How to use humble words when others entrust heavy responsibilities to themselves

Your family doesn't criticize you, they judge your progressiveness.

What is the name of someone else's child ... =-=

Fable: The story of never killing Chen Tuo, a person should be honest and humble towards knowledge.

Humility means being humble and not exaggerating one's abilities or worth. No boasting or conceit, no recklessness or indiscretion. The habit of being able to take the initiative to ask others for advice or advice before making a decision or taking action with confidence.

"Report at the Second Plenary Session of the Seventh ** Committee of the Communist Party of China": "We must ensure that comrades continue to maintain a modest, cautious, not arrogant, and not rash style. ”

People with real talent and real learning are often modest, modest and cautious; People who do not learn and know nothing are often arrogant and self-righteous, so that they can be teachers. Humility is a virtue and a necessary prerequisite for progress and success. Maybe it really answered that sentence:

Humility makes people progress, and pride makes people lag behind.

Humility is not to think badly of yourself, but to not think about yourself at all.

If you think too well of yourself, it's easy to think badly of others. Writer Yang Daxia said that modesty is to see through one's strengths and weaknesses.

This problem really has to be adapted to local conditions, and the guests are treated. It is not an exaggeration to say that a man is humble and easy-going if he has enough to be proud. If a person has no capital for pride, but is just a frog at the bottom of a well and is blindly arrogant, he does not need to consider the issue of humility, because no matter how arrogant this person is, he is pitiful in the eyes of others.

I believe that the author must want to get along with others more harmoniously and better integrate into friends. I hope you can do better!!

I think for a person to be truly humble, it's very simple, and that is to be cautious. No matter what kind of role you are, without underestimating yourself, you should look down on yourself, look down on yourself, give others more respect and approval, and then do what you should do with peace and dedication. At this time, you will receive the same praise and affirmation from others, which may be humble.

First of all, striving for the first is called self-motivation, and you feel arrogant that is pride.

Pride doesn't mean you can't be humble.

Second, humility is the humility that comes with different opinions, the ability to let go of one's own opinions and listen to the opinions of others. If you are discussing a math problem with someone and they question your approach, or say that there is a better way, then you can accept what others are doing, then you are humble.

Also, if you really want to make yourself less arrogant, go to some competitions, although I always think it's masochistic, there will always be people in this world who are better than you.

The more capable a person is, the more humble it is.

It is precisely because it has the ability, sees high, and looks far that it discovers the size of the world, the number of capable people and its own insignificance, and modesty is a kind of awe of the world.

Einstein compared the capable person to the big circle, and the small ability to the small circle, the small circle always feels that he has learned a lot and is very proud, that is because it has less contact with unknown things, the big circle represents more knowledge, and the larger the area of contact with unknown things, the more he can feel that he is ignorant. The more capable people feel, the more ignorant they feel, and the less capable people feel, the more they feel that they are powerful.

Landlord, you are not incompetent, but how capable can you be? Let go of your pride and humbly accept your weak self in order to make yourself stronger.

There is such a story in ancient times: a squire had two daughters who were very beautiful, and all the guests who came to his house were full of praise for his daughters, but he always said "modestly": "****, they are all ugly."

After a long time, his words were heard, so there was no matchmaker at his door until his daughter was old.

The words spoken by this squire because of his "modesty" were taken as true, leading to an uncontrollable situation. Although the story is a bit exaggerated, the truth illustrated is worth pondering. Our nation has had the virtue of modesty since ancient times, however, once upon a time, the word "modesty" was misinterpreted, as if only by denying one's own talents and devaluing oneself to worthlessness could it be considered modesty.

In fact, it is not modest to admit one's talents, or even to perform them in public, because the purpose of showing one's talents is to find opportunities to use one's talents.

Zhuge Liang during the Three Kingdoms period, when Liu Bei saw him in the thatched house and asked him for advice, although he was "not out of the thatched house", he dared to "set three points of the world". Later, he followed Liu Bei to fight in the south and the north, and finally became an outstanding military strategist and politician in history. If he had used words such as "uneducated and shallow", "lonely and unheard", and "unable to take on heavy responsibilities" in order to show his "modesty", perhaps Liu Bei would have been destroyed long ago.

Therefore, only when you have the courage to put forward your own opinions at the right time, so that others can fully understand your talents, can you get the opportunity to display your talents.

The story of Bole Soma tells us the importance of Bole. And Han Yu further pointed out in "Ma Shuo": "Maxima often exists, but Bole does not often have."

On the one hand, people are struggling to find good horses, and on the other hand, real good horses are buried. Since "Bole" is so rare in the world, why doesn't "Maxima" "recommend himself"?

Some people always say that "real people don't show their faces, and they don't show their faces", just ask: What is the use of a "real person" who never shows his face? Could it be that only those who never express their opinions are considered "real people"?

Could it be said that scientists who can never produce scientific research results are considered "real people"? If so, what is the value of a scientist? It's better to replace it with some robots that only know how to obey orders and follow the rules.

Some people see others, especially young people, making achievements, and they always like to pour a basin of cold water with words such as "milk smells but not dry" and "I don't know how thick the sky is". In fact, while satirizing others for being "immodest", they are fully exposing their proud nature of being old and arrogant.

Today, with the rapid development of science and technology, it is especially important to dare to express one's spirit. The new generation of young and promising people must not hesitate to miss the opportunity and leave it behind for life. As long as you are able, don't pay attention to what others say.

You should step up, use your talents, develop your ambitions, and aspire to make an indelible contribution to society.

No one is always a loser, opportunities are earned by themselves, and others have more opportunities than us because they are good at discovering. Being good at self-expression is also a sign of self-confidence, if you don't even have self-confidence, then you won't express yourself. In a word:

Being modest doesn't mean being conservative, and I think it's modest as long as you don't overestimate yourself.

The motto of Beijing Normal University: Learn to be a teacher and act as a model for the world.