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I think we need to consider the reasons for this problem from two aspects.

1.Your roommates.

You say your roommate is in a relationship all day long, and he gets a job without doing a job. Who said that if you look like you're in love all day long, you can't find a job if you don't do your job? In real life, there are many people who watch them eat and drink all day long, and they don't study hard, and in the end, they all go well.

First, your roommate is actually working hard, but you don't see your roommate's efforts, maybe she is also improving her other abilities when she is not doing her job. Who said that you have to lie on the table and read at night to work hard. Second, you and your roommate are working in different directions, maybe you are more interested in learning book knowledge, improving your professional skills, and finding a good job in the future.

And your roommates do improve their social skills and expand their networking. So when she is looking for a job, other friends can help her introduce, which is also the use of resources.

2.Yourself.

Do you really consider yourself superior to your roommate? Are you working efficiently every day? Many times, we overestimate ourselves, but in fact, our level is average!

Maybe you cherish your time tomorrow and work hard, but some other skills, such as communication, organization, leadership and coordination skills, are very weak, so there are some obstacles to finding a job. We all know that the competition in society is fierce now, and the requirements for recruitment are getting higher and higher, not only for your school grades, but also for the examination of all aspects of ability. Maybe you don't know how to find a job, you don't have enough social experience, and you don't know much about interview skills.

So I didn't find a suitable job in time.

However, it may just be that you are not very lucky, but you are still very good. Well, how can life be smooth? It's good to believe in yourself.

There is an old saying, people can not be good-looking, the sea water can not fight, what you see is that he does not do his business every day to drink, go out to play, fall in love, but it is possible that his girlfriend's home is your professional counterpart, he does not do business every day, those people who drink may be the manager or boss of which company, don't look at things so shallowly, don't just look at the surface, maybe you see it may be his advantages, in your eyes to do not do business, maybe it is his magic weapon to win, I am a college buddy, Learning is really scum, the lessons are all we give him to achieve, the homework is copied from us, and several times almost failed the course, but he has a characteristic of business, at that time the charging treasure was just popular, we went out shopping together, the hawker asked us, the charging treasure or, we are all about it, he spent a lot of money to buy a return, left the hawker to **, and then he, borrowed money to buy a lot of power bank in the field, began to take out, every day people come to our dormitory to buy, this goods are not bargaining, do not buy pull down, In the end, according to my estimates, the entire men's dormitory got the power bank, all of which were bought from him, and the goods earned tens of thousands, and then the charging bag was one, not profitable, and he found that the snack industry was profitable, and the goods started again, and he bought a large amount of instant noodles and cola drinks or something, and delivered them to the door for free, and hired several poor students at home as his delivery man, so he went to the dormitory to lie down comfortably and continued**, looking at QQ, he didn't have to do anything.

Later, when we graduated, he was the first to find a job when he handed in the internship report, and it was also suitable for him, many people felt how he got a job, it was very different, only I knew how strong his ability was, so many years have passed, he is the best among our people, and he has his own company.

Everyone has their own strengths, you just don't find them.

The most important thing in finding a job is not only academic performance, in fact, in this society, not to mention those who are not good at studying, even if they graduated from key universities, they may not be able to easily find a satisfactory job. I think the most important thing now is to go to a "social university" to see how some people and things in society are operated, and if you can master it proficiently, it will also be a wealth of your own. In today's society, if you don't study well, you may not be unproductive, and if you just study well, it will be difficult to succeed.

There is no inevitable connection between work and study, some people's grades are not very ideal, but their ability in other aspects is very high, and they are very adaptable to work, and their grades are naturally good. In addition, there is the issue of opportunities, experience, energy, experience and many other conditions.

