Interpersonal issues, can anyone help me give my opinion?

First of all, I like your personality very much. That's how it is in college, there is everyone there.

You can study hard, learn the kind that excels, or excel in something else, and have a specialty that overpowers her. That way, she'll turn around and slap you up, at least she won't bully you anymore.

Low-key is your style, but to be low-key to that kind of person is weak, don't be overly public, I like your style, I believe there will be many people who like it, you don't need to tolerate her, contact with good friends more, let everyone know that you will be good for you.

That's how college life is now, and it's become very commercial. Dealing with interpersonal relationships, it is not difficult to say that it is not difficult, keep an optimistic attitude, take the initiative to communicate with others, smile and welcome people, at the beginning you may not be used to your changes, after a long time will have an effect, people like to make optimistic friends, every day lukewarm others can not touch your temper, naturally will not understand you.

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Listening to you say that, that girl is really unbearable.

I think she may have some excessive vanity.

As for those bad problems, it may be that she has been affected by the surrounding environment since she was a child, indeed, such friends make us feel very tired, but embarrassed to point out that if you really want to get rid of this false relationship with her, you might as well try to talk to her if, if she still keeps pestering you, I think you can directly point out its shortcomings and tell her what kind of friends you need, if she really wants to make friends with you, and she doesn't know what to do in her heart and tell you in this way, She should listen to your advice and work hard to correct it.

People always need to communicate, we might as well hate her while trying to find his good at the same time, I still hope, long live understanding

There may be no real solution, because it involves your personal problems, and if you can't solve it through communication, you can report it to the teacher, because it does affect your learning and life

If you have realized that her kindness to you is purposeful and false, then you should find a way to distance yourself from her from small things, such as what she is doing with you again, saying that you have other things to do and taking the opportunity to walk away, and try not to give her the opportunity to say nice things about you in front of you. It can be seen that this girl's new machine is very heavy, and the techniques she uses are only used by people in society. If she gives you something, you must not ask for it, or if you really can't help it, you can find a chance to give her another gift, of course, in front of other people, so as to prevent her from saying in front of others how she is good to you and you still don't appreciate it.

In short, don't owe her anything. If you know everything with her very well, the relationship will naturally be opened. Of course, it will take some time, so you have to endure it.

Personally, I think she loves and hates you, loves you with good things she doesn't have, hates you with her flaws.

Believe it or not, if one day you behave exactly like her, she will alienate you. I think you know what I mean.

If you are bold enough, responsible enough, and courageous, I will send you four words, directly pick out!

Make up a story and say she stole your boyfriend! (Or introduce you to a bad boy and you don't want to.) Make up the reasons yourself).

Pretend to be innocent and win everyone's sympathy.

And then cut her off!

Quack, I'm so bad!

If you can't change it, try to adapt. I've been in this situation too, maybe you can try to get along with her, maybe you can see how good she is?

If you really want to get rid of her, you might as well ask her out and talk to the two of them alone, so it's okay.

I'll help you get your grades first. Naturally, I can't underestimate you.

The word "laziness" is often heard and mentioned, so do you know what laziness really means? Let me tell you. Laziness is a kind of psychological boredom.

It manifests itself in a variety of forms, including extreme states of laziness and mild melancholy indecision. Anger, shyness, jealousy, etc., can cause laziness and prevent people from carrying out activities according to their desires. Laziness can be very harmful, it will make people lose their spirits and fall behind in learning; It will make people afraid of difficulties and get by every day; Moreover, lazy people will be looked down upon.

And some of us are lazy in our daily studies, in our daily lives.

Below, I will list some specific manifestations of laziness, please listen carefully and compare it with yourself.

1) Not being able to talk pleasantly to loved ones or others, even though you would love to do so.

2) I can't do what I like to do, I don't like to engage in sports, and I'm always unhappy.

3) Pondering and meditating all day long and being indifferent to the surroundings.

4) Can't fall asleep due to anxiety, poor sleep.

5) Daily life is extremely disorderly, no requirements, and no hygiene.

6) Often late, skipping school, and not taking it for granted.

7) Can't concentrate on listening, can't complete homework as required, and stationery is often not complete.

8) Don't know the purpose of learning, can't take the initiative to think about problems.

I'm telling you plainly, you're wrong. What is a bad student and what is a good student? If you don't study well, you're called a bad student?

