Why do children listen to their teachers more than their parents?

Children are more respectful of teachers and think that what the teacher says is right, and parents like to criticize and have no patience.

Children listen to their teachers more than their parents. Because the teacher is an outsider. Children have some fear of strangers.

Especially the teacher, if you do something wrong, the teacher will punish you. So the child listens to the teacher. Because your parents will settle for you.

So you won't listen to your parents. Sometimes human nature is just that, it's weird.

That's very simple, because the teacher is authoritative in the school, he is in contact with education, he has to listen to the teacher, and his parents have no authority when they are together every day, and it is normal for him not to want to listen to his parents.

Generally, students listen to their teachers, and their parents listen to them, and such students generally learn very well.

Because the child is afraid of the teacher, and the parents are often with him, he has no fear, so he listens more to the teacher.

Shizhu investigates why children listen to teachers more than their parents, because teachers are his idols in his mind, because he thinks teachers are very noble and tall, so he listens to teachers to their parents because they have been together for a long time and know their parents better, and sometimes they will not listen to their parents and listen to their teachers.

If you do a survey, your child listens more to the teacher than to the parent, it's because the child spends more time with the teacher during the day. And always with a kind of authority.

From the impact on children, first of all, genetic factors, the most obvious manifestation is intelligence, and then family education, the ancient Chinese saying is called three years old to see the small, seven years old to see the old, many important qualities in the small will be affected by family education, and this influence throughout the life of a person, many parents are irresponsible, too lazy to take on the responsibility of education, so once the child goes to school, the task of education is handed over to the teacher, in fact, this is very incorrect, throughout the life of many criminal children, The lack of family education can be found, and the most recent case is the problem exposed by the family education of Li Shuangjiang and Mengge's children. As a school teacher, you should take on the communication channel between school education and family education, and once you find a child's problem in school, you must contact the parents to work together to correct and train the child.

Personally, I think that teachers play a role in guiding education, and parents play a role in supervising and re-learning the process, teachers and parents should communicate in a timely manner to understand the various situations of children and give corresponding feedback, so that teachers and parents can educate children in a more targeted manner.

Common education but with different emphasis, the school cultivates students to abide by the law, be civilized and polite, collectivist, love the motherland, love learning, and love labor. Tutoring should cooperate with the school to teach the children, focusing on living habits, honest character, courage and will to work hard, and good character cultivation.

Contradictions among the people and contradictions between the enemy and ourselves.

Home education is very important in the process of educating children, and if the family education is done properly, then educating children is very successful. It can not only give children a healthy and happy childhood memories, but also guide children to have correct values and outlook on life.

Xu Jin - Tsinghua University President Class Training Teacher, Peking University President Class Training Teacher, Shanghai Jiaotong University President Class Training Teacher, International Society of Child Development and Education Distinguished Teacher, TV Education Channel Distinguished Teacher, Family Education Gold Medal Teacher.

1. Family education teachers should have practical experience. As the saying goes, real gold is not afraid of fire, and family education teachers have practical educational experience to provide guidance to parents who are educating their children on the way. A good teacher who can actually solve the confusion of parents is what parents expect.

2. The family education teacher should have the duties of a father. Regardless of identity, Mr. Xu Jin is also a father of a child, so he has his own intimate experience in educating children, and educating children has always been Mr. Xu Jin's dream, so Mr. Xu Jin is particularly focused on educating children, and most of the problems encountered by parents in education are also from many aspects of argumentation to get the correct conclusion before sharing with you, so as to teach everyone how to educate their children.

3. Family education teachers should have the qualifications of a teacher. Ms. Xu Jin is a Distinguished Teacher of the International Society for Child Development and Education (ACDEI), a Distinguished Teacher of TV Education Channel, and a Gold Medal Teacher of Family Education. Therefore, he is a very authoritative teacher in educating children, and has scientific education methods, so that children can develop healthily and happily in all aspects of psychology.

Family education teachers are very important, now parents are busy with work, in fact, the convenience of children's education is still relatively lacking, many things are not particularly understood, speaking of which to find a family education teacher can solve the problems of parents, and it is of great benefit to the future of children.

Nowadays, many people are looking for a home education teacher, the effect is still good, when the child asks the parents questions, the parents are not embarrassed to come up is only secondary, so there will be a bad situation, so it is still necessary to find a home education teacher.

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How to choose a tutor for your child?

Whether the child needs to hire a tutor, whether to hire a qualified teacher or a college student from a prestigious school, these are all questions that parents need to consider. What should I consider before making a decision?

The child asks questions. First, does your child need a tutor?

Some children have poor basic learning ability, and they can't keep up with the pace of their classmates when they are in school. However, if the basic ability of this type of child is too poor, the tutor hired is not affordable by the average family economy.

The reason why this type of child generally does not learn well is that the learning attitude has not reached that level, or it is not positive enough, and there will be a rejection reaction to ask for a tutor, so it is not just a matter of whether the tutor is a college student or a qualified teacher, but mainly whether the child can accept the teacher.

If the child accepts the teacher psychologically, even if it is a successful start, as long as the child can keep up with the pace of the tutor, it will not be long before his grades will improve greatly.

Second, if your child's academic performance is not very bad, but you still want to sprint and be admitted to a good school, and the child's attitude is very good, and there is no rejection of learning, it is recommended that the brief for the child to ask an experienced and easy-to-talk teacher.

This type of teacher has a lot of experience, and it is also very convincing for children, and the effect of raising marks is also very large. However, I would like to remind parents that when looking for a tutor for their children, they must not blindly look for it, and they must not take up too much rest time on weekends, otherwise it will backfire, and if they struggle with homework every day, it is easy to lead to children's disgust and cause them to have no interest in learning.

So it's good to have a tutor, but you can't make up lessons every day because it's unfair to the children. In fact, it is enough to ask a tutor for about two classes a week, which can not only consolidate knowledge and improve scores, but also give children extra time to rest and play.

Tutoring. So parents need to remember. Asking for a tutor for a child should be based on the actual situation of the child, starting from the actual situation of the child, and not blindly thinking about the child, but the child does not need this kind of care at all. After all, what is suitable for your own children is the best.

That's the end of the above content on how to choose a tutor. It is hoped that parents can choose a tutor from the perspective of their children, so that there will be better results.

Teachers also need professional learning to obtain the exam, and it is recommended that you consider New Oriental family education for family education guidance.