If love could be traded, would you choose your current lover?

Updated on society 2024-05-28
25 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    I still choose, and love can't be traded, it's someone I choose, and there is definitely something that attracts me.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    In fact, if the money given by the other party is attractive enough, I am willing to exchange my current lover.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    If a person is willing to buy him for 10 million, no, 1 million, then the deal.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    Since I have chosen him, it proves that he is the right choice for me.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    I'm sincere about this question. If I had to choose again. I wouldn't choose my current lover.

    I won't get married again. Because I've been too depressed over the years, and I'm not happy with the other half of my life. My unconfident personality caused me to be too suspicious, so I was very tired.

    To be honest, I have a fear of the opposite sex, I have never had friends of the opposite sex, and I am afraid of being alone with the opposite sex. The choice of partner in life is the person you love, but you rarely express it in life. Don't dare or don't want to.

    I always think that the other party will dislike myself after expressing it. I always feel like I'm keeping a certain distance from everyone, including my partner. Because I am afraid of being hurt, I will always leave a step back for myself.

    I also feel that no one is really good to me, and I don't have the capital to make others be good to me. Getting together in the next life, no matter how much you love, you can only pass by, letting go does not mean that you don't like it, I just hope that he will live a better life, which is also a comfort in my heart.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    Yes, I will be with him since I met him seven years ago, no longer have so many boyfriends, go from junior high school to college with him, accompany him through the best years, no longer let so many peach blossoms appear around him, no longer let him get hurt, no longer let him become like this, although it is good now, but it always feels like we missed a lot of good times with each other, missed several opportunities to be together, went around and around, and in the end, it was him, although the process of being together was very difficult, and he left a lot, It took a lot of courage, but I'm not afraid of anything, I'm afraid that it won't be him in the end, we have known each other for eight years, there is no contact for five years, we have been together for three months, we have been together for three years, and it has always been a different place, he studied in the southwest, I studied in the northeast, fate is always arranged so that I am powerless to refute, from the two counties to the north and south, he is 180, I am 150....We see each other once a year, and that's it, I don't know how far we can go.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Yes, from the moment I waited for him, I rejected everyone, I believed in him, I believed in myself, I believed that I could wait for his day, I believed that we could go to the end.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    I love him, although I have seen many of his shortcomings after marriage, but there is a more real feeling, if love has a choice, back to the beginning, or a fork in the road, I will still not hesitate to go to him, when I think of the rest of my life without him, I will feel that he is too pitiful, others are not as much as I love him, then he lost me, how to live, although the reality may be, he lost me and still live well, in the end I still want to deceive myself, he lost me, must be very painful.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    The answer is yes, I would still choose her. I chose her because I loved her, not for any other reason. When we first fell in love, our shortcomings, her strengths, and many of her should know each other.

    If you really like it, it's really love. It can't fade over time. Love is eternal.

    Even if time passes, even if the face is old. Even though there are many options nowadays. To love her, you must love forever.

    There is no doubt that love has a choice. Loving each other at the beginning is each other's choice. The choice at that time, the promise at that time, I believe that time will not fade him, but time will make it eternal.

    This is purely a personal point of view.

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    Yes, my husband and I are high school classmates, we have been together for 7 years now, we have not quarreled directly, and our friends around us are very envious of us, the reason why we don't quarrel is mainly because my boyfriend has a better temper, and I am also a more reasonable person, the most critical factor is that we will communicate often, you don't do well, I need to improve, you must let the other party know, the other party will definitely not be angry because you bring it up, but will change as much as possible, Because those who really love each other must be willing to change for each other, so I love my husband very much, and I hope that everyone can harvest their own love.

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    In our daily life, maybe everyone's expectations of love are different, some people have not suffered from love, and they always feel sweet about love, so we must keep our sanity when we are in love, sometimes we are addicted to a relationship, and it is ourselves who may suffer when we are separated, and for love, the emotions that everyone shows may be different. So now let's discuss the question, is love a transaction, what do you think? I think love is not a transaction, love is an emotion, we should not treat our love as a transaction, we should cherish our feelings.