That's called a bad student, a student who needs help. Besides, at your age, adolescence, strong blood, I think it's normal to have fights and contradictions, when I was a student, I still fought, no one in the school dared to mess with me, the little brothers were all in a group, the teacher would only tell me to be a little more restrained, I couldn't relax in my studies, and never told me not to be with bad students, what are you doing. .

The teacher is so boring? Idle eggs hurt? You don't like you when you're with bad students?

It's clearly a matter of your own mentality. Scandalize the teacher. Teachers care about students and love students, especially middle and high school teachers.

Treat students like sons, if you don't get good grades, he will scold you, that's for your good, it's not that he hates you, it's that he hates iron and steel. It's not like you think your classmates are bad students, as you say. Also, how do the friends you make affect your studies?

I think it's even more ridiculous, junior high school has so little knowledge. Listen well in class. Do your homework well.

It's completely possible to be a top-notch. And if you say that you provoke someone at school and someone wants to beat you, it means that you are no different from those bad students you talk about. Why do you want to say that your friend is a bad student?

To be a man, what you have to do is convincing, and I am in school, and no one will object to what I say. That's called prestige, and even the teachers know my style. I didn't say anything to my brother, whoever treats my brother badly, don't try to mix well under my nose.

Then I studied, I just did well enough, and I was in the top few exams in the class. What can the teacher say? He's going to talk to you about bad students, good students, or whatnot?

Just be yourself and be worthy of yourself.

I think you should talk to the teacher, tell him what you think, talk to the teacher like a friend, and write a letter if you're embarrassed.

I think there are some things that will be good to talk about, but I'm going to tell you a fact, and this is the reason why teachers like people who study well is because their salary is related to the promotion rate, so the teacher will favor good students, because you say, even if those students who don't study well become very good people in the future, it has nothing to do with your teacher, I think learning is your own, if your learning doesn't change badly because you play with bad students, but brings them better than before, I think teachers will naturally like you Or your own mentality, the teacher will not refuse a studious student, come on

In fact, the teacher doesn't care about you because they think you're a bad student, they just have the idea of "the one who is close to the ink is black", so they are afraid that you are "black", and it takes a lot of effort to win the teacher's like, not to pat yourself on the back or something, try to keep a distance from some people in front of the teacher,

You really don't have to have a lot of friends to show how good your social skills are, in fact, it is not easy to have a few friends that are worth making deeply. Those few true friends in life are a very important part of your life, they will create a lot of different possibilities for your life, and they will also give vent to your bad mood.

Interpersonal relationships are a very important course, if you want to maintain good interpersonal relationships, you have to pay to make people feel that you are doing things well to others, don't always seem too bitter and mean to let others have steps, others will give you steps, you must be polite when speaking, so that things will increase the impression of people.

If you want to do a good interpersonal relationship, the first thing to do is to be sincere to people, don't measure any relationship by interests, such a relationship is not pure, and it cannot get the trust and sincerity of others. In addition, you must be tactful, not to be a bad person, but to have a higher emotional intelligence.

In terms of interpersonal relationships, what I suggest is to treat others with generosity, to be lenient, and not to keep a lot of little things in mind, which is not good for yourself, and also very bad for your relationship with others, and secondly, to be willing to dedicate and be willing to dedicate others to be willing to make friends with you.

In this society, relationships are really important. Don't offend someone at will, even if we don't like him anymore, just keep our distance, because I don't know when we will use each other, and I've had that experience, so it's all a lesson from the past. Do everything tactfully.

Maybe it's because I've been in this society for too long, and I've erased my upright character. Because this kind of character will suffer a lot in this society, and it is necessary to make friends all over the world, as the so-called one more friend has many roads, one more enemy and many walls.

Life is like a play, all depends on acting skills.

Put on your mask and play your perfect role.

Don't judge others by your likes and dislikes, and don't show your true nature to everyone, you need to hide yourself.

Ideally, everyone sees you as the one you want others to see.

Most young people think that relationships are very tricky, and I think so too, because you need to be considerate of other people's feelings when interacting with them. And in terms of relationships, I would also like to give some personal advice.

First, be empathetic, don't always think from a personal point of view, and consider the feelings of others.

Second, don't pander too much to others, follow the principle of self, empathy and self-pursuit are not in fact in conflict.

When you're having trouble with your relationships, take a look at these four tips.