Two people who love each other have broken up Can they be friends

Updated on psychology 2024-05-15
23 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    It's hard True love is selfless] Love is willing to do everything for each other, whether it can last forever, whether it can be long-term or not, I sincerely hope that the other party can be happy and happy! True love takes a lifetime to comprehend--- in real life, the one you love the most often does not choose you; What loves you the most is often not what you love the most; And the longest, it's not what you love the most and it's not the most that you love No one deliberately wants to change his mind, he really loves you when he loves you, but he really doesn't love you when he doesn't love you, he can't pretend not to love you when he loves you, and similarly, he can't pretend to love you when he doesn't love you. When a person doesn't love you and wants to leave you, you have to ask yourself if you still love him, if you don't love him anymore, don't refuse to leave for the sake of poor self-esteem; If you still love him, you should want him to live happily and happily, and hope that he will be with the true love, and it will never stop him; If you prevent him from attaining true happiness, you don't love him anymore, and if you don't, who are you to accuse him of changing his mind?

    Love is not possession! You love the moon and can't take it down and put it in your basin, but the moon's rays can still shine into your room. In other words, if you love someone, you can also have it in another way, making the lover an eternal memory in your life.

    The real victor is not you, me, him, it's time! He is the culprit of love, it makes you crazy for love, and at the same time it devours your love without a trace. He never changes his pace for your emotions, even if you plead with it and refuse to stay for a while, and you can't even see its face of ignoring everything, so the spring night is always short, and the pain is long, so the parting is always fast, and the wait is long, so love is fleeting, and life is a little bleak.

    We can't grasp the response of our love, we can only pass on the message of our love, we can't grasp it, we can only grasp our own pay, we can't guarantee that it will last forever, we can only manage it with our hearts!

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    I can't do it anymore because I can't face the past.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    Of course, it is not necessarily your true love that is by your side, but what is in your heart can be your lifelong thoughts. I believe in the existence of true love. It is also a beautiful thing to keep this person in your heart and love him forever. It's a different feeling to be friends, trust me.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    This is not a one-size-fits-all question, not that all people can return to be friends, nor that they can't.

    If it is a peaceful breakup, it is still okay to want to get in touch, after all, lovers can't do it, they are still familiar, and the feeling will be more subtle than that of friends.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    Forget it.

    Let's say that there is hope for being friends.

    If you really let go of it, your heart is dead, and you see it, you won't say anything like being a friend at all? Damn, such a man can't be forgiven. You love him very much, but isn't he with a third party?

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    It's up to you. You feel like you can face them calmly

    Then sit with a friend, if you still feel uncomfortable in your heart. Just don't get in touch anymore.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Breaking up is almost a necessary journey in the long road of love; But breaking up also requires art, from the moment of breaking up to bravely entering another new relationship, it is an irreplaceable experience in life. "Good gathering and good dispersion" is fate, and "good dispersion and good gathering" is learning. When the relationship ends, how to refine the courage to say goodbye, let go of the painful past, no longer wax torch into ashes, tears begin to dry.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    After the breakup:

    Don't be friends.

    Because they have hurt each other.

    You can't be the enemy.

    Because they loved each other deeply.

    You can only be the stranger you know best.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    Dear landlord.

    Glad to analyze for you.

    I've had your problem before.

    Hope it can help the landlord.

    If two people are serious, they are really in love

    It is absolutely impossible to be friends after a breakup.

    If both of them are just having fun

    You may also be friends after the breakup

    You can't be friends because you've hurt each other, and you can't be enemies because you've loved each other!

    It is precisely because of the past vows that it can only be a stranger!

    Even if you are friends, you can't be a real friend anymore, and there is a separation in your heart...

    If two people have no feelings for each other because of time, maybe they can be friends in a superficial sense!

    If one party still has feelings, the party with feelings will want to continue to be friends, but in fact, even friends are spoiled

    And if couples break up due to contradictions, betrayals, etc., it will only be strangers!

    What if two people become friends?

    Look at the people you once loved

    And now you don't love each other anymore

    Once you are friends, how should you get along with each other, how should you deal with it, that may only remind you of your past.

    It only hurts more

    It's better to be a stranger

    Let time fade everything that once was

    Just let it be a rainbow in memory

    I wish you happiness

    The landlord is welcome to continue to ask.

    Please forgive me for any inaccuracies!

    Looking forward to your adoption!

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    That's hard to answer! It's better to go with the flow, and you can't be friends after a breakup, because you hurt each other? This sentence should not exist on both sides, and you can't be enemies, because you love each other deeply.

    Yes, I agree with this sentence! Although she and I broke up, we would occasionally go out for a walk together, go out to eat together, occasionally.

    All**. Say hello to each other! But we always maintain a distance, always know that since we have broken up, we should not disturb each other's lives, and we bless each other together! As long as the other party is doing well, everything is fine.

    The reason why we come together is to make each other happy, and the reason why we break up is to hope that each other is happy! Since it's all about wishing the other party happiness, is it so important what to do after a breakup?

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    Truth be told, the odds of being good friends are slim.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    There are many things in the world that can be recovered, such as conscience, such as weight. But there are more irretrievable things, such as old dreams, such as years, such as feelings for a person. It is not painful to give up someone who loves you very much, but it is painful to give up someone you love very much.

    Gaining is not necessarily long-lasting, losing is not necessarily not in having, and loneliness is not necessarily unhappy. Time will dilute everything, including feelings, so just face it calmly.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    It varies from person to person, but it is possible to be friends after a breakup.

