As soon as the family gets in touch, they ask how it feels to have money?

It shouldn't have been mentioned. I really shouldn't have mentioned it! Because we're talking about children.

And the psychological tolerance of children is really poor. One day in junior high school, my father suddenly told me that the family only had 20,000 yuan, and I still had to pay tuition fees, and the whole family had to eat and drink, so I didn't waste it too much. After hearing this, I couldn't be happy for a whole year.

That carefree feeling disappeared in an instant. I always wondered, what would I do if I ran out of 20,000 yuan? Shouldn't I stop studying and go out to work early?

I later found out that my dad was just joking with me. Because a year later, during the Chinese New Year, my dad bought me a walkman and clothes with eyes, and it cost nearly 8,000. In fact, he made a lot of money in those years.

He didn't know how much psychological burden his unintentional joke had caused to his minor son! It can even affect academics. Some people may think that children should be allowed to experience the difficulties of their parents as early as possible.

I don't think so. Each age of life has corresponding psychological characteristics, and you should do corresponding things, and you don't have to force it. The financial pressure, when he lives independently, will naturally understand.

Talking too much is useless and will only increase stress and trouble. It is not easy for his parents, and when he becomes a parent, he will naturally understand everything. No matter how much you say, it's better to feel it for yourself.

In fact, my parents are the ones who keep asking me for money, because it is not easy for them to make money. My mother has been selling vegetables for many years, and she has to get up at three or four o'clock to serve vegetables in winter and summer, and her income is only a few dozen yuan a day, and it is only a dozen yuan when it is bad. My dad basically did rough work like hard work, and sometimes he was very happy when he earned a hundred dollars.

I chose a school in high school, and it cost more than 3,800 in '97, which my parents would often mention. They also remember how much money they gave me each time, how much money I spent in three years of high school, and how much money I spent in four years of college, and they all remember very well. When I went to pay the school choice fee, my dad rode his bicycle for more than an hour to the city in order to save a few dollars in bus fare.

Personally, I think I'm quite normal in terms of money, I don't like to owe favors to others, I should go on a trip to travel, I go out to eat when I should go out to eat, and I am not greedy for cheap things at work. My parents often think that we are spending a lot of money, especially when they come to Guangzhou, and every time they take them out to eat, they are most concerned about the price. I give them things to buy online, and they always say, don't buy them, things are cheaper at home than online, and I ignore them.

I think my parents are withdrawing money all the time, but they don't blame me, they just tell me that it's not easy to make money, don't waste it. I was grateful to them, and when we bought the house, my mother was worried, thinking that we were spending too much money, thinking that we should not buy it, and that it was too risky, but she still took out all the savings in their hands and gave us about 100,000 yuan. As it turns out, we got it right.

Later, when they bought it again, they didn't stop it, but they gave us the 20,000 yuan of land requisitioned by the family.

When I used to go home once every two weeks or a month in middle school, my mom would say, "Every time you go home, our family will spend hundreds of dollars, and it's busy, like a war." If I don't come home, won't you cook?

Then let's eat as much as you want, I don't blame you for going home and spending money, I'm just talking" After my dad paid me living expenses, he would always keep the transfer list. When I got home, I showed it to me more than once, jokingly, "You have to pay us back the money later, and we'll remember it for you." Of course, I can't be angry yet, because people are just "joking" or they will be criticized for being cautious ......

Since childhood, I have been full of motivation to make money. After graduation, I didn't want to go home at all, because I never felt that there would be any warmth and dependence at home. Coming to Shanghai to work across half of China did not feel lonely.

Sometimes I don't go home for a month. My mom used to say, "Why can't you learn to be more enthusiastic and cheerful when you always feel cold?" Get close to your family.

Suffice it to say "How do you explain light and heat to a man who has never seen a stove?" ”

When I was a child, my mother was too expensive to spend money no matter what she did, and she asked for half a day to buy a snack, which led to a careful life after high school had her own living expenses, for fear of spending more money. As a result, one day when I proudly chatted with my mother about my money-saving experience, my mother had an incredible expression of hatred for iron and steel, "Giving you so much living expenses is just to make you more generous, what is it like for a big man to live such a small family!" "I ???