Corny questions can t let go of your boyfriend s past 20

I can't stand it anymore, just let it go.,Seriously, your boyfriend doesn't feel like a good thing.,Is it worth thinking so much about your boyfriend who has an affair with a woman in 4 places?

Although it is better to teach people to beat children than to teach people to divide their wives, but now they are not wives, if something happens to their wives when the time comes, then it will be really divided, and they still have to earn their eyes to see clearly before marriage.

If you really think you have a psychological problem, you can try to see a doctor, in my opinion, it is just that you need to teach others a lot of security, which is normal.

The nature of the country is easy to change, I dare not say how right this is, of course, I also believe that there are people who can change for the better. But at least I think you're right to be worried. I don't know if your boyfriend's flowers were told to you in the past, I can only say that if it is, your boyfriend is too ignorant, there is nothing to show off these things, the most basic thing to be a man is to protect his current girlfriend.

As for the things you mind a lot, alas, I've done such things too, and it's important to adjust your mentality, as well as your boyfriend's attitude.

What's the point of him chewing on the fact that he loves his ex-girlfriend all day long, he doesn't know if it's you who is by his side now. If it were, I would tell him directly and ask him not to mention it again, hoping that he would consider your feelings.

On your own side, first of all, you have to think like this, "the last to accompany him for the rest of his life is his wife and not so many lovers", if you can accompany him until the end, that is the most important thing.

Also, remember to look down on yourself, you should dress up, you should maintain, interpersonal relationships, especially the relationship with your boyfriend's good friends, you must get along well, go up to the hall and down to the kitchen, let everyone praise, your boyfriend has a little eyesight and knows who Gao cherishes. You'll be in a good mood and won't mind what happens to that woman.

You've written too much. Harmony and harmony.

It turns out that women also mind men passing over!!

If you can't stand it, then it's better to break up.

If you can't let go after all, it's best to choose to break up.

Either score, or you have to pass this level.

One of the biggest characteristics of time is that it is irreversible.

You're obsessed in vain with what happened before he and you knew you.

Don't you think you're digging into the horns?

It's like you have to desperately remember.

Ten years ago, at noon on a cloudy day, what you had for lunch was as meaningless.

And in vain to make yourself anxious and the people who care for you.

Why do you do such things that harm others and yourself?

Let go of yourself and don't fight with the past.

The important thing is now.

He's with you now.

This is more important than anything else.

I'm not asking you to let him go.

I'm asking you to let go of yourself.

Otherwise, you will die sooner or later in the tip of your own horns.

There is nothing we can do about the past.

Because it's already happened.

He was destined to know her first.

It's not his fault, and it can't be changed.

You are at odds with the past time.

It's stupid.

Think more about his strengths.

You have to always say to yourself in your heart: He is the best, he is the best girl who loves me the most, and the feelings are earned with heart.

You put all the energy you used to fight with him.

He will only double down on being better for you.

I firmly believe that after a relationship is over, he knows how to cherish his current lover more, and he will remember that he didn't do well enough before.

This is due to the gender difference.

A woman is always obsessed with how good he used to be to others.

Men are always reflecting on what they have done badly, and trying to avoid doing it wrong again, so as not to make their current lover sad.

You are right to say calm down, such a problem should be dealt with coldly, and during this time you have to think about whether it is worth it to disturb your mood or even life for the sake of his ex-girlfriend, a woman who has nothing to do with him now.

I think everyone has a past, you can't hold on to someone else's past, if you want to be with your boyfriend for a long time, don't mind his past too much, who doesn't have a past? Being too honest is not good for your feelings. You're arguing like this every day, you're going to drive your boyfriend away, and if you want to be a smart girl, don't pay too much attention to these things.

Think about it from your other side, if your boyfriend cares about you every day for your past, even if he cares about you very much, can you still stand it? So I suggest you take a look at the TV series "Adolescence Meets Menopause", the heroine in TV is in a worse situation, but she handles it very successfully, and you can learn from it.

The past cannot be changed, the important thing is to grasp the present, you have to adjust your mentality, how to live the present with your boyfriend is the most important. Don't let a woman who influenced your boyfriend in the past affect his life now, this will only make your boyfriend more impressed with that woman and more unforgettable.

Who can not point to the past, as long as he loves you well after you know each other, you also love him, it's okay, pay too much attention to his past, it will only make you miserable, now you have two ways to go, one is to leave him, the other is to continue to love him, if you choose the former you don't have to suffer from him, if you choose the latter, you should let go of these, the reason why the past is called the past is that it will not appear again, you are so obsessed with always so mind, what is the point, rather than suffering, it is better to let go.

If you think your boyfriend is doing well in all aspects right now, then you should be thankful for the girl in front of you!

If you think he's good, it proves that the girl in front of you is very visionless, and gave up a good choice, maybe when you're happy, she's crying! If he thinks you're good, then it proves that the girl and you are not a heavyweight, and it's bad without her, how can you highlight your goodness?!

It's all in the past, as long as there is no such thing in the future life, who has not had a past, but what has happened has happened, it cannot be avoided, and then it will be boring to pursue it, it will affect the feelings and life of the husband and wife, it is better to really feel the current life, I wish you happiness!

Be careful to shift, don't get on top of this. Only in this way can we be more rational and do things properly.

I mean. Only when people are sober-minded can they know right from wrong. You're a little excited right now, and it's useless to ask anyone.

Calm, calm,

He wants to be honest with you and let you know about his past.

If he knew you were going to be so haunted afterwards, he wouldn't talk about his past, you care too much, and you're a perfectionist.