    However, it is rare to be friends, even friends may only be ordinary friends, because if they are separated, they will have their own lives and partners, and it is not excluded that there is a kind of breakup that is very good and reconciled.

    If you have loved each other deeply, at least one party will feel deeply hurt, he may be reluctant to contact again, he may be more hurt when he sees each other again, and it is better for the other party not to force it.

    After the breakup, everyone must understand the reason for the breakup, you can learn a lesson, and you can recover as soon as possible in the following time, and when you can calmly face the past that you have had together, I think friends can do it, and time can heal.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    No, you can't....If you can....Either you haven't loved it, or you're still in love.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    If you can be friends, do it.

    You can't be friends after you break up, because you've hurt each other. "That's all I can tell you.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    Don't be friends.

    Don't make excuses for yourself or the other person.

    The excuse to be able to re-web pages.

    Especially when people who love each other are separated.

    I can't even see each other.

    Sprinkle salt on the wound.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    It's better not to be friends!

    First of all, you broke up after all, and for whatever reason, it caused a certain amount of damage to each other. It's also very embarrassing to be friends reluctantly.

    Secondly, you have loved deeply, and that memory will remain in your mind at any time, making it difficult for you to position yourself as a friend. It's hard to get along.

    In the end, you broke up, and you have to find your new love, if you are friends, you can't grasp the scale well will hurt your girlfriend. It's disrespectful to your next lover.

    It's not easy to be friends of the opposite sex, not to mention that you used to be lovers deeply, and it's not easy to grasp the bottom line of friends.

    Suggestion: Let's put that emotion in a corner of my heart, meet, look back and smile in a friendly way, and cherish it. Be a familiar stranger.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    After breaking up, you can't be enemies, because you have loved each other, you can't be friends, because you have hurt each other, so you have become the most familiar strangers.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    If two people who truly love each other break up, they may become the most familiar strangers, because two people who really love each other.

    If you are still friends after a breakup.

    It is impossible for two people to control their feelings.

    It's impossible to treat each other as just friends.

    It depends on what you think in your heart, if one party doesn't want to, then the word "friend" is just a front, and if both parties are willing, then it is not difficult to become friends at all.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    Being friends after a breakup is the dream of almost every couple after breaking up, but how many people can go back to the past, some things happen just as they happen, and nothing can be regarded as nothing that didn't happen! I don't believe that you can be friends after a breakup, and being friends again after a breakup will only have one result, that is, you will get back together and then break up again. So if you break up, be cruel to each other and treat each other as the most familiar strangers!

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    When we broke up, we said that we would still be friends in the future. But are they really friends? Maybe it's a few years from now.

    A relationship, a journey, too much joy and touching together, too much helpless heartache, from true love to hurt each other, can you still be friends at the moment of breakup? If you can, you must not have really loved. Or it is the result of a person's grievances.

    There is no floodgate for feelings, and it cannot be closed with a single pull. It's hard for two people to love each other at the same time, and it's even harder not to love each other at the same time.

    There is no love, no hate, and only when you are indifferent to the throbbing in your heart can you become friends.

    But you and I, the two people who just broke up, maybe one of them is still in love, maybe from love to hate or resentful, maybe because of the throbbing of one of the other party's eyes, how to become friends?

    The person who once loved deeply can only watch silently, can't ask, can't manage, doesn't need to care, can't complain, everything about him has nothing to do with you, so how can you bear to be his friend?

    The person who once resented deeply no longer cares for you, no longer pampers you, his good and your bad can no longer be seen, you are just two parallel lines, so how can you still be his friend?

    Unless we haven't loved, I don't care who you are or what your identity is, I don't care at all, I never care.

    Even if we don't love it now, there are so many memories along the way, what should I do not remember at the moment when I face you?

    Or I still love you, I don't want anything, I don't regret it, no matter who you are to me now, no matter who you are guarding now, I am willing to always accompany you, hide my love for you deeply, not let you know, not be seen by you, and be willing to be a friend with you like a shadow as long as you are happy.

    Lovers are so close, friends are so far away, if you can't be lovers, maybe you will say just be friends.

    But even if the car drove away and returned to the original point again, it would be a different time, a different character, and a different scenery.

    We've already taken a step forward, but how can we measure the same size and go back? Keep going until you meet up again with someone else you can love.

    To break up is to break up, to decide, never to mention being friends.

    If you don't love him (her) anymore, let go and don't make excuses for your selfishness, don't keep him (her) if you still love him/her, and don't ask him (her) to turn back.

    When you break up, you only talk about breaking up, not about being friends.

    Just the most familiar strangers.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    It's a tangled question.

    The so-called breakup. It's because you wanted to hate, but you also loved each other.

    So... It depends!! After a year or two, you can be friends!! And they will know each other very well!! Definitely a bosom friend!!

    Wait for everyone to slow down! It's good for both parties!! Remember to be sincere!!

    Listening to Tanya Tsai's beautifullove when I posted this, it was quite touching.

    Hehe.. I wish you happiness.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    Once unforgettable, how easy is it to be friends after a breakup? Look at your former lover, kiss me and me with others, rejoice, you will definitely have... Why bother making your own drama for yourself?

    If you've already broken up, why do you want to deliberately maintain a relationship that borders on friendship? It's better to seal it in your heart, miss it or throw it away, and welcome a new life...

    If you break up, why be friends again?

    Otherwise, what a word to break up...

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