If your most beloved person always likes to hurt you, what will you do if you are sad?

First of all, you have to think about whether he really loves you. Isn't it worth it for you to love him like this. Since he once hurt you.

So what does it mean? I think that's something you have to think about. If your answer is that he loves you.

Then I suggest you should talk to him. If I continue to hurt like this. I don't think the love between you will come to fruition.

And I don't think you should be so wronged by yourself. It is possible to be selfish in love. But in my opinion, it cannot be wronged.

Why should you grieve yourself? Actually, you can think about it. Maybe there's something better waiting for you.

This kind of thing needs to be thought about slowly. Other people's opinions are just for your reference. Hope you will be happy in the future!

I've met the same as you, I should give up on her, but I really don't want to! What the hell should I do to go to sleep by myself first and think about what my former self was like? What is it like now?

Compare the same, there is a new discovery! Or hate it, give up on her, don't be nostalgic for anything, because there's nothing left for you to be nostalgic about, and I suggest you listen to the song of Revelation, which will have the answer

It's very simple, it means that he doesn't love you, that's why he hurts you.

I've met a boy who was like that.

In fact, he didn't mean to hurt you, because you love too much, and he doesn't love at all, doesn't care at all, naturally you care about everything he says and does, for example, he talks a few more words to other girls, or he is in a bad mood and speaks to you in a heavy tone, which will inevitably make you feel uncomfortable, if that's the case, you give up!

Because he doesn't love, he doesn't care about your feelings, and if he talks as much as he wants, he is also hurting you as he wants.

Is that still worthy of your love? I don't think so! Unless you love him very sincerely. But a person who makes you sad is not worthy of your sincere love for him. So, you have to adjust your mentality and don't make yourself unhappy!!

Give up on her, because someone who truly loves you will make you happy and happy in life.

Leave him. Find another one. Then he was sad.

If he or she is because you want you to pay attention to him, to make you pay attention to him, then it's nothing, it means that he still values you.

If it's what you're doing, then what should you do, needless to say.

Bye. China has nothing more.

The most populated. If you are a serious and sincere person who takes your love life seriously.

Let's look for something else.

Don't trust yourself with an outcome that you knowingly are unhappy with.

Will definitely meet more to your liking.

People who can give themselves happiness.

Find out why, maybe it's time to stay away for a while

Leave. Hurting people who like you is not worthy of your love.

Think about it first if it's you or him, and you have a clear conscience, and that's what he has a problem with.

It turned out that I loved you at the beginning, and now being with you is not loving you, it may be a habit.

Maybe he doesn't love you.

It's better to give up!

Find your own reasons first.

I may think about how to calm my emotions and at the same time evaluate the feelings of two people.

For two people who love each other, if the person you love the most breaks your heart, it is a very regrettable thing, and it will also make you feel very heartbroken. At times like these, I try to keep my emotions in check, and at the same time, I don't let my emotions affect the people around me. After that, it may take me a while to seriously think about the relationship between the two of us, and I will try to solve it as much as I can.

The first thing I do is calm my emotions.

After the person you love the most hurts you, your mood will be very low, and you may even feel angry. Because these negative emotions can seriously affect a person's personal choices, some people may even act in a way that hurts themselves and others. Personally, I try to calm my emotions as much as possible and will not make a move that I regret.

I will also evaluate the feelings of two people.

Different things have different solutions, but not everything has room for redemption. If the person I love the most makes an irreparable mistake, I may choose not to forgive them, and I may even break up with them for this reason. To some extent, a person has different ways of dealing with feelings, and some people will have the basic bottom line of feelings, so it is best for two people not to have this kind of behavior that seriously hurts each other's hearts.

I'm more proactive in solving problems.

If the other person has no intention of hurting me, I will try to take the initiative to solve the problem and strengthen the communication between the two people. From my personal point of view, the relationship between two people not only requires two people to truly love each other, but also needs two people to take the initiative to operate. If communication and contact can be strengthened, many problems can actually be solved through communication, and there is no need for two people to stiffen the relationship.

Especially when there is no problem with the emotional foundation of two people, I don't think there is any need to waste too much time on feelings, and two people need to live each other's lives as well as possible. <>

For such a situation, I will rationally choose to let go, because once a person hurts you the most, it means that he does not love you enough, and I will choose to let go in such a situation.

If this happens, then you will go with the other person, and then you will have to express your desire to correct your mistakes.

Some people say:"If you want to repair the pain of falling out of love, go find another relationship"。But I don't agree with this statement, because you have just fallen out of love and are in a period of confusion, it is easy to lose the direction of choice, and when you miss the lifeline, it is easy to enter the next cycle.

