Why are there more women than men who don t want to get married?

Of course, it's because marriage requires a lot of sacrifice for women.

Think about it, influenced by the traditional concept, many people agree with the idea of "male outside, female inside", although women in the new era are often more independent, but in fact, the thinking of the previous generation is indeed not so open, and the old concept is still retained.

Once a woman is married, she naturally has to focus on her family, if she still focuses on work. Mother-in-law will think that you mean something, as a wife, she does not do her best to take care of her husband, and she is so ambitious every day, how can you get it, and it will definitely cause you a certain amount of obstacles and pressure.

Even if you want to focus on your career, you often can't help yourself, and you have to do everything like tidying up the house, washing clothes and cooking. If you don't do it, your mother-in-law will poke you in the back because you didn't do your duty.

Although this really doesn't make sense, why do girls have to wash clothes and cook, both parties should work equally, and they should pay more attention to equality between men and women. I have to go out to work during the day, I'm tired all day, and I have to come back at night to cook and clean up the house, can I not be tired?

In fact, this is okay, once you get married, you will immediately be urged by both parents to have children. With a child for a lifetime, your work plan will have to be completely disrupted, and the focus of your life will also change strongly, so you will focus on this child.

My sister gave birth to a child last year, and now she is working during the day, and she has to come back to deliver milk at noon, and she looks at the child after she gets home from work, and basically there is no idle time every day, although her brother-in-law can help take care of it, but it is also sometimes timely, because sometimes the child does not follow him, and the brother-in-law cries when he hugs, so there is no way.

When chatting with my sister before, my sister also sighed that after giving birth to a child, everything in life has changed, there is no free time at all, except that the child is working, and she feels very tired every day, she still doesn't have to take care of housework, her brother-in-law cleans up the house, washes clothes, etc. If her brother-in-law had done nothing and been a shopkeeper, she would have been tired and down.

After such a comparison, do you think that marriage is quite a sacrifice for a woman. Especially as independent women in the new era, they are also more open-minded, and they can support themselves without relying on men, and they have a good life.

Once you get married, you will live another life, which is really unimaginable, it is better to live a free and easy petty bourgeois single life for a few more years. Now many women still have the idea of not getting married, in fact, this is understandable, after all, if you can support yourself, and you are doing well, what is the use of a man, if you earn more money, it is good to support a man.

1. The concept of society has begun to change, and men pay more attention to self-development and self-fulfillment, and no longer regard marriage as a necessary thing as before.

2. The development of society is more complicated, and the burden of marriage is greater than before, and men think that marriage will make their lives more complicated, so they don't want to make decisions easily.

3. Men pay more attention to economic and social status, and they are reluctant to get married because they can't get more economic security or social status.

4. Men think that marriage will bring them a lot of restrictions and they don't want to be tied down, while women think that marriage is a responsibility that can be used to enjoy life.

The pressure is too great, and you may also need to have children, and the bride price, food, clothing, housing and transportation in terms of marriage, all need to be considered, and the burden is often too great.

The first type: a three-piece set for men to get married: a house, a car, and a mountain and a blue money.

The second type: married and bound by the family, there is no way to make a career out of humor.

The third type: I play when I don't get married, and when I get married, I restrict me from selling out for fun, which affects my relationship with my brothers.

I'm afraid of the bride price, and I can't get the money to train not long after I graduated.

It costs a lot of money to have children after marriage, and it is stressful to work overtime every day.

After marrying Huifeng, he may often quarrel, and he was scolded by his boss before he was scolded, and he had to quarrel with his wife when he got home.

Now women are reluctant to get married mainly for these 3 reasons:

1. Most of today's women have their own careers, and they are very independent both financially and ideologically.

With the progress of society, the feminist movement was on the rise. Now many women have their own careers, have their own independent economy**, and even earn more than men, and they are completely able to make a good life. On the contrary, if you get married, you have to raise children and take care of your family, and your quality of life will drop sharply.

So many girls said that it was better to be alone.

2. Today's women are more willing to choose a free life.

Qian Zhongshu once said: Marriage is like a wall, people inside want to go out, and people outside want to come in. But now the scenery inside the walls no longer attracts women.

3. The yearning for pure love has been looking for the "right person".

No matter what time it is, women tend to pursue and yearn for pure love more than men, hoping that the person who spends the rest of their lives with them is their "Mr. Yes". If they don't, they'd rather stay single than be at the mercy of their parents and friends. "I have bread, you just give me love" This is probably the inner monologue of many unmarried ladies now!

In fact, whether to get married or not is just a choice in one's own life, and no one has the right to dictate this. But what I want to say is, no matter what, you can't give up hope for love, perhaps, the right person, will be waiting for you tomorrow.

In recent years, more and more women do not want to get married, and the main reasons are:

1.Changes in values and lifestyles: Modern women focus on careers, the realization of self-worth and the pursuit of personal interests, while traditional marital relationships may restrict personal freedom.

2.Protection of premarital property: Women may face risks of premarital property in a marital relationship, and some women are worried about losing property after marriage.

3.Increased economic pressure: As the economic pressure increases, many women need to be independent to bear the financial burden of their families and careers.

If you don't find strong enough financial support or suffer financial injustice in your marriage, it's easier to see your marriage as financially stressful.

4.Increased economic independence: Modern women pay more and more attention to the realization of self-worth and independence, and do not want marriage to become their dependence and constraints, and the increase in economic independence allows them to control their own lives.

In short, women choose not to get married because of changes in concepts and lifestyles. Marriage requires both parties to manage it carefully, and it is not something that can be done by combining two people indiscriminately. Therefore, both men and women should choose a lifestyle and marriage relationship that suits them after careful consideration before choosing marriage.

It's not just women, actually. It's the same with men nowadays. Why is it that the willingness to get married is getting lower and lower now?

First, the development of the economic level has led to the improvement of material life. In pursuit of the spiritual world, people are getting higher and higher. The second is today's society with a flamboyant personality.

There is also a growing inclusivity. As long as they don't break the law, everyone can tolerate their own lives. To sum up, the horizon of every mountain seller is getting wider and wider.

Different pursuits. There are also fewer and fewer intersections. This may be one of the most inclusive of today's economic development.

There are not many people who know more and more that they love their daughters-in-law, but many of them say that they hurt, and they will still tire women to death in actual action, so they don't want to get married.