What is the experience of being unreasonable with your counselor?

My counselor is arrogant and unreasonable, which is really a very painful experience, I can't listen to anything, and it is difficult to communicate with him.

For those unreasonable counselors, I think we can only ignore her, after all, there is no point in talking to him.

Nothing you said was right, it wasn't right to do what he said at all, it wasn't your fault or your fault, and it was really hard for unreasonable people to deal with.

It's hard to ask for leave, it's hard to ask for leave. My instructor will not approve the leave for any reason you use. I remember one time, there was a classmate in our class, who had a happy event at home, it should be my brother's marriage, and went to ask for leave, and then he said:

What kind of leave to take, anyway, if you get married, you will get divorced, thinking that it is better to study hard than to drink wine! Later, my classmate went back without asking for leave.

Everything has to be done according to his wishes, and he can't say it if he is reasonable or has ideas.

A female counselor (national psychological second-level counselor, I doubt a little that the threshold for psychological counselors is so low), ignores the girls, only talks and laughs with the boys, asks her what she can't wait for a reply for a long time, fills in the party application, and lets a boy in the class go, and the others don't look at it. Moreover, she doesn't care about anything in the class (because she is only the counselor of that class), and one thing tires the class leader so much that she doubts her life, but the other class is extremely attentive because she is the head teacher of that class.

I can say that when our college counselor called a student **, because the student didn't hear who she was, she canceled the important place where this student's award was still what she did. Very vindictive, this is what she told us in class, in a super proud tone.

At the beginning of my freshman year, I was about to go home and needed to ask my counselor for time off. I went to him with a leave slip that I wrote, because I wanted to make sure that my parents agreed to take leave, so he asked me to call my dad's ** to talk to him. My dad doesn't speak Mandarin and doesn't communicate well.

In the end, the counselor was very angry, saying that he should not keep delaying his time, and kept saying that I was a college student who couldn't even write a leave note, and kept making things difficult for me. Later, when a classmate went to ask for leave, he helped her buy a cup of milk tea, and he happily agreed, and he didn't have to confirm with his parents at all.

On Friday, the last class before the Qingming holiday, many students skipped class and went home, and then the teacher called the name, but he didn't hear me answer when he called my name, and then crossed my name on the computer, and then called the name. I didn't want to disturb the classroom discipline at the time, so I didn't say it, I went to negotiate with the teacher after class, I said that I was here, not late, everyone can testify, he just coped with me and said that he knew, but he didn't turn on the computer to change it!! I really don't know if it's wrong, and I haven't offended this teacher.

Each class has its own class work group, and the instructor generally notifies the necessary things, such as the holiday time, the start of school, the heating time, the time of the closure, the time of flag raising, the time of the meeting, etc. When the counselor first started school, he often posted some advertisements in the group!! For this phenomenon, the students in the journalism class made anonymous complaints in the group, burst into foul language, and then the counselor was so angry that the group was disbanded!

I think most counselors are more reasonable, and there are some individual ones, if you don't be reasonable, don't ignore him, it's really not okay to change another one.

The counselor of my junior year is a senior brother who is two years older than us, and he stayed in school at that time, and he was originally from the College of Mathematics and Letters, and later assigned to our liberal arts college, I was really extremely speechless, and I treated our liberal arts students with the thinking of science, all kinds of unreasonable requirements, and scolded this and that at every turn, which was simply incomprehensible.

Once, the counselor informed us that we were going to have a class meeting, and the class meeting was held at the time I announced, but on that day, everyone got up early on the weekend, and everyone in several classes sat down. When she didn't come for a long time, looking at the situation, someone called the instructor, and they said that they had something to do temporarily today, and the meeting time would be notified separately. We're all oh hehe

Counsellors are more friendly and approachable than the more serious teachers in the classroom, and they take on more responsibilities in both study and life. Although he did not passionately declare how to care for his classmates, he "saw the truth in the subtleties" everywhere in his life. The desire to have more in-depth contact with the counsellors, such as the counsellors holding regular seminars with their classmates similar to "open houses"; Dialogue with students on an equal footing; Go to classes and dormitories to communicate with classmates; Participate in group activities with your classmates; Give more care to students in their studies and lives, etc.

How much power does a counselor have? I believe that there is also an intuitive feeling from these things. So, how do we deal with such a counselor?

1. Adhere to the right values. Although the counselor has great power, it is limited to things such as awards and evaluations, and he can't do anything else. Therefore, there is no need to "grovel" to the counselor in order to get some small profits.

It's naturally good to have a good relationship with a counselor, but it's okay to have a bad relationship, and when you leave campus, he has little impact on you. 2. Dare to report the situation to the school. Many counselors abuse their power and oppress people with their power, but they are most afraid of being reported, because many of their behaviors have been seriously violated, and once they **, they may face the consequences of firing squid or even demerit punishment.

So, if the counselor goes too far, then there is no need to show mercy. 3. Pick up the law**. Some counselors' behaviors have already violated the law, such as accepting a hidden bribe to facilitate someone but violating their rights, harassing female students, etc., at this time, they must use the law to defend their rights and not give them a chance to take advantage of it.

If you feel that the teacher has violated professional ethics, you can complain and report, the main way to report: you can call the education system to publicly report**, log in to the municipal education department to report**, and enter WeChat *** to complain and report the teacher's bad behavior. It can also be reported to the relevant departments of the school, or it can be reported to the discipline inspection and supervision department.