I ve been in a cold war with my boyfriend for two days, what should I do

Updated on psychology 2024-05-07
16 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    This is a bit too hasty for you, normally two people in a relationship will involuntarily can't help but want to be with each other. First of all, I understand you very well, because I used to be like you, but you have to believe that if he really loves you and can't control his thoughts about you, he will try his best to find time to see you, and he won't feel tired at all. Of course, this is also in moderation, and you don't want the person you love to be too tired, do you?

    Waiting is a hard thing, and what's the point of dealing with the object is the same as having nowhere to go? You haven't done much yet, he thinks you've pushed him too much and completely ignored your previous efforts, do you think it's fair to you? A man has to be responsible, he is timid when he encounters some difficulties, as long as he is unhappy, he hides aside to relieve his boredom, and completely ignores your feelings, do you think he really loves you?

    Or is it just talking? Feel sorry for yourself, don't love blindly.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    If you still cherish this relationship, take the initiative to show goodwill, you should understand his busy work state, you just communicated with the problem, tell him the previous situation, you need to comfort not need to explain, tell him that next time you encounter this situation, just comfort you This is the reason why men and women have different ways of thinking, women like to talk and be understood, while men like to solve problems, so he explains, hoping to solve this problem, but you feel that you are not understood and comforted, so you are angry, after you are angry, The man feels that he has not solved this problem, he is very frustrated, which is a big blow to the man's self-confidence, you just need to tell him what to do under what circumstances, you have a temper tantrum for a long time, he doesn't know what you want and don't lose his temper with him for some things he can't solve, he is also very helpless and aggrieved, such as working hours, sensible girls, boys like it

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    If you really love your boyfriend, just find an opportunity to care about him, if your relationship has been maintained for a long time, you are sure that he really has feelings for you, and there is no mistress or anything, I don't think there is any need to keep the cold war, maybe he is really busy, maybe he has a spare tire, first of all, find out the reason, you women are super emotional animals, but after the sensibility, you still have to deal with things rationally, if he is really busy, you have to show understanding, if there are other circumstances, then say another thing.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    I believe he is really busy, man, it's not easy to work hard, it's already stressful, if you mess with her again, he may feel that no one understands him, and his heart is even more annoying. You just take the initiative and give him a step down, he will think that you are understanding, and when he has a successful career and you get married, it will be fine. Cherish it.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    No, generally in this case, someone has to bow his head first, your boyfriend is busy, you have to understand as a girlfriend, he doesn't have time to accompany you, you can accompany him!

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Alas, don't worry, it's actually good to see each other once a week, don't complain too much, if two people are together every day, it's going to be annoying.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    I think if you really love you, at least a ** every day, no matter how long it takes, or a text message of greetings, even if it is only a few words, proves that he has you in his heart, and being busy is not a reason, just an excuse.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    He definitely wants to accompany you too, and he can not be allowed, and the breakup will not be, cold war.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    You can't break up, you should need to be calm.

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    Don't guess. Ask why.

    If he's really busy, it's normal to spend time with you once a week.

    If you don't think there's much chance of meeting each other, just live together.

    Don't cold war, it's too nerve-wracking.

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    Divided, he didn't surrender for two days.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    Aren't you two in the same place? The two tolerate each other together, he really doesn't have time to accompany you, or he doesn't want to compensate you, you ask first!!

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    The two sides understand each other.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    You see how often he can contact you, if not, you can take the initiative to contact him.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    Since it is a war, there will be winners and losers. If you can fight for a lifetime, it is called marriage.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    Summary. Hello, I'm glad to answer for you, it's been two days of cold war with your boyfriend, communication is the most critical, you can think about the root cause of this quarrel from the inside, put your mind right, and communicate with your boyfriend at zero distance when looking for problems, and then solve the difficulties. I hope mine can help you and wish you a happy life and all the best!

    The second day of the cold war with my boyfriend.

    Hello, I'm glad to answer for you, it's been two days of cold war with your boyfriend, communication is the most critical, you can think about the root cause of this quarrel from the inside, put your mind right, and communicate with your boyfriend at zero distance when looking for problems, and then solve the difficulties. I hope mine can help you and wish you a happy life and all the best!

    Let's hit it. In addition to **, there is also information content, which is not as good as writing a short message with deep feelings to give your boyfriend a feeling of your sincerity.

    In the first two days, every time I hit **, I either went to bed or prepared to sleep, and I asked him angrily and told me what he was doing sleeping? He explained a lot of things that weren't like that, that a woman really felt something changed in him, and then I said to him, okay, you're sleeping a little longer, and I'm also trying not to call, don't send messages, and be cautious all the time, but I still want to tell you that attitude is everything.

    And then he replied, "I know you're having a hard time and can't sleep, I really haven't done anything for the past two days, I don't know how to tell you," and I replied, okay, "The night before yesterday at 11:30 p.m. until now, it's been a cold war."

    Good. The Cold War is not good for feelings, so it is recommended to take the initiative to contact the other party to make it clear.

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