I feel like I m too late to fall in love, and I m hurt before I even start!

How can you grow without being injured?

Hello! If you don't dare to fall in love because your last relationship was hurt, in this case, it's not that you don't dare to fall in love, but you haven't met the person who gave you courage, it doesn't matter if you are frustrated by feelings, the most important thing is not to close your heart, go out more, walk around, and have fun! Make new friends, communicate more, and you will meet the person who gave you the courage to fall in love.

Life in the world, it is inevitable to encounter emotional setbacks, no one's feelings are smooth sailing, to believe that there is true love, believe that the right person is waiting for you at the right time.

The first time I loved betrayed me, I didn't dare to touch love for a long time, until I got married, and I slowly became willing to believe in men, sometimes the person I loved for the first time really hurt the most.

After three years of love, at that time we had finished working for half a year, I looked at his mobile phone in an accident, and found that he was in contact with another girl more frequently, and there were some ambiguous words, I asked him what was going on, and he later admitted that he was in love with someone else, it was his colleague, and the two had a substantive relationship.

At that time, I really didn't know how I got back to work, and for the next week I lived like a soulless person, like a walking corpse, probably really hurting my heart, so I didn't shed many tears at the time, I felt as if I didn't know how to cry, and since then I have been reluctant to give up on boys, and I don't want to provoke love again.

Later in my youth, I have always been single, and then when I came to the age of my parents, I felt that I should get married, although I didn't want love, but I wanted a family, so I got married, and then I lived a plain married life, I originally thought that I would probably never fall in love with someone else again in my life, but then after three years of marriage, because my husband was very good to me, I slowly found that I believed in love again.

I was once hurt very deeply by my ex-boyfriend, and I thought I had a very beautiful love, but in the end it was a **.

I have been with my boyfriend for three years, and I thought that I would grow old, but I found out that I had an affair with my best friend, which hurt me very much, and I never dared to start a relationship again.

My girlfriend didn't understand my situation at all, and from then on, she thought that falling in love was a burden and a lot of baggage.

I have had three loves, all of which have been betrayed by others, and I feel that I don't believe in love anymore and dare not fall in love again.

I once encountered a scumbag cheating on marriage. This incident made me dare not fall in love easily. I always feel like other people have other agendas.

Although changes and surprises always feel less than expected.

But I think it's a good attitude to treat any relationship with a good look.

Although he didn't like Xu Zhimo very much, he said a very reasonable sentence: I am fortunate to have it, but I will not be killed.

P.S. Long-term happiness is hard-won and must be managed with care.

I wish you happiness and happiness to get what you want.

Are you a college student or a high school student? Through your psychological analysis, if you are a high school student, it is best not to fall in love, as far as I know, around me, none of the high school romances have a good ending, because the so-called "love" combining loneliness and rebellious psychology is destined to not last long. If it's a college, you can try it, but in the end, it's also fate, don't force yourself to fall in love, because in the end you will fall into the contradiction of falling in love because of love or falling in love because of loneliness, as long as you work hard to improve yourself, make yourself excellent, make yourself more confident, and are you afraid that you won't find a good partner?

Because the consequences are severe.

When you think this way again.

This kind of thinking can give you the following unpleasant feelings.

Every time you don't fall in love, before you even start, it becomes very difficult, and you have to give your choice a 100% chance of success.

It's like going to the store where I bought a lottery ticket and before I bought it, I started warning myself that I had to win, and if I didn't win, I would lose.

And then I don't make a decision, because no matter what, defeat is inevitable, but you have to win, but you can't, so you don't know what to do.

In the long run, the only good thing you can do is that God gives you a new kill for free, and people in this state of "choice obsessive-compulsive disorder" will become very difficult to choose, no matter how big the choice, and they will not want to decide one thing at the end of the day.

When I finally face a love by myself.

But because of their own promises.

When there are some things, people who are in love, there are always some things that have to be done with each other, but because you have that kind of thought, you have to hold back at some point, when you want to explode, and in the long run, you must be depressed inside.

Over time, the probability of divorce is increasing, or it directly leads to a sense of long-term unhappiness in the marriage.

Similarly, children who grow up in such families will also be affected by this environment.

Becoming indecisive, indecisive, and unhappy, unhappy, unhappy.

Often, a lot of things don't go unvented and released.

Communication becomes more and more difficult to turn into an unhappy child.

Heavy into a closed child.

And for the sake of the series, it's like the butterfly effect, which changes all over the body, so you have to think about whether you should make some adjustments.

Because there are no perfect people in the world.

Not to mention asking you, a person with no experience in dating who doesn't know how to fall in love at all, to choose someone who is 100% successful.

Unless you leave it to someone with experience, but that choice will often lead you to regret your decision at the end of the day.

Think for yourself.

This is unrealistic, who can guarantee forever if you know the face of the person but not the heart.

As long as you don't give sincerely, then there will be no harm, and then your wish will not come true.

If you give sincerely, if that person breaks up with you, you will definitely be hurt, but there is a certain probability that it will last forever, but this probability is not generally low.

Falling in love is convulsions, convulsions will fall in love, people are embarrassed to say that they have been young if they don't smoke a few times, and only those who have been hurt will grow, such a life is perfect, of course, it is best to go on all the time, don't talk about it, don't be afraid to talk, don't be afraid to talk about it, the perfect fairy tale, not reality.

What's so scary about men? Remember, if you have a thick skin, you can eat enough, and if it doesn't work, we'll change it.

I would like to make a few suggestions to you:

When your boyfriend takes a language class, is he stressed, may compare with each other, and is psychologically uncomfortable, so he doesn't take the initiative to contact you. During this period, did you feel his emotions during the phone call, did you give him thoughtfulness and care, after all, living outside is also very tiring and annoying.

You can take the initiative to take the first step and express your feelings to him first, feeling a little lost, because as a girl, you need the other party's care and care, and your boyfriend has been very depressed recently, whether he is in a bad mood, whether there is anything unhappy. In the process of communication, one is to take the initiative to take the first step, and the other is to express ideas, but pay attention and try to avoid accusations against the other party.

You may have three outcomes:

Take the initiative to communicate, find problems, and get back together.

They were unwilling to give in to each other, and finally broke up, and after the breakup, they suffered from each other for a period of time, one party got married early, and the other party gave up, but there was still a slight uneasiness and labor pain in my heart.

Maybe after experiencing this relationship, you can wake up and find a better partner in the next relationship.

If you like someone, take the initiative, don't regret it because of the current Cold War, it mainly depends on whether he likes you or not, if he likes you, you should take the initiative to coax you, but who makes you not very mature?

It's time to talk about it, and if you like him, take the chance.

If you don't like it, just get it out of the way.

You need humor on the part of the side to lighten the mood. You can learn to sell moe.

Just take the initiative and talk.

If you really like it, confess it, if you succeed, you will have multiple male votes, and if you don't succeed, you will lose a friend. The result of dragging it down is the most disgusting.

If you think he's interesting to you, you can actually make it a little clearer, but if you're a girl, don't say it too explicitly, just do whatever you normally do, and after a little bit of normalcy, men usually take the initiative.

Hang him to see what he can do.