My husband and don t get together and I got caught, now that they re in touch, what should I do?

Hold all the family's money in your own hands, when the financial power is in your hands, the rest will not be afraid, if your husband is penniless, who will contact him.

First of all, in your heart, do you feel that he is irreplaceable, is it in addition to the work can ignore his feelings, there is a problem, first of all, you must find the reason from yourself, but from the question you ask, is that you feel that she is dispensable, not without her own life is not finished, where you should first ask yourself from your heart, what do you want, how important she is in your heart, don't give yourself a reason, say that you are busy with work, In fact, more from my question, I feel that girls should be more wronged, think about it, because two together is not only a problem for two people, in addition to the personality, temper, values of two people, and two families with each other, there are very, very many problems faced, this is only a small part, so think clearly first, and then talk to each other. Then a decision will be made.

Do what you want? What's in your mind? Whether to forgive him or not.

You can forgive once, but don't you suffer yourself twice or three times? I don't think it's necessary to take the rest of your life for the happiness of such a person, and after making a decision, you have to prepare for your own best interests, and if you want to be together, you have to talk openly and honestly. Don't talk about it if you're not together, collect evidence to maximize your own interests.

Find a lover to pull and go shopping, and let your husband know. Don't think that only you can do it, I can't only do it, I can live my life, but pull it down, no one the owes anyone!

If you leave, you will fulfill others, and if you don't leave, you will be wronged, and you will first control the economy in your hands and talk about things that you can't leave.

Leave, such a deceitful marriage is not interesting!

If you want to make the family harmonious in the future, let's pretend that you don't know. When it's time to be stupid, decorate as stupid. Ten thousand times better than your "smart" daily survey.

Divorce is also unspeakable, let relatives and friends think, if you don't divorce, you will be really miserable, people, what? To be so ruthless, I don't believe in love anymore, it's hard.

Forgive too quickly! Just leave if you want! Marriages without feelings are painful!

It's time for you two to talk.

Take out the spirit of the main room and talk to the junior alone.

What else can a stupid woman do, divide it.

The law is greater than the sky, your husband has violated the law and should be punished, he also asked for it, pity you still miss the relationship between husband and wife, and are still maintaining a virtual family, your blind tolerance is not the way, things have reached this point, just let him go. He has been away from you for three years, you are living well, this time he went in, you should live a better life for him, for the sake of the child, for this family, for the people who care about you, straighten your waist and live well.

This is what he found himself, you only need to help him while he is in prison, instead of trying to help him escape punishment, this is likely to break the law and commit crimes.

Such a man is self-inflicted, you don't need to sympathize with him, he deserves it, it's just a matter of time or time, it's a good thing to go to prison and let him receive an education.

He is an unkind and unrighteous hypocrite, he deserves it, and he deserves it. Now there is a kind of person who uses "incompatible personalities" as an excuse, regardless of his wife and children, and openly fornicates with other members of the opposite sex. Most of them end up poorly and are not sympathetically recognized.

Such a man is not worthy of sympathy, let him sit down and learn some lessons.

There is no such thing as a free lunch, let him learn a lesson, increase his memory.

What can I do.

He looked for his own death.

And you're a victim too.

You're still suffering for your husband.

It's just immature.

Slowly learn to care for others.

Let him like to understand the care of others.

As if I didn't know, I was getting better and better for him, and told him that no matter how good it was outside, remember to go home when I was tired, and there were hot dishes and hot soup at home.

A common man's disease....

It's just a joke.

Just take his heart.

Let's talk about it, don't hide it in your heart, and let him not do this in the future, hurting each other and his family.

Try talking to your husband about this face-to-face.

Well. I think, he's good to you, just take a step back, if you tell him, he'll probably be annoyed, just take a step back, just be nice to you.

Ready for divorce?

The child has become an adult, which means that he has become independent in thought, has the ability to discern, and is no longer strongly dependent on his parents, so the influence of parents on the child has also faded, even if you end the marriage now, it will not have much impact on the child's character. Marriage is not a form of maintenance for the child, and even when the child needs a family, he needs a harmonious and healthy family, not a marriage that the parents barely maintain.

Marriage always belongs to you, you have to think clearly about whether the end means relief, whether divorce can really solve all problems, or the final result is what you want, you will not regret it repeatedly, if you think clearly about these problems or decide to leave, then you can make a decision, if you are not determined to divorce, but you don't know how to face it, then you have to think carefully.

Left, must-have, not to leave also has an impact, as a man to tell you about his father. It has already had an impact on the child.

The children are all adults, divorced.

Alas, settle it yourself, except for divorce,

As a woman, especially a woman who is still in love with her man, no.

Make friends with that woman, one is that the woman will feel embarrassed and take the initiative to quit after becoming friends with you, the second is that some of the husband's actions cannot be used behind his back, and the third is that the husband thinks you trust him more, and you can do it with one stone! Note: Be a true friend of her!

It's his bosom friend of the opposite sex!! Maybe you couldn't communicate before. Let's find a time to communicate!!

If you still love each other! Of course you have to show your mood!! Instead of hiding your own painful heart.

Let him know that you care so much about him.

If you believe him, don't take it personally

If you don't believe him, talk to him seriously

Because you should know why your husband is, ask him if there is anything he should not say to his wife, and I think that in this case there can be no contradiction and disagreement between you.

Men are numb, and there is no reality outside, and there is no woman!

