What is it like to live in a combined family?

I feel helpless, and I have no one to tell me if I am wronged, because I have no backing, and I live carefully every day, for fear that I will make others unhappy, and my heart is very lonely.

I don't know how to survive, I want both of them to live very well, and I feel that I am a part of this family, but I also feel that I have no status, and I often do some nonsensical things.

I have a friend who lives in a combined family, his stepmother has no children, she is very good to him, and he slowly accepts it, and later has a daughter, he is also very good to this sister, anyway, he is very happy.

I feel very uncomfortable, I feel that my parents are not as close to me as before, I feel very lonely, and I always feel that my heart cannot be settled and I have no sense of security.

I feel very uncomfortable, I have no freedom, I feel that everything is restricted, and I am very unaccustomed to being at home, just like living in a stranger's house.

I will mind a little bit in my heart, but this is also the choice of parents, and I will not interfere too much with my children, so I still have to adapt slowly.

You may not feel complete fatherly love or complete maternal love in this family, because one of them is not your biological parent after all, so you will be more embarrassed when living with them.

I feel very happy because I have never felt that my family is a combined family, and my stepmother is very good to me, I feel very happy.

If the relationship is not very good in the combination family, you will feel very sad without the love of your parents, and if the relationship with the combination family is better, then it will not have much impact.

Although I am not as happy as living with my biological parents, my stepmother is very good to me and always tries to make me happy, so I feel quite happy now.

It is a combination of two families, one family is the father with a child, the other family is the mother with a child, the parents of these two families are together, it is called a combination family.

It refers to the formation of a new family by a single parent family that complements each other.

Two families become one family.

Combined families refer to single-parent families that complement each other to form a new family, and there are often more family members, complex relationships, and conflicts that are not easy to resolve. The combined family is a special group in this society, and it is also a special family that is prone to problems. Each family member should be tolerant and empathetic.

The main reasons for the contradiction are:

1. Objective reasons: suspicion, suspicion, and even interference of other relatives; speculation and inappropriate remarks by friends and others; Rivals with bad motives, enemies who provoke and discord, etc.

2. Subjective reasons:

In terms of ideological understanding: family members have different selfish intentions, different levels of vigilance, disappointment due to high expectations for each other, and the psychology of giving favors to repay favorites, etc., which are easy to educate and favor children, and leave a feeling of stepfather or stepmother's partiality in the depths of children's thoughts.

In terms of living habits, differences in diet, hygiene, work responsibility, and the way of educating children to travel are not suitable for each other.

In terms of dealing with people and things: they do not understand each other's original friendship with each other's relatives and friends, and they are not familiar with each other's worldly realm.

In terms of economic management, although there is an agreement before marriage, the transparency of many income and expenditure situations in daily life and the different consumption views of each person are also prone to disputes.

In fact, whether you are happy or not has little to do with whether you have a new family or a reorganized family. It is true that a reorganized family needs to be dealt with and paid more attention to, but as long as you love each other enough, give each other's children the same love and respect as their families, and be equally happy regardless of each other.

I send you a word: treat each other as your own and respect each other as guests. It means that for each other's children, you must first love each other's own children, and treat each other's relatives and friends as VIPs.

My family is a remarried family. But my parents have been arguing all the time, and they have not been happy all their lives. My mom brought two sons and a daughter from my ex-husband, and my dad had two daughters on my side, and I am the only child of my current parents.

Because my dad has no opinions, has a bad temper, and treats my mother's children more outside, every time my dad quarrels, he has to run outside for a year and a half before coming back, and he doesn't care much about my mom's children, and my dad doesn't teach his two daughters well, so my mom's children and my dad's children are not very good, the relationship is not so good, and until now they have grown up, and they are still not so good.

As long as you adults handle it well, understand and respect each other, educate your children well, communicate well, and take practical actions to care for each other's children, so that the children can recognize, you will be very happy.

My parents' unhappiness was because of my father's problem, which he didn't realize about and that led to family conflicts. Every time I quarreled, my dad didn't work, so he took his two daughters to his mother-in-law's house, and was away from home for a year and a half

It is necessary to abide by the agreement between the two people, respect each other, do not suspect each other, and do not steal the privacy of both parties.

Personally, I think that if a "combined family" wants to live a happy life, it must be responsible and loyal to each other, a family means responsibility, and if you choose, you must be responsible for her, and you must have a common goal with each other, and you must know how to understand and understand each other, learn to look at problems from each other's point of view, and know how to care about each other.

If you have children, you must be good to each other's children, so that the other party can see your sincerity.