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The woman can ask for a divorce, and the man can't leave unless there are special circumstances

Article 34: The man shall not file for divorce during the woman's pregnancy, within one year after giving birth, or within six months after the termination of pregnancy. This restriction does not apply if the woman files for divorce, or where the people's court deems it truly necessary to accept the husband's request for divorce.

In principle, a breastfeeding child is awarded to the mother.

Article 36: The relationship between parents and children is not extinguished by the divorce of parents. After divorce, the child remains the child of both parents, regardless of whether they are raised directly by the parent or the parent. After divorce, parents still have the right and obligation to raise and educate their children.

After divorce, the child who is breastfeeding shall be raised with the nursing mother. If the two parties cannot reach an agreement due to a dispute over the custody of a child after breastfeeding, the people's court shall make a judgment based on the rights and interests of the child and the specific circumstances of both parties.

If you raise it, you must continue to do it, after all, it's still a father-son relationship

Article 37: After a divorce, the other party shall bear part or all of the necessary living expenses and education expenses for the children raised by one party, and the amount of the expenses and the length of the period shall be agreed upon by both parties; If the agreement is not reached, the people's court shall make a judgment. An agreement or judgement concerning the maintenance and education of the child shall not prevent the child from making a reasonable demand to either parent, if necessary, in excess of the amount originally agreed upon in the agreement or judgment.

As for the mental condition and violence that you are talking about, if it can be proved by evidence, it will be one of the several conditions for the judgment to grant the divorce, and at the same time, the innocent party can also claim damages, in the third paragraph of Article 46 of the Marriage Law, "Whoever commits domestic violence...

Now the child will be awarded to you until the child reaches the age of three, and then the maintenance will be determined by the man and the woman. If you are divorced now, you no longer have an obligation to support the man's parents.

Of course, there is a duty to support you, and it may be awarded to you, because from the perspective of protecting the child, the child's father's behavior may cause physical and mental harm to the child.

。However, I still have questions, how can I get my deposit back? The agent and the seller must have said that I was in default. Thank you for your advice.

This is not a few words to be able to intercede, forgive me.

It is advisable to talk to a local lawyer. According to your statement, it is indeed not.

Local lawyers are afraid of local snakes, so ask for help from city lawyers at or above the city level divided into districts.