    One. Falling in love is not a transaction.

    Love is something that really can't be said, can't be seen or touched, but it can make some people fall into it, when we really fall in love with someone, we will find that there will be a lot of wonderful things happening in this world. But some people meet people who don't love themselves, they will always be in a hurt situation, but they still don't want to escape from this relationship, in fact, when we find that the other party doesn't like us, we have to learn to let go, because to love a person we should respect his ideas, not like this all the time, so that two people are tormented by each other, love is not a transaction, we have to judge according to our own emotions. <>

    Two. Love fills our lives with color.

    In fact, if human beings have no love, I think there is no difference between them and animals, human love is very great, you can sacrifice yourself for a person, the feeling of loving someone is very wonderful, you can pay a lot for each other. When we see each other happy and happy, we also feel very happy, this kind of love is not reciprocated, so I think love is not a transaction, as long as two people really love each other, I think it can make our lives full of colorful colors. <>

    The above is just a personal opinion, so do you think love is a transaction?

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    Love is a transaction, and if you get along, stay together. If you don't get along well, you will break up, and there is no shame in that. Human society is just a trading system, don't talk about the depth of feelings.

    How much can you pay, what kind of things can you buy, you can't afford anything, so who is with you, can a rich man marry a supermodel, can a beggar?

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    I think that love is a transaction, two parties use time to exchange each other's sincerity, money to exchange each other's loyalty, promise to exchange each other's lifelong waiting, and responsibility in exchange for each other's own children.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    I don't think it's a transaction, you should have a correct mindset when you fall in love, and you can't treat falling in love as a transaction, so that you can have a beautiful love, and this way of falling in love is also the most correct.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    There is a situation of trading, and I personally feel that it is a transaction, because two people will have a lot of exchange conditions together, and at the same time will help each other's development, so it can be described as a transaction.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    I don't think love is a transaction, two people like each other, love each other, and be able to live together, which is the ultimate goal.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    I don't agree with this statement, such a statement is really very powerful, and it also says that beautiful love is a transaction, which is really very unpleasant. Being in love is very beautiful, it can accompany each other and bring a lot of joy to each other.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    I think very few people deserve love, and most people have made marriage a transaction, and they all pursue profit, and they are not happy.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    Of course, you can have love, but society is becoming more and more materialistic, and everyone likes to pursue enjoyment excessively, and it becomes no longer pure.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    In fact, people nowadays also deserve love, because there is nothing wrong with love itself. However, people in today's marriages are more realistic, so they regard marriage as a transaction.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    No, if you treat love as a transaction, then you are destined to not find true love!

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    Strictly speaking, it is a transaction, but it is not money and material things that are paid, but love, unequal love, generally speaking, women pay more love than men!

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    It can be said that it is all to meet each other's emotional needs.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    Sometimes it can be! See how you treat it!

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    1. Love is a kind of pleasant affection between men and women, and people get spiritual sweetness and happiness from love;

    Second, the enjoyment of love is produced by people with the main spiritual inputs such as dating time and sweet words, supplemented by material factors such as the moon before the flower;

    3. The income from the production of love depends on the talent and investment of human capital in this area, such as language talent, love concept, etc. We can clearly find that the essence of love is a relationship process between input and output, in other words, a transaction.

    Costs and benefits: The purpose of marriage is to get the most out of marriage Love marriage comes with a cost. You have to sacrifice time to meet the other person, you have to invite the other person to dinner and tea, in order to make a good impression on the other person, you have to groom yourself, buy decent clothes, etc., these are all direct spiritual and material costs.

    In order to pursue the other person, you must give up doing other things, give up chasing another goal, which is the opportunity cost. From finding a target to falling in love to getting married, it is a process of comprehensive cost.

    So falling in love is a transaction in itself

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