Huge life choices. Urgent!! About going to school.

Although I don't know what that Marco Polo plan is, since you said that someone can't compete with his career for seven or eight years, to be honest, with your grades that you can't even get into the undergraduate exam, you have difficulties.

Preparatory Department for Study Abroad? To tell the truth, it is for children who have no ability and harm their parents' money.

None of the people around me are ...... to be promisingIf you want to go abroad, you must first take the test based on your own ability.

So if you don't want to work hard or don't have the perseverance to work hard, go to college in a down-to-earth manner and be a flight attendant for a few years.

I can't tell if it's true or not, you can check the Beijing Education Commission yourself, consult it, and the regular school education commission will have a record.

Talking a little mean, I hope you don't mind.

Then you said, in fact, it really takes a lot of courage and perseverance to repeat, you don't have to choose and you don't have to blame yourself, and in fact, the repetition is not rewarded for most people.

For example, it turned out that there was a person who repeated his studies for 5 years and was admitted to Peking University, but what happened after that? He couldn't get along in that circle, because there were places where geniuses were rampant, and he worked hard to get in, but what did he do to fight with others after that?

There are many paths in life, in fact, if you don't choose to repeat your studies, the other choices are not very strict, you can try to find a job by yourself, work part-time, experience this society, and then decide your future path after a few months, only by others, you can't experience what life is like, only by yourself to know what you want.

Good luck with you.

Go to the United States to study, the quality of American universities is very good, as long as you persevere, you will have a different life. (Major of junior college in the United States).

Regret repeating for a year, and regretting a lifetime if you don't repeat.

If you don't like art, you can repeat to learn others, and don't take repetition as a shameful thing, you have studied art for a year in non-professional personnel, art is already your specialty, isn't it, just think this year is to find a hobby for your life to cultivate sentiment, at least not a waste of life. But remember, if you're really tired of taking culture classes, it's a sign that you're still not motivated.

After reading what you said above, I think you are a strong girl, youth is capital, and now planning your life for yourself is a kind of success in itself, if you want to study abroad there are many ways, my personal opinion is that the education system in Asia as a whole lags behind the West. South Korea is no exception. In the West, academic qualifications are only one aspect, they pay more attention to:

Self-expression ability, communication ability, self-practice ability and self-discovery of strengths, etc., in general, is the ability to survive and adapt to society. If you pay attention to cultivating your abilities in these aspects, even if you develop in China, I believe you will have your own world.

Re-read it for yourself.

After reading your request for help, I feel that I have a lot to say, and I suggest you take a look at my story first: the origin of a disabled person who taught himself to become a senior engineer.

I don't think you need to study anymore, I think what you learned in college should be enough, your electricity should be enough, find a suitable position for yourself, quickly settle down, at this time you should think more: how to give full play to your own advantages, make life more meaningful, if there is still a lack of some basic knowledge in the work, it is too late to replenish in time, I did not go to college, completely self-taught, engaged in research and development and teaching, and won a lot of honors, isn't it betterRemember: to make life meaningful is to pay, reading is just the basis of paying, when you read enough books, you have to think about creating the value of life.

Life is too short to strive for your ideals and goals. Everyone is mortal, at the age of marriage, it is still the first marriage, and when it is time to give birth, it is still husband, and after the age, everything will be very variable. Therefore, while thinking about your studies and career, you should first solve the common problems of people.

You can study hard for a few years, and you will be doubled in return. I think that since I love physics and have a unique insight into physics and can achieve success in the future, I should study physics, after all, the subject I love is the easiest to achieve. You can also finish a master's degree in software engineering and study physics in your spare time, hey, it is difficult to have internship conditions in China, (maybe I don't know), there is no atmosphere for research achievements.

I am 3 years younger than you, I have graduated from college and have been working in Chengdu, but my boyfriend is in his first year of graduate school, and we have never been in the same city, and we have been in a long-distance relationship for almost 3 years. As a girl, in fact, you want your boyfriend to be by your side, and it is reasonable that your girlfriend doesn't want you to stay away from her, and the long-distance relationship is either getting better and better or breaking up immediately. There are a lot of things I don't understand, but in my personal opinion:

You like physics, the line in Area B is more than 30, after all, it is Area B even if you record it, maybe the school is not very satisfied, physics? I don't know what job is suitable for? I don't know if you like the title of Ph.D. or really want to learn more about what you like, this is a very real problem, reading more books is to earn more money, what can you do after studying for a PhD in physics?

University professors? Or to help the country research high-tech things? In addition, even if you are studying for a doctorate, you can still study.

Is it to settle in Tianjin? In Beijing? In Shenyang?

Once you've made sure that things are done, you can all work towards your goals together. The world is inherently unfair, not everyone can become a billionaire and become a celebrity if they work hard, there is so much money in the world, no one will make it all, there are many things in life that need to be trade-offs and need to be decided, life is just a few decades, and no one knows what tomorrow will be like. Sometimes it's not like you can do whatever you like, it's just a habit, living for the sake of living, and after a long time, you get used to it.

It depends on what you mean, you want to settle in Tianjin, and your girlfriend is also in Tianjin, this master's degree in software engineering can be directly admitted to the doctorate, in other words, you have learned more things besides physics, and physics has also learned that you can also be a hobby when you have time, first use this single master's degree in engineering to gain a firm foothold and lay a good foundation, and then you can have other ideas when the time is ripe in a few years. In fact, I think that in this society, in addition to studying high-tech things such as the atomic bomb, you need to have knowledge and education, many things ordinary people will just have time, and the most difficult thing to do is that the high is not low. When I was studying, I was also a person who could think, and now I think differently after hitting a wall at work, in order to live a good life, live a wonderful and fulfilling life, so I think choose your third, this is my own idea word by word, the choice is up to you, good luck, big brother!

