I have a bad personality and I feel like I have a lot of bad aspects in myself. Let s talk about how

Accept before you change.

The other side of character flaws:

All the disadvantages are your strengths and have their good sides.

The flip side of the disadvantage is the advantage, and the disadvantage is the advantage of being too much or under-sufficient.

Low self-esteem Humility.

Meticulous and meticulous.

Hesitant and cautious.

Perseverance, dedication, perseverance, perseverance.

Pessimistic Risk awareness.

Impatient, swift, fast, not procrastinating.

Regret introspection.

Self-blame, strong sense of morality, and relatively high demands on themselves.

Gain and lose seriously.

Love to be expressive, exaggerated, Mr. Big Scene, humorous.

Timid and cautious.

Cheesy, down-to-earth, unpretentious.

Utilitarian actual.

So ambitious and ambitious.

Extreme passion, love and hate.

Jealousy and enterprising.

Pride and complacency, pride and self-confidence.

Laziness knows how to relax.

Sensitive, sensitive; Sentimental, attentive, perceptive.

Suspicion and strong thinking skills.

Introverted, introverted, and calm.

Domineering and self-confident.

Pleasing Consider the other person's feelings.

Rigid, rules, and principles.

Verbose patience.

Unassertive, easy-going, simple.

Arrogance, nobility, self-confidence.

Conceited self-confidence.

Vanity A sense of honor.

Weakness and obedience.

Impulsive, refreshing, dare to be the first.

Stubbornness, perseverance, persistence.

Grumpy and resolute.

Fear of making mistakes Be careful.

Complain and release stress.

Guilt and kindness.

Fear of self-preservation.

Frustration turns out to be enthusiastic and hopeful about things.

Seriously.

Perfectionism is self-disciplined and self-motivated.

Excerpt from the Character Growth Guide (highly recommended).

A bad personality can be improved slowly, but don't feel inferior.

Personality cannot be completely changed. Beg.

There are many kinds of human personalities, and it can be said that there are many kinds of human behaviors! Do you think your bad personality is because of life problems or because of emotional problems? In fact, there is no good or bad personality, but whether your character behavior is easy to be accepted and recognized by others, that is, your personality will determine how you treat the things around you, and it will also cause objective people to have an objective judgment on your character, or that is not the real you.

Therefore, as long as you treat the things around you seriously, you can also change the way others treat you. There is nothing you can't do in the world, only what you don't do, the main thing is that you have to have such a heart!

I am warm and cheerful, friendly, honest and humble. Diligent, conscientious and responsible, able to bear hardships and stand hard work, conscientious and patient. Affable, approachable, and good at communicating with people.

Lively and cheerful, optimistic, with a wide range of interests, strong adaptability, quick to get started, diligent and studious, down-to-earth, conscientious and responsible, persevering, hard-working, and brave to meet new challenges.

Be honest and honest, be principled, do what you say, and never shirk your responsibilities; Have self-control, always insist on doing things from the beginning to the end, and never give up halfway; Be willing to learn, do not avoid problems, and be willing to learn from others with an open mind; Confident but not conceited, not self-centered; Willing to humbly praise and accept the superior, the authoritative; Will devote 100% enthusiasm and energy to work; Approachable. Sincere, cheerful, aggressive, adaptable, diligent and studious, down-to-earth, strong team spirit, positive and enterprising, serious attitude.

I am cheerful, sincere, optimistic, have a wide range of interests, have strong organizational skills and adaptability, and have strong management planning and organizational management coordination skills.

It is also possible to change the personality, provided that there is a strong desire to change and long-term persistence. Psychologists' research shows that about 50% of personality is genetically determined, and the rest can be shaped and perfected as oneself grows under the influence of the environment. If you are not satisfied with your personality, you can try the following methods.

Successful Character Training – Self-Training The specific method is as follows:

Clause. 2. Determine what role you would like to play if you were an actor and why you like it.

Clause. 3. Choose any person you worship and list the traits and qualities in him that make you worship.

Clause. 4. Combine the second and third with a personality of your own choosing.

Clause. 5. Change what you don't like in your image, behavior, and personality, and reinforce what you like.

Clause. 6. Express your new personality. I would like to remind you that you should not expect to develop a character that will be successfully transformed anytime soon, but that you must also build on the core of your character.

Let's read more books, some Buddhist books, I read many things when I see them, and I don't want to be willful when I read many things.

——The construction of a building first needs to design the blueprint, and then the construction is carried out in accordance with the indicators of the blueprint design, and finally the expected results can be obtained.

The same is true for the construction of people's character, first of all, we need to establish a clear ideal of life, that is: what kind of person we want to become and what kind of life we want to live. Secondly, find out the gap between yourself and your ideals, and finally formulate optimization and improvement methods for these gaps to improve your thinking and psychological quality.

Knowledge and experience are the basic laws of character, and only the correct laws can produce correct words and deeds, so only by obtaining new knowledge and new experience can we produce a way of dealing with the times and form a new personality psychological trait - character. Therefore, only through continuous learning and practice can we constantly update our knowledge and practical experience, and then inevitably change the basic characteristics of our personality.