Give a choice between the people you love and the people who love you who you choose. 10

Choose someone who loves you, and you will be happier to be loved. They will also slowly become the person you love.

I don't choose either, marriage will only be happy if the right people are together. At the right time, meeting the right person, getting married and having children is the happiest. Love, may only be a temporary appreciation, may not last long, people's aesthetics will change with time, just like the popular clothing on the market, this year is white, next year it may be black.

In marriage, run in with each other, appreciate his strengths, tolerate his shortcomings, love all of him, and grow together. Loving what I choose is the right thing to do.

If the person you love also has a good impression of you, then choose the former, if the person you love does not love you or even hates you, then choose the latter, after all, loving and being loved are great blessings.

Choose the person who loves you. Even if you are with the person you love and are not very happy, he will not tolerate you and will not be together for a long time.

I will choose the person who loves me, I think from the perspective of a girl, if I choose the person I love but do not love me, it means that I will give a lot of things, unlimited feelings still have time, we can not predict whether we can get a response from the other party after paying, if we still suffer from the man's rejection after a long period of persistence, then, our feelings will go down the drain, and lose some confidence in the face of the next love, maybe this is nothing for many boys, but the youth of girls is very important, we should insist on ourselves, Maintain self-esteem and don't do anything to get someone I love, it's not worth it; Maybe when you turn around with loss and despair, you will find a person standing behind you who loves you silently and always accompanies you in the face of difficulties, this is the sunshine hidden behind despair, such a person is the most worthy of your cherishment, even if you don't love him now, but if he really loves you, then you should believe that one day you will be moved, and you will fall in love with him; If he doesn't love you deep enough, he gives up on you halfway through, before you fall in love with him. You won't have much to lose, maybe reluctantly, but you won't despair anymore. In fact, there is also an opportunity cost in such a love choice, and you should try to choose the person who causes the least loss to yourself and gains the most.

These are just some of my personal opinions, and I hope they can help you a little! Decisions and choices have to be made on your own, because in the end it is always you who bears the consequences.

I'm also struggling with this problem right now.

It would be painful to miss one of the two, and you have to have both.