Of course, learning well usually means that you have excellent ability, which is the usual situation, so employers will use this as the first screening criterion for selecting people, and everything you have been in the past after entering this industry is in the past, and you need to do a lot of things again to prove yourself, start over, and become a different person in the eyes of others again. Your classmate is good at falling in love, probably because he is better at handling interpersonal relationships, and his work ability must be combined with interpersonal relationships, so that we will not be eliminated by society. We can't live in the dreams of life that we have made up...

We are human beings. We need to communicate. You need to communicate with each other and sell yourself to each other.

Show yourself. <>

<>This young man, with all due respect, how do you know that the other party is not doing his job when he is in love all day long, so you say that he is not doing his job, are you doing his job every day? If you find a job before you, do you have an unbalanced rush in your heart, and your heart is aching. I feel that the HR of that company is a stupid X, how can I take a fancy to him.

This is a piece of freestyle that doesn't agree with a word.,I don't know what Fan Fan thinks of what I said about this paragraph.,I'll give my freestyle a 3 point.,The full score is two points.,One more point makes me a little nervous.,Don't be afraid of my pride or something.。

It's not a proper job to fall in love with a roommate, it's completely unreasonable, you don't know what your roommate's girlfriend is, she is likely to be the daughter of your college president, or a white Fumei. Your roommate has a very deep routine, and he specializes in falling in love with such a person, so if he graduates, can the other party help him arrange his job well, just kidding, the realistic version of Chen Xiaozheng is like this.

Have you noticed that your roommate is actually doing the right thing, while talking about love, and at the same time being able to solve the job, it is simply marrying Bai Fumei, and instantly going to the peak of life, you are immediately turned into a little scum in seconds, and dare to say that people don't do business, you just don't do business, you are still a single dog after graduation, and you haven't found a job yet, I feel that I have suffered 10,000 critical hits, there is wood, there is wood.

There is also a possibility that your roommate is a hidden rich second generation or official second generation, you may think that he is usually not good-looking, and he is similar to what you wear, but people may still be a scheming, just afraid of letting you see it, so it is very low-key, even if it is not a serious job, well, this time suppose your roommate is not doing a good job, but he can't stand their family has power, and he doesn't even need to find a job, so the family will be arranged directly, just ask if you are afraid, people have the capital that doesn't do business.

There is also a possibility that your roommate is really good, and the standard that college can measure a person's ability is simply too little, and the grades are only one aspect of the proof, but they are not shown, and only in the society can they gradually be revealed, admitting that others are excellent will die, and they can't lose two or two meats, but if this method is good, then the gospel of many ** people is coming.

There is also a possibility that your roommate is indeed not doing his job every day, and he is not good in all aspects of ability, but he was in a bad mood on the day he caught up with the HR of the interview company, and happened to see that your roommate looked good, and then he looked at the right eye. It is also possible that the job your roommate is looking for is really not good, and he is going to apply for a boiler, but the two possibilities just now are not very large, you should honestly look for a job, and look at others.

There is an old saying, people can not be good-looking, the sea water can not fight, what you see is that he does not do his business every day to drink, go out to play, fall in love, but it is possible that his girlfriend's home is your professional counterpart, he does not do business every day, those people who drink may be the manager or boss of which company, don't look at things so shallowly, don't just look at the surface, maybe you see it may be his advantages, in your eyes to do not do business, maybe it is his magic weapon to win, I am a college buddy, Learning is really scum, the lessons are all we give him to achieve, the homework is copied from us, and several times almost failed the course, but he has a characteristic of business, at that time the charging treasure was just popular, we went out shopping together, the hawker asked us, the charging treasure or, we are all about it, he spent a lot of money to buy a return, left the hawker to **, and then he, borrowed money to buy a lot of power bank in the field, began to take out, every day people come to our dormitory to buy, this goods are not bargaining, do not buy pull down, In the end, according to my estimates, the entire men's dormitory got the power bank, all of which were bought from him, and the goods earned tens of thousands, and then the charging bag was one, not profitable, and he found that the snack industry was profitable, and the goods started again, and he bought a large amount of instant noodles and cola drinks or something, and delivered them to the door for free, and hired several poor students at home as his delivery man, so he went to the dormitory to lie down comfortably and continued**, looking at QQ, he didn't have to do anything.

