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The girlfriend's past is unacceptable to the boyfriend, and it is definitely the first man who is not something that he will accept even if he accepts it on the surface.
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Girlfriends often make trouble unreasonably, which is unacceptable.
Even a boy with a good temper can't stand a girl who is often unreasonable.
Therefore, girls must be empathetic in their relationships, and being unreasonable will only affect the relationship between two people.
Only when two people understand each other and trust each other can they get along well.
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I think the most unacceptable thing is that he is close to other boys in front of me, which shows that he doesn't take me seriously, so I decided to cut him off and find my favorite boyfriend and girlfriend.
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In a relationship, if my girlfriend cheats on me, hides something from me, and doesn't tell me the truth, once I let me know, I can't accept it.
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Take a shower three times a day, put on makeup for half an hour, wear revealing clothes, spend more time going out, prefer to eat snacks, etc.
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betrayed me in the relationship, had an affair with other boys, went out in the middle of the night, wore very little, very green tea, and often coquettish.
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If you can't accept the other person's past, then you can't accept the other person at all, it's very simple, everyone has their own past.
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Everyone will experience a lot of things in this life, and it is inevitable that they will experience some things that they should not experience.
Looking back, I always feel that it was a mistake, and if I could go back to the past, I would definitely not do it so brightly. However, there are no ifs in life, so how can we start over for what happened in the past?
When a man is in love with his girlfriend, he learns that the woman has done some wrong things in the past, or that the woman has had some emotional experiences and has had some unbearable experiences.
For a woman, it may be her regret, it may be her pain, and she doesn't want to look back and don't want to think about it again.
And men are always entangled, too concerned about women's past, revisiting women's sad past, what can they change? Not only will it cause pain to the woman, but it will also put yourself in trouble.
Since you choose to be with a woman, you should accept the reality, accept the woman's past, tolerate the shortcomings and shortcomings of the woman, and at the same time, focus on the current life, look forward to the future together, and create a better life, which is the right choice.
Some "complexes" are difficult to resolve, some "minds" are calmed down by men, and some "dislikes" are difficult to resolve, you have tried to communicate with your girlfriend, and you have also empathized, thinking about your girlfriend from your girlfriend's point of view, and you have also thought about starting a new life with your girlfriend.
However, you just care about your girlfriend's past in your heart, and you find it difficult to accept, and every time you think of a woman's past, you will feel difficult. At this time, your negative thoughts will not only affect your own emotions, but also have a negative impact on your girlfriend's life, and often end up causing your relationship to become more and more strained.
At this time, you should probably think about the other party, but also for yourself, choosing to let go is not a wise choice, the relationship that should not have started has begun, and the more you find it inappropriate, then say goodbye to the other party gently.
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Feelings come first and come first, respecting your girlfriend's past does not mean accepting her past, many things seem to be the same, but the essence can be 108,000 games in the silver bench, can not be confused.
No matter how much we love someone, even if we miss her in this life, we will meet other people, who may not be as loving as before, but getting along with those who come after us is definitely not perfunctory. But if there is a problem in our thinking, and we still think about the first person when we are with the second person, then it means that we are "eating from the bowl and looking at the pot", which is irresponsible to the incumbent and immoral. So, I think that there is a first-come, first-served value in relationships, who you like is your own, and who you like is also your freedom, but if you treat the other person as a substitute or a victim, then this is wrong, especially to meet someone who loves one.
From the perspective of modern people's thinking, boys should respect girls, after all, men and women are equal now. And as men and women in love, it is normal for boys to take care of girls more and let some girls go. And the premise for two people to be together is to respect each other, love each other, trust each other, and like each other, if they just work hard and the other does not work hard, then it is unfair.
Therefore, it is important to see if the girl respects the boy before asking him to respect him.
As for the past, it is not a question of respect or disrespect, who the girl was with before has nothing to do with the current one, but when she is with the current one, she has an ambiguous relationship with her former friends, or is entangled, then this is not a question of respect or disrespect, but stepping on two boats and treating others as spare tires. Let's ask, in this case, what qualifications do you have to ask boys to respect girls, they don't take boys seriously, and they don't respect boys after fighting, is it a fool to be a boy? Many girls are influenced by the Internet mourning culture, and are always demanding "power", thus ignoring the feelings of boys, and always asking the other party to respect themselves, but they never want to respect each other.
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If a man confirms his relationship with you and doesn't ask about your past, then most of them have only one possibility, he just has an indifferent attitude, in short, he is just playing with you on the spot. Because when you really fall in love with someone, you can't help but want to get to know her.
And the other kind of man, before he got his hands on you, was obedient to you, obedient to his words, and all his performances made you feel so sincere and reliable, and even gave you a feeling that you could go up the knife mountain and go down to the sea of fire.
But once you are with him Napi, you will begin to inquire about your past and experience, and after learning the answer, you will immediately look at each other coldly, sneering, and Chun Kewei is indifferent as if he has changed a person overnight.
They will also keep saying that they love you and care about you, but this is just a disguise for them, a cover to vent their inner dissatisfaction.
Under normal circumstances, after a man and a woman have confirmed their relationship, the most urgent thing for a man is to know about her past, regardless of whether he asks in the first place or not.
Regarding emotional cleanliness, men have it, and women have it, and as mentioned in Kaiwen, these are all proofs of care. Caring and calculating are normal manifestations, and abnormal manifestations are what psychological changes or unreasonable manifestations the other party has had after knowing it. And the next content will mention another situation, can't accept the girlfriend's past, is it all a man's problem?
Three months ago, Lin Shu dated a girlfriend and a friend, but they broke up not long ago. The reason for the breakup was because Lin Shu couldn't accept his girlfriend's past, so everyone scolded Lin Shu as a scumbag, and in the face of questioning, Lin Shu seemed to have a very painful unspeakable secret, and then he couldn't hold back, so he explained to everyone: "She is only 24 years old, and she already has more than a dozen ex-boyfriends." ”
I don't know what others think, I'll talk about my thoughts, what I can't accept is that I've talked about a lot of relationships, more than 5 paragraphs, and then passed the miscarriage of the fetus, basically every man can understand my thoughts, girls with too rich emotional experience, basically he has gradually become numb to love, he is with you, just because it is suitable, and he can't talk about any real heartbeat, and it doesn't make sense to talk about his love, how much he wants to maintain him, but he feels that he can be together now, If it doesn't work in the future, I'll divide it directly, so I'm respectful of this kind of girl, and I can't afford to play with feelings, and then I'll have an abortion.
You can't accept it yourself, it means that you began to reject such behavior in your heart, you persuaded her, but she didn't listen to your advice, such a girl, I don't think it's okay, it's not suitable to live at home, even if you are together, sooner or later there will be more contradictions!
That I'm a woman.,It should be okay.,I think it.,You shouldn't break up with C.,Your girlfriend cares about your past and she cares about you.,You can persuade her.,Tell her that you only love her.,Let it pass in the past.,Maybe you can coax her or something.,If the two really don't get along.,It's just....Take your time anyway...Can't be in a hurry....
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I can't accept that my boyfriend has girlfriends of the opposite sex, I don't think there is a simple friendship between men and women, and that he has girlfriends is disrespectful to me and doesn't care.