Why can t two people who love each other be friends after they break up?

Updated on amusement 2024-04-19
7 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    Some people say that you can't be friends after a breakup, you should love each other and hurt each other, so they became the most familiar strangers! But I don't think so, this is just a small group of people, but most people are still friends when they meet, because they break up because two people are not suitable, not because of others, everyone has a choice, and you are the same, if you want her, you might as well send her a message to say hello, maybe tomorrow you will still be friends. If you really can't be friends anymore, think of it as a good memory!

    That's a beautiful thing! As long as you're all happy.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    Can two people who have loved each other still be friends after they break up?

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    Here are some possible scenarios and factors that may affect whether two people can be regular friends or not:

    1.Reasons for a breakup: The reason for a breakup may affect whether or not two people are able to become regular friends.

    If the breakup is due to the lack of affection between the parties, or because the parties have reached a consensus after mutual understanding and tolerance, then it is more likely to become ordinary friends. However, if the breakup is due to quarrels, betrayals, hurts, etc., then it may be less likely to become ordinary friends.

    2.Emotional shifts: After a breakup, the emotions of two people may change, and one of them may still have hope or still have feelings.

    If one of them still has feelings for the other, then being a regular friend can be painful or distressing for them. In this case, becoming a regular friend may make the emotions between the two people more confusing or complicated.

    3.Personal characteristics and personalities: Whether or not two people can become ordinary friends may also depend on their personal characteristics and personalities.

    If both people are rational, mature, and tolerant people, then the possibility of becoming ordinary friends will be greater. However, if one of them is more emotional, impulsive, or immature, it may be more difficult to become a regular friend.

    4.Time and space: Time and space are also factors that affect whether two people can be ordinary friends.

    If two people have a cooling-off period after a breakup, let each other's emotions cool down, and separate for a while, so that each other has a new life and experience, then it will be more likely to become ordinary friends.

    In short, whether two people can become ordinary friends depends on many factors, including the reason for the breakup, emotional transformation, personal characteristics and personality, time and space, and so on. If two people can rationally and maturely manage the relationship between each other after a breakup, and respect, tolerate and support each other, then it is more likely to become ordinary friends. However, if either partner is still distressed or troubled by the division and mismatch, or if the two people have mixed feelings, it may be more difficult to become ordinary friends.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Dear landlord I am glad to analyze your problem I have encountered it again The following is my answer I hope to help the landlord If two people are serious and really love each other It is absolutely impossible to become friends after breaking up If two people are just playing and they will probably be friends after breaking up Can't be friends because they have hurt each other, and they can't be enemies because they love each other! It is precisely because of the past vows that it can only be a stranger! Even if you are friends, you can't be a real friend anymore, and there is a separation in your heart...

    If two people have no feelings for each other because of time, maybe they can be friends in a superficial sense! If one party still has feelings, the party with feelings will also want to continue to be friends, but in fact, even friends are spoiled and couples break up due to conflicts, betrayals, etc., it will only be strangers! What can two people do if they become friends?

    Look at the person you used to love And now you don't love each other anymore Be friends How do you get along with each other together How do you face it That may only remind you of your past It will only hurt more Lovers are so close, friends are so far away, if you can't be lovers, maybe you will say just be friends. But even if the car drove away and returned to the original point again, it would be a different time, a different character, and a different scenery. We've already taken a step forward, but how can we measure the same size and go back?

    Keep going until you meet up again with someone else you can love. A breakup is a breakup, and you must never mention being friends. If you don't love him (her) anymore, let go and don't make excuses for your selfishness, don't keep him (her) if you still love him/her, and don't ask him (her) to turn back.

    When you break up, you only talk about breaking up, not about being friends. Just the most familiar stranger Let time fade Everything that was once only a rainbow in memory I wish you happiness Welcome the landlord to continue to ask If my answer is inaccurate, please forgive me! Looking forward to your adoption!

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Just the most familiar stranger Let time fade Everything that was once all Let it be a rainbow in memory Wish you happiness

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    It is said that you can't be friends when you break up, although many people will say "we broke up, we are still friends", I used to laugh and watch such stories, and then wonder if I would be so free and easy. Finally, you said to me today, "Let's be friends after we break up, okay?"

    After a breakup, do you want us to be friends? I can't do it, I'd rather cry at your ** alone every day, fantasize about your smile every night to miss, I can still only be your boyfriend, even if it's just me in my own heart, but I can never treat you as a friend.

    Forgive me, I still won't be your friend after the breakup, it's for the still helpless love in my heart, maybe it's the hot love that used to be, on the day I tell you that I love you, it's doomed that we will lose the fate of being friends forever.

    Broken up, we won't be friends. Because I love you and miss you, I will never consider you a friend.

    Please forgive me, after the breakup, we don't be friends.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    No, because you still have love in your hearts, you will have concerns, and you can't help but think of your memories together. You can't be simple friends, it will only make each other more painful, the more you give, the deeper you love, the more painful it is, why don't you let go of others and yourself.

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