Later, when we graduated, he was the first to find a job when he handed in the internship report, and it was also suitable for him, many people felt how he got a job, it was very different, only I knew how strong his ability was, so many years have passed, he is the best among our people, and he has his own company.

Everyone has their own strengths, you just don't find them.

First of all, half a year is not a long time, but it is not too short, if he doesn't like you, he will break up with you after just talking for a month or two, which means that the other party still has you in his heart, don't be entangled in whether he loves or likes, as long as he is still by your side, cherish him, don't care about these, or one day you will catch fire.

I think college is really a very important demarcation point in our lives, often in college can restrain their own people in the future life will not be wrong, but basically in college is a mess of playing games all day long to go crazy this kind of people have no good achievements, there is a classmate in our class just don't come to class every day, in fact, this classmate's grades are very good when they are enrolled, in our class is the second male, and the first semester exam mathematics test 98 points, But he was addicted to games since he started college, and he stayed in the dormitory all day, not going to any classes, even if the teacher told him not to go, and then he hung up on exams a lot. Then I was forced to downgrade and am still reading. I think studying well is also responsible for our lives, and you can't really make a career out of playing games all day.

Many people will say that knowledge changes fate, and people who do not study well in college will not be able to find a good job after graduation, and they will not have a good future in the future. In fact, I think it is a big mistake to have this kind of thinking, the university only provides a platform, and good academic performance means that it is a piece of learning material, which can be better for further study, and there will definitely be a good job in the future. But going to college is not just about studying, relationships are also very important, and it is not good to be a "nerd" in college, doing what you like and thinking about what you really want to do may be more useful than listening to lectures.

I have a college senior, I haven't listened to much lectures during college, in the eyes of others, I don't do my job, I run out of class all day long, find contacts, find a job, look for opportunities to exercise myself, not to train others outside the school, or to start a business on campus, mainly to engage in express delivery and receipt on the university campus, and also made a ** institution about the examination of vocational qualification certificates. Before graduating, I had accumulated a lot of contacts and experience. Now after graduating, I have opened several large courier companies, and many of our former classmates are employed in the courier companies.

Therefore, it doesn't mean anything to say that you don't study hard in college, and some of these classmates are better than the kind of people who study all day long. Because they use the time they spend in school to study all day, people generally have a stable job. When you go to university, you don't just know how to study.

Yes, when we were in college, there were indeed those students who knew all day long that they didn't do their jobs, they could be said to be like a kind of fairy, their little life was delicious, I was the kind of person who was greedy for fun all day long and didn't do business, I was greedy for play because I didn't go to class, but went to do other things.

I think that people who are greedy for fun all day long in college and don't do their jobs really can't generalize about their current development, because it is true that everyone's development does not necessarily depend on how well they study, but also depends on their own opportunities or their own abilities.

First of all, I think that people who didn't work properly in college are generally not doing very well now. Because although one's own development cannot all depend on learning, learning still plays a very important role. Take our classmates as an example, when I was in college, there were indeed people who played all day and didn't take exams seriously and failed a lot.

His current development is to find a similar job in a small city, and then he is almost to the point of talking about marriage, which is not a good development in my opinion, because as college students, we must have our own dreams to achieve, and his dreams must not be realized.

However, it cannot be said that all people who do not do their jobs are not developing well, and there are still some people who rely on their own strength, even if they do not study well in college, they still break out of the world in society. I have a classmate who had the highest failure rate when he was in college, but he was very flexible in his brain, so after graduation, he started a small company on his own. The current development is still very good, although it is not very big, but it is more than most of our classmates make more money, so I think what will happen to the future development of people who are not doing their jobs, it is really uncertain, some people just rely on their own intelligence, and have made great achievements in the case of not very good learning.