Hello, your current situation is the current me, I chose this way before, first I talked to my girlfriend, let him go with me, and found a job in the city where I studied, and then I continued to study, and my girlfriend was also by my side, very relieved. I thought at the time, books must be read, but girlfriends are also very important. Actually, I think you're thinking a little bit too much about that now, and if you keep reading it, you'll definitely get good results in the end.

It must not be half-hearted, the kind that you want to read but don't want to read.

After going through hardships, now I finally got out of my head and bought a 120-square-meter house in Shenzhen, and I also have children.

Thank you, I hope my experience can be helpful to you, hope.

Write down the things that you have a hard time deciding, including what you want to learn, and your girlfriend, who will have children in the future, and then you have to cross one off, no room for negotiation, one at a time, so that you know what you have to do, and you know what is most important, in fact, sometimes there are things that you can do later.

It is recommended to take the postgraduate examination for part-time students. Don't delay having a child or getting a certificate, you are right, the diploma is just a board, there is no need to spend too much time on this springboard! Studying while working is a great guarantee in life!

This brother, how can you say it, you said it yourself, graduation is a piece of, why do you spend so much time studying. I went to graduate school for three years myself, and although I don't regret it, I don't think it's worth it. Three years of graduate school, 4 years of hard work, 7 years, what is the opportunity cost?

Just as an example, I became an accountant, and I became a certified public accountant, a certified tax agent, and a senior accountant in 7 years, with a monthly salary of more than 12,000? Besides, your girlfriend has been waiting for you for so many years, and I'm really insecure as a woman.

To put it simply, it is to settle down first and then start a career, books cannot be read, practice can produce true knowledge, and the domestic education system must be clear, master's and doctoral degrees, in fact, there are not many things to learn, many are still relatively old, and physics can only reflect its value through practical application.

Which direction do you feel is right? Your family must be in a hurry to get you married and have children! I feel like if I want you to think about what the family thinks first, you can't always think about yourself and consider the object, remember a sentence, my mother is one, and the object is!!

Suggested work. After working, you have a financial foundation, and then try to go to a better school.

Maybe you've already made a plan But you just don't know if it should be like this, you can do what you want The more you think about it, the more troublesome it will be.

I think it's better to read, after all, I can't find a job and I can't afford to support my wife and children, and money is a very important thing.

You still have to decide by yourself, only the feet know whether the shoes fit well, and others just join in the fun.

There is a saying in the United States that knowledge does not necessarily bring money, making money depends on ability" First of all, you have to figure out what you need, if you need money, then you don't need to go to school, on the contrary, if you want knowledge, then go to school! But now even if you go to school, you may not be able to find your dream job, if the technology you mentioned can wait for you, if you can't find your dream job after school, then you can still do your job in that technology.

The key is whether the work can wait for you.

You have to know that in today's society, you can't do anything without money, and sometimes your fate will change in your inadvertent choice, so what you are facing now may be a choice that changes your fate!

You have to be clear about what you need!

There are three realms in life, looking at the mountains is the mountains, and looking at the water is the water;

Look at the mountains are not mountains, and look at the water is not water;

Look at the mountain or the mountain. Look at the water or the water.

That is to say, a person is pure and flawless at the beginning of his life, when he first knows the world, everything is fresh, what his eyes see is what he sees, and when people tell him that it is a mountain, he knows the mountain; Tell him it's water, and he knows water.

As I grew older and experienced more and more things in the world, I discovered the problems of this world. There are more and more problems in this world, more and more complex, often black and white are reversed, right and wrong are confused, unreasonable travel all over the world, it is difficult to move an inch with reason, good people have no good reward, and evil people live for thousands of years. At this stage, people are angry, unfair, worried, questioning, vigilant, and complex.

People don't want to believe anything easily. At this time, people look at the mountains and sigh, and sigh when they see the water. Mountains are no longer simply mountains, and water is no longer simply water.

Everything is the carrier of people's subjective will, the so-called "good wind with strength, send me to the clouds". If a person stays at this stage of his life, he will suffer this life. People will look at the mountain and look at the mountain, keep climbing, be competitive, compare with others, how to be a person, how to behave in the world, rack their brains, exhaust their organs, and never end and be satisfied.

Because this world is originally a circle, there are people outside the people, there are still heavens outside the sky, the cycle goes on and on, and the green water flows forever. And human life is short and finite, can you go to the eternal and infinite?

Many people reach the end of their lives when they reach the second state of life. Pursue a lifetime of hard work, a life of arrogance, and finally find that you have not achieved your ideals, so you hold a grudge for life. However, some people, through their own practice, have finally raised themselves to the third realm of life.

The mouth suddenly opened, and it returned to nature. At this time, people will concentrate on what they should do and will not have any problems with others. Let your red dust roll, I will be clear from the breeze and the moon.

In the face of complicated and worldly things, laugh at it, and understand what's wrong, at this time, people look at mountains and mountains, and water and water. Exactly: people are human beings, and they don't have to be deliberate to be human beings; The world is the world, and there is no need to deal with the world carefully; That is the real life and life.

Learning technology is also learning, if you are sure that you can find a job.

When you go to junior high school, you have to go to high school and then college, and you don't necessarily learn anything more useful than technology in school.

I suggest you learn a skill first, because that's to survive. In fact, in my opinion, what is more important is not to learn survival skills, but to learn to think, learn to be a person, and improve one's cultural literacy. You can study while you're securing your life, and you don't have to go to school to study.