love has never had a chance to love, and when it has the opportunity, it is no longer loved.
Some people have a lot of opportunities to meet, but they always find excuses to shirk it, and when they want to meet, they don't have the opportunity.
There are many opportunities to do some things, but they are postponed day by day, and when they want to do it, they find that they don't have the opportunity.
Some love gives you a lot of opportunities, but you don't care, you don't care, you don't have the opportunity to love when you want to pay attention. 、
So! Sometimes, life is always ironic. One turn may be a lifetime.
If you are willing to give up, you will get if you are willing to give; Gains and losses, gains and losses, gains and losses. The world is so wonderful, why do you have to work hard to pursue a goal If you can let go, you can go far! Only by giving up can we pursue something.
People who don't want to give up anything will lose what is most precious. There is a very classic saying: when you clench your hands, there is nothing in them; When you open your hands, the world is in your hands. Only by knowing how to give up can we live a full, full and prosperous life in our limited life!
I'm not you! I can't make a decision for you! Calm down and think for yourself!
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Emotional matters can't be forced, are you willing to spend your life to influence him? Maybe you should have a good talk and untie your knots. If you don't untie it, I don't think you will be at ease for the rest of your life.
I can see that you are a good girl, but you are in love with someone who doesn't know how to love. He is also influenced by his family, if you really still love him. Encourage him so that he can communicate with you happily.
Good luck at the end!
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