For a person he loved deeply, he spent nearly ten years of his youth and accompanied him through the most bitter time, but later, they broke up. As any woman, it is difficult to accept, and it is also a fatal blow.

didn't hold a grudge against this man, but left silently and faced the future alone. Although Qiu Chun seemed tired at the party that day, there was no sign of sadness. Hit **, think you're too clingy; Rarely cares about your feelings, only thinks about yourself; Not remembering your preferences; I'm not going to try to please you; They don't tolerate you and say they have a bad temper.

Actually, he wasn't born like this, but he doesn't want to do this to you, you don't matter to him, he doesn't want to think about your feelings. The only person who can hurt you is the one you love the most. Because you love Him, you follow Him, believe Him, and admit even when He deceives you.

The more you love, the less you will be wary of his tricks. You can't see the forest for the trees and take his words and deeds as the truest thing. If the person you love the most hurts you, but you still want to be with him, it would be stupid.

Because at this time, he is no longer the person he used to be, and if you pester him, he will come up with more ways to hurt you and force you to leave. The more he pushes you, the more it pains you, and the only way to protect yourself is to leave.

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At this time, I will choose to break up with the other person, it has already broken my heart, and I don't want to be with him anymore.

Then at this time, I will definitely leave him to heal, and after the injury is healed, I will choose a new person and start again.

If that were the case, I would not hesitate to leave him, because I felt that he was not worthy of my love.

It's all over anyway, so I won't bother with it too much. If you hurt you, you will automatically stay away from that person, and you won't resent him or make each other's damage less. If the other party sincerely apologizes, forgive once, and acquaintance is also a kind of fate.

If it hurts, you have to do your best to make up for that scar. Do your best and let him know that you love him.

If love expires, please let it go.

If. This love does not belong to you, so please let go of your hand. Love hurts, it hurts so much that I cry, so I choose to let go.

Letting go is a kind of helpless despair, and it hurts to the heart. When the people who once cherished life were about to meet strangers, they suddenly realized: it turned out that what they once thought was eternal, but in fact it was just a meeting in Pingshui.

I once thought that I could hold hands all the way like this, but when I let go, I realized that everything is just the accidental intersection of two parallel lines, when everything disappears, the parallel is still parallel, even if it is not far apart, it is already the end of the world. The price of bravery is to let go of oneself first, admit defeat, accept helplessness, sigh softly, and wish him happiness in the future. Curled up in the corner, waiting for the wound to heal, experiencing the freedom of daring to love, hate, and loss.

The feeling of happiness may only be instantaneous, and after a moment, it is a person's wonderful. In the days after letting go, I will always be unhappy, and I will inexplicably cry for a song, a play, or even a sentence, always feel that the sky is dark, the clouds are gray, and I always feel that I have lost the meaning of life. However, a friend told me

You have nothing to lose, you just go back to the days before you knew him. I am relieved, just like fireworks can't hang in the sky forever, as long as they have been brilliant, why bother with days without fireworks? We are all ordinary Hongchen men and women, unable to earn the love network of love and hate, and unable to escape the whirlpool of love and being loved.

After the heartbreak and sadness, there is endless loneliness. Lonely? Perhaps.

But savoring the chic after loneliness, thinking about the happiness other than him, thinking about no longer having to rack your brains to guess his mind, will you breathe a sigh of relief and feel a little more relaxed? Is it really let go? I can face him calmly, even though there is a faint indescribable sourness in my heart, but I no longer cry, crying because a person's memory is in my heart, and I will not disperse it no matter what.

There was such a song. Are you afraid of loving me? 》：

Are you afraid of loving me, have you forgotten your tears? The heart is waiting for the rain to fall, and the tears have reached the cheeks; Are you afraid of loving me, isn't your heart dead? One step is nothing more than a cliff.

I asked myself again and again, "Am I scared of loving you?" "The answer is yes, I'm afraid, I'm really afraid.

The heart full of holes is so fragile that it can no longer withstand the torture of pain into the bone marrow, so I let you go, and let myself have a way to live, condensing you into a painting, deeply engraved in my mind, looking, thinking, but I will no longer be the person in the painting. You can better appreciate the beauty of the painting when you are outside the painting, isn't it? Shake hands vigorously and say sincerely:

Goodbye, cherish! Turn your head and walk away freely, letting the back be deeply engraved in your mind. When you can recall the moments of your past with a relieved mind, you can appreciate the beauty of letting go.

God let me meet you at the wrong time, and I cried; However, God is fair. Would you cry if, he asked me to leave you at the right time?