Think about it, everyone is old, who doesn't have the past, the important thing is the present and the future.

It would be nice to pay more attention to these. If he can talk about the past, it shows that he wants you to be open-minded too.

You are also a person with a past, so why should you mind other people's pasts? Not to mention it's been so long.

The main thing is to look at it yourself, no one else can help you

Ahh

The point is that he loves you, and the previous ones are gone.

I'm now memorizing English every day in order to divert my attention, hahaha the situation is much better, and the landlord will try it too.

Do something to make yourself happy, and it will feel like these are small things that are not worth mentioning.

As a woman, I deeply sympathize, because I sometimes feel like this, and I can also understand that this feeling is really painful. I also have a lot of past, and whenever I think of it, I feel like a thin needle is pricking me, and I can't let go of it for a long time. But on the other hand, I also have a past, and he didn't "mind", but after understanding, we agreed not to mention it again.

In fact, I also know how he can't mind, as a man, no matter how generous and generous he is, he will not ignore a woman's past. Unless he doesn't really love me. When I think about my past, I take it for granted, because my him hadn't appeared yet, and after meeting him, I really liked the saying, "I haven't met your past, and I want to follow your future closely."

In the same way, I hope you can understand this sentence, if there is no past experience, maybe it is not as good as the present; If it weren't for his former girlfriend, maybe he wouldn't be by your side now; If you keep thinking like this, maybe you won't have a tomorrow. A smart woman is looking forward, looking at the future, if you hold on to his past, then you are destined to live only by his side in the past, your constant calculation is to constantly remind him, how sweet the past and girlfriend are, relax, enjoy every day, I wish you happiness!

This is a psychological obstacle that no one can overcome, so you don't have to worry too much You can empathize with it, if your boyfriend can't let go of your past, you are usually fine, and he knows that you only love him now, but you still haunt your past, how do you feel?

Okay, who hasn't been there? Being too attached to the past is a burden for both of us. Or you can think about it in a self-comforting way, fortunately you didn't meet him (your boyfriend) before, otherwise it is very likely that you are the "she" you used to be, and you are now in someone else's place.

Would you rather be the one who lost him (his ex-girlfriend) or the one who is happily with him now (you)?

Eh, I don't know if you can let go of it if you go around in circles like this, hehe, girls are easy to think too much, this is nature, but you also have to believe in each other's feelings at this moment! ~

If you really can't live without him, use your love to tolerate him, let him know that your heart is the purest and most selfless, and slowly he will be infected by your love.

Your current boyfriend is too traditional in his thinking, what age is it, if he doesn't accept you because of you and your ex-boyfriend, then it's not really love each other together! To love someone is to fully tolerate and accept the other person, including strengths and weaknesses!

So did he have a girlfriend before, and if not, you try to get along slowly. If anything, don't forgive him.

Let it go, a man like this, I don't think he has a heart and is not worth cherishing.

There is obviously your subjective problem in this, the so-called after some twists and turns, the two of you were reluctant to be together at the beginning, right? In fact, it's time to let go, and it's not a way to cut your feet.

It's good to take it slowly, you can't forget it at first, and maybe he forgets it after a long time.

Well? It's too self-respecting, isn't it?

Explain it to him as hard as she can.

If it doesn't work yet.

Can only be blamed. You will not live!

Don't want this kind of man.

Leave him quickly, this kind of man is not worthy of love. He said he minded, it was all his excuse, and it must be that he didn't like you anymore. If you really love someone, you don't care so much at all, not to mention that you are still innocent!

Do you want to prove your innocence with your body for the sake of such a person! And what can he prove his innocence? Wake up!

I don't think this man loves you very much, if he really loves you, even if you're not a chu girl, he won't mind too much, who hasn't had a few boyfriends, does he have to guarantee that he is absolutely good? Make it clear to him, if he really alienates you because of this, I think you can choose to give up, even if you are not good, you are the only one in the world, and it is his loss that he does not cherish it.

Oh then you ask him, we broke up, you took away someone else's first kiss, do people think you're disgusting...

Reminisce about the past. I can't forget the painful past! It's only to blame you for being unladylike. This man's heart is too small! Good morning break!

Dizzy....How can there be such a boy? It's good that your first time is still around, why does he care so much else!

Break up, such a man is the best man.

Your current boyfriend is sick, and if you break up, you will break up, or you will not be able to stand it even more in the future.

It's still too small, just wait for it to get older. 、

Personally, I think: This man is cheap enough.

It's hidden somewhere in the heart.

You love him so much that you want to have everything about him. Love is exclusivity, and it's certain that you can't stand it. But since it is something that has passed before you, there is no need to care so much, the main thing is to grasp the present, and the key is what he will do to you in the future.

No matter how much you investigate the past, the result will not change, so it's better to think about it. He didn't feel sorry for you.

He's a little messy, since they love each other, why care about the little things in the past.

Understand each other! Everyone has a past, but that's just the past! Can't prove it now. As long as you truly love each other and understand each other. What's the problem?

It's funny.

I grasped it myself.

In fact, you don't have to worry about it at all, if your boyfriend doesn't think of your ex-girlfriend at all when he reads the girl, you have to worry, he shows that he is a person with feelings, and at the same time, will he have such a situation will have the reason for you, a prospective girlfriend? Maybe your kindness to him is not enough to make him wholeheartedly let go of his past girlfriend, or maybe your concern for him is only superficial, if you can work harder, and it is best not to interfere too much with his thinking, now is the time for him to compare you with his ex-girlfriend, too much concern will make him tired.