I m nice to my boyfriend, but why does he think I m bad and other women are good? 20

It is estimated that you are not caring and considerate enough for him, or you have done something to hurt him, so that he will express disappointment in you.

Under normal circumstances, boys will not say anything about how kind and good other girls are in front of their girlfriends, they have to take into account their girlfriends' feelings.

Or, your boyfriend is dissatisfied with some of your behaviors, and it is difficult to point it out clearly, for fear of annoying you, but he is unwilling for you to ignore his existence. Therefore, it refers to the chicken road dog, reminding you to do a good job in the future.

Of course, if you say those things, it is also possible that your boyfriend doesn't love you so much, her enthusiasm for you is fading, and he deliberately finds fault to provoke you to break up. If this is the case, you must pay attention to the emotional dynamics of yourself and your boyfriend, and try to make up for the rift between you; Otherwise, an emotional crisis may ensue.

Which situation, think for yourself.

Wishing you happiness!

It should be that people's various opinions and standards are different, and in real life, there will be friends who are good to the family and bad to the outside, and there are friends who are better to outsiders than to the family, which is not a big deal. Your boyfriend thinks that other women are kind because he doesn't really understand other women, and people outside will definitely hide their side, everyone has a bad side, and it doesn't hurt to go beyond the bottom line of morality and law.

It's bad, is it really bad, or is it the kind of bad between boyfriend and girlfriend? A kind woman may not let him like it, in fact, he doesn't have to care too much about it.

Maybe it's because you have different perspectives on things and don't agree with each other's ways of doing things.

Then review your usual behavior, if it's not your own reason, it's your boyfriend who said it on purpose.

This depends on personal opinion, how are you good to him, how are you good to him?

Actually, your intuition makes my boyfriend feel it in his heart.

You're bad, you're not kind, and that's because you have something.

It seems to have gone too far.

You feel it yourself, but your boyfriend feels it even more.

The reason for this is found in the way you behave.

I hope it will be corrected.

If your boyfriend says this about you, you should reflect on whether the relationship should continue to develop, and feel that you hate you when he doesn't like you.

Men are like this, they don't cherish what they get. When you don't get it, everything is good and everything is fragrant.

Men are like this, house flowers are not as fragrant as wild flowers, their own is not as good as others, and what you can't get is always the best, so being good at handling the relationship between men and women is like leaving, and there is always a sense of freshness and mystery will always love you aqui te amo.

The psychology of far fragrance and near smell. Wives are all good for others.

If your intuition is correct, it's likely that the psychological "over-justification effect" is at work in your boyfriend's mind.

In a romantic relationship, one or both parties often ignore everything the other party has done for themselves, and will simply think that this is "responsibility" and "obligation", rather than out of "love" and "care", and even sometimes think that the other party is not doing a good job, and then produce a "very bad" psychological experience of the other party.

Other girls are different, even if they help a little bit, they will be considered how "sensible" and "caring" they are.

It's actually caused by your boyfriend only seeing the external causes of things and not seriously thinking about the internal causes of things.

So let your boyfriend understand that any of your efforts are based on care and love, not obligations and responsibilities, so as to improve his perception of "excessive reasons".

Of course, in addition to the above reasons, you also need to reflect on your own shortcomings and see what needs to be changed.

That's because you're too casual, too familiar, and too sure.