How can you endure and calm down to face everything when you do big things?

In fact, look at that matter differently and look for the root cause of the matter. Think differently, calmly look at this matter in a different position, how did you do, or what you should do, what you did wrong. In fact, it is asking you and the boss to think about the root of the problem, or where his starting point is, what he wants to do, but you do what he does not want to happen against his will.

So there is a feeling of being scolded. In fact, many things are to be looked at calmly and in a different way. , not for you to endure.

It's about letting you mature. It's actually your impatient personality and the fact that you can't hear what others are saying and criticizing. You can listen with an open mind and compare to see if there is anything wrong with you.

Like you, I used to be very impatient, lose my temper, couldn't listen to other people's criticism, and felt that I was doing the right thing.

It's not right in many ways. Later, the calm thinking was basically my own mistake. There are some things that are not thought out too much about the best way.

Doing anything is not about enduring. , but to look at this matter calmly and learn to mature.

Learn how and how others do things successfully.

Personality can only be controlled, not completely changed.

When we encounter things, we must not panic, only by staying calm can we make the best choice, once people fall into a state of panic, there is no way to make a choice, or it can be said that this decision is not the most satisfactory decision or the most wrong decision, those who have experienced strong winds and waves, no matter what they encounter are particularly calm, and then make the most correct choice will have later achievements;

At that time, Wei sent Sima Yi to attack the Shuguo Street Pavilion, Zhuge Liang sent Ma Tan to garrison the failure, Sima Yi led the troops to take advantage of the victory and approached the West City, Zhuge Liang had no troops to meet the enemy, but calmly opened the city gate, he played the piano and sang music on the city tower, Sima Yi suspected that there was an ambush to lead the troops to retreat, and when he learned that the West City was an empty city to go back and fight again, Zhao Yun rushed back to relieve the siege, and finally defeated Sima Yi....Therefore, when encountering things, we must be calm and calm, even if it is earth-shattering, we must analyze it from multiple angles, everyone has their own unique thoughts, and they must have their value and meaning;

So no matter what you encounter, you have to tell yourself to take a deep breath first, stay calm and quiet and then think carefully, so as not to lead to the consequences of a wrong step, remember that a famous saying once said: calm questioning is the ideal muscle, maintaining a calm questioning attitude is also a sober performance, the biggest pain in life is to be confused for a lifetime, although sometimes it is said that confusion is also a blessing, but more is sad and bitter;

Life will encounter many large and small storms, when the storm comes, calm, calm, tolerant, open-minded is the psychological quality we must have, calm and calm is a kind of self-cultivation and cultivation, it is based on "forbearance", patience and quiet, quiet and thinking, this is the smelting of psychology and will, is the spiritual sublimation of self-restraint and self-cultivation, in fact, everyone has their own principles of life and ways of life, so you don't have to care too much about other people's opinions in life, don't easily change yourself because of others' evaluation, You must know that you are you, if you blindly listen to others, you will lose yourself, suffer from loss of sincerity and fear, as long as you live with self-confidence and live your own style, let others say the rest;

All the troubles of life are because of heart disease, life is born from the heart, what kind of mood will have what kind of life, what is in your heart, then what you see is what, learn to calmly open your heart, indifferently look at the many troubles of life, happiness will come uninvited, when the road in front of you is not passable, then please choose to turn, when the mood is not happy, then choose to look down, some things are actually quite a long past, bumpy life road, calmly follow the fate.

I am Ming Yue, a friend who loves dance writing, focusing on sharing emotional workplace life, thank you for your company and support.

In the event of an emergency, we must remain calm and not be emotional, we must make a comprehensive and in-depth analysis before making a decision, and we must deal with difficulties rationally and properly protect our own interests.

1. When we encounter things, we must remain calm and not be emotional.

Sometimes, when I encounter something, I lose my cool because I think it is right for me, and I make emotional decisions without thinking about it. ......Such an approach will have a very negative impact on oneself and may even damage one's own interests. ......Therefore, when you encounter something, you must maintain a calm attitude and do not get emotional, so as to ensure that you are not hurt.

2. A thorough and in-depth analysis must be conducted before we make a decision.

In our daily life and work, we have to make final decisions about the problems we encounter and implement them to solve them. ......Before making a decision, we must conduct a comprehensive and in-depth analysis of the problems we encounter, weigh the pros and cons of various factors, and consider various factors that are easy to ignore, and then make a final decision, which is the most beneficial approach for ourselves.

3. When encountering difficulties, we should take rational measures to deal with them and protect our own interests.

In our daily work and life, we will inevitably encounter various difficulties. If we retreat from these difficulties, we will suffer more damage. Annihilation of Sun ......Therefore, when we encounter difficulties, we should take the initiative to face them with reason, seek solutions with reason, and deal with them properly, so that we can overcome difficulties and solve problems.

When you do the above points, no matter what kind of person you are facing, you can effectively protect yourself and properly safeguard your own interests.