I don t dare to talk to the boy I like, why don t the boy I like take the initiative to talk to me?

In the final analysis, it is a problem of whether the landlord's mentality can be let go. Beware of being too proactive and your boyfriend will mistake you for being impure, unreliable, and suspicious of having intimate relationships with other men. Workaround:

1. Since your boyfriend loves you so much, you also like your boyfriend's expression of love. Leave aside your doubts and be bold enough to cater to your boyfriend's act of love. Because, most men don't like girls who are too passive.

Proper catering and response will win your boyfriend's love and respect, and you will feel that you really like him, and there is no lack of fun.

2. If you want to get closer to your boyfriend, if you don't violate the principles of being a person and doing things, then please like your boyfriend from the bottom of your heart, say more things that your boyfriend likes to hear, and do more things that your boyfriend likes to do. Slowly get used to your boyfriend and find a way to show your love for each other. In this way, we can effectively shorten the emotional distance between each other and love for a long time.

3. Participate in more social activities, exercise yourself, and open your mind. Society is progressing, and times are changing. In the past, shyness was used to measure whether a girl has a sense of shame, but now it is not.

That is, you said that some lovers have not been for a long time, but they are sticky. Why can't you try to learn from them?

One. 2. Open your heart to your boyfriend, but where are you sulking?

Happy landlord!

People who are slow to heat up are usually more attractive. You don't have to rush to explain everything to him, you should agree with him first, which shows the girl's reserve and politeness. The real contact has only been a few months, and we don't know each other well enough, and it takes time to communicate, and it takes a long time to understand.

It is said that boys will be very timid in front of the people they like, is this really the case?

Men do be cautious in front of the people they like.

A man must be cautious before he catches up with the girl he likes, because he doesn't know whether the girl he likes is his favorite or not, so he always wants to work hard to express himself and leave a perfect impression on the other party. Maybe when the girl sends them a message again, they are all seconds back, they are afraid that the girl will be unhappy, afraid that they will say the wrong thing, and when doing something, they also give priority to the emotions of the girl they like. Because they really care about each other and are afraid of losing each other.

Boys will also slowly become sensitive and tolerant.

In the process of dating between two people, the boy is actually very humble in front of the girl he likes, because if the two people quarrel, the boy will feel at a loss. They don't know how to be popular, girls are happy, and they don't know what they did wrong, so they will constantly reflect on themselves and reflect on what they have not done well. They will also think about each other from each other's point of view, and will take the initiative to stand up and apologize to the girl, because they don't want the girl to suffer a little grievance.

Even if the apologies make them very tired, they will still hold on to the relationship between the two people. So when a guy really meets a girl he likes, their posture is very humble.

All timidity is because of love.

There may be some guys who don't understand why their brother has become so timid when he meets a woman before he meets someone he likes. In fact, it is because I care that I become timid. Boys will also make themselves a better and better person in this process, they want to give girls a sense of security, want to give girls a good future, so they will continue to enrich themselves, and strive to learn various cultural knowledge and skills, just to give girls a perfect future.

Boys will always feel inferior in front of the girls they really like, because a person likes another person, because she has something better than herself, and her excellent place attracts you, and he is afraid of saying the wrong thing and making you angry, so he will be timid.

It should be, especially if you usually have little contact with girls and are introverted, you may be nervous when you see the girl you like, for fear that you will make the other party angry if you say something wrong or do something wrong.

Hello, relative to your question, if you are a girl you should have a favorite boy or you are a man, you should be timid to confess.

For this question, I think it should be. The reason why a boy is afraid to speak may be that he is afraid that he will say something wrong and will be misunderstood by the person he likes, and he is afraid that the person he likes will know, but he will not like himself and will alienate himself, so he may be timid and afraid to speak.

Whether you are a man or a woman, I hope you are happy.

Possibly! It depends on whether the boy is introverted or not.

Then this boy must like this girl very much, and he secretly likes it knowing that he is not confident but still has low self-esteem.

There are two main reasons why the guy you like doesn't take the initiative to talk to you, the first reason is that the guy is not interested in you. Generally, if a guy is interested in you, he will definitely take the initiative to contact you. And if he likes you and wants to pursue you, he will definitely contact you every day and want to talk to you all the time.

If he just replies politely to you when you contact him, and does not take the initiative to find a topic to continue chatting with you, then this guy probably doesn't like you.

The second reason is that this boy's personality will be more introverted and shy. Some boys' personalities are more passive, and they are not active in the relationship, so they will not take the initiative themselves, but need girls to take the initiative so that boys will continue to chat or get along with you. Falling in love with this kind of boy will be a little more tiring, and you need to take the initiative in everything.

And passive boys are also more boring, they don't have their own ideas, and even if they fall in love, they always don't have their own opinions. may even go out to play and what to do, and the woman needs to make a decision.

Maybe he's the passive type! It's okay to try to talk to him more, maybe he hasn't fully accepted you in his heart, or he's afraid of being hurt, anyway, I'm such a passive person, although I'm a girl.

Then there are many factors that the other party does not take the initiative, and I can't list them all for you. will be exhausted. My previous boyfriend just liked me for the second year before he dared to make up his mind to confess, and he didn't talk much in the middle, and he took the initiative to talk to me no more than ten times a year.

Seriously, we didn't talk to each other more than ten times, because I never took the initiative to talk to him. Later, when we talked about these together, I felt that any reason was, and bold love was true. So I hope you can talk to him more, even if it's a sentence or two that doesn't matter, let him know that at least you don't hate him, which can be regarded as encouragement in disguise.

It is recommended that you try to dry him for a while. If you don't take the initiative, change your image. If I don't talk to you, maybe people don't have you in their hearts.

1.Generally speaking, boys don't always come over to talk to girls.

2.If you don't take the initiative to find him, he won't be active, but after talking to you, he will be very positive, which is very similar to the habits of an introverted personality. Introverts are more introverted (nonsense), do not take the initiative to show affection and enthusiasm, and often need to have a "catalyst".

3.Judging from your description, the relationship between the two of you is that of ordinary friends. The guy is treating your relationship the way he gets along with his friends.

However, this alone is not sure whether he has a potential affection for you in his heart. If you really like that he wants to develop with him, try to find out his own sincerity.

Maybe he doesn't have feelings for you, it's not that if you like him, he must like you.

It may be that he is more introverted and not easy to take the initiative, or it may be that he is more shy and embarrassed to talk to you.

Maybe people don't like you, so they don't talk to you.

Maybe he's shy, you can try to take the initiative to talk to him.

Because he doesn't like you, he doesn't want to have too much contact with you so as not to cause misunderstandings.

Because that guy doesn't like you.

Do you like to talk to you? Do you think you're the queen?

Maybe he doesn't like you, so he doesn't want to talk to you.

If the mountain doesn't come to you, you will go to the mountain, and the boy you like doesn't know that you like him.