Do you mind if you go and see "Genius", a book written by an American author!

Bad language is the fundamental solution to the problem, whether it is for your husband or your husband's friend of the opposite sex.

That would only make the situation worse, and would not benefit anyone or ourselves.

Caring shows that you have deep feelings for your husband.

Since there are still feelings, you might as well have an in-depth conversation between the two.

Since the problem exists, it should of course be solved. Rather than magnifying the problem.

In that way, it hurts both others and oneself. Why bother?

Alas, it is difficult for a Qing official to cut off family affairs.

Find a private detective to check, don't let your husband know, before you see how your husband reacts differently from before, and at the same time let yourself be generous and don't let him think that you are very cautious and control his emotions.

Maybe you are a little woman, you have to tell evidence in everything, if you don't jump to conclusions without facts, men are also very afraid of being wronged!

If that woman is his sister, you don't have to, right, figure out what their relationship is? Let's talk about the rest.

Tactfully persuade your husband to stop associating with each other! If he really loves you, he will accept your advice.

Isn't love about trusting each other? Trust him and be a generous woman! He'll know what's good about you!

Maybe you should try to talk to him more, care for him more, and make him feel that you are not only his wife, but also his confidant, so that he will not look for other confidants. You can try to understand that woman, if she belongs to the gentle and considerate type, you have to be more gentle and considerate than her, if she belongs to the fashion person, then you have to pack yourself every day, whether it is external or internal, whether it is at home or outside, to leave a beautiful impression on your husband, but also to make your husband feel proud of you, because men are also very fond of vanity.

If you still love him, then Cha Na woman, ask your husband to talk to her! Of course, you can't let your husband know beforehand.

Try to talk to your husband about your grievances, remember to first tell him that you don't distrust him, just talk to him about your feelings!! Gain his understanding!!

You can also find a fake lover to see if he cares about you

You can be taught a small method, you and your husband are separated for a period of time, the length of time is up to you, during this time you live alone, just when your husband disappears, force yourself to forget about your husband as a person. Then see if your heart can accept it or if you can give up. After this time, if you can live without your husband, then choose to let go, and if you can't forget the habit, then choose to forgive.

As for this woman, in fact, it is not the focus of your problem, this woman also represents other women, and if you and your husband solve the fundamental problem, this woman will not matter!

That means that your husband and this woman have fallen out before, and they will no longer have contact, this woman already hates your husband very much, and you can rest assured.

She's right. You should be yourself, and then you can hold your husband's people and heart, and it is your husband's problem to mess around with others outside.

You can keep sending messages to scold that woman. Maybe he's changed his phone, you don't know at all. You are also very right to do this, and you can vent your dissatisfaction.

From your description, it can be seen that your husband is messing around outside, and he also spends other women's money, that woman was deceived of feelings and money, so she said that it was like spending money to raise a dog, and after that woman found out, she cut off contact, and now your husband may have hooked up with another woman.

You will send a message to scold him, proving that you still have no way to forgive your husband in your heart, since it is all over, then let it go a little, otherwise it will be yourself who will be uncomfortable.

You will send a message to scold him, proving that you still have no way to forgive your husband in your heart, since it is all over, then let it go a little, otherwise it will be yourself who will be uncomfortable. You will send a message to scold him, proving that you still have no way to forgive your husband in your heart, since it is all over, then let it go a little, otherwise it will be yourself who will be uncomfortable.

Flies don't bite seamless eggs, I think instead of scolding that woman, you should think about why your husband is like this? Besides, your husband is also problematic, you scolded this woman and there may be another one, and you choked yourself enough, it's not worth it!

There's no need to scold that woman, since they broke up, right? Let go a little. The cause of the past life, the effect of this life.

What is your husband trying to do with him? Is it a picture of people or money? Do you trust your husband so much? Can you forgive him if he did something like this?

It's better for you to pretend to be confused If you want to continue living with your husband For the sake of this family, pretend to be confused It shows that your husband is not a good thing What the woman said is not unreasonable He is very likely to be with other women now You better talk to your husband.

I don't think it's necessary, your husband also has a problem.

Don't blame the woman for the blame and not look for problems with you and your husband!

Now that they are all separated, there is no need to scold him anymore.

There's no need to scold her, just leave because she's gone, and there's no need.

This is not very good, in fact, you have to find the reason from yourself, why he wants to find a woman, you can't scold others, you feel that you can't get along with him, so you can divorce.

Do you want to divorce him? If it is so, keep mentioning it, let your relationship be slowly worn out, if not, it is not necessary to keep talking about it, he may really have done something wrong, but he still chooses to stay by your side, then it is you who chooses, or you just blame him, so he doesn't want you to keep mentioning it.

If you feel that you can't forgive your husband for this issue, then you can make a decision with him about this matter; If you still want to live a life, then I suggest that you talk about this issue seriously, don't dwell on it anymore, and always delve into this issue, which makes everyone unhappy and is very likely to cause deeper emotional hurt.

This kind of thing is mentioned repeatedly. I just can't get along with myself. There's no need to be so entangled. Things are over, they are over. If you can't put it down all the time. That's putting pressure on yourself.

Now that you have forgiven him for being with someone else, don't talk about it again, because it will backfire.

If you mind, just split it early, if you want to be together, you just forget, after all, it's not a good thing compared to this, and it hurts feelings.

Yes, you can mention that he put you on the verge of divorce, and whoever is not angry can't give him a chance to think about it.