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Little sister, after reading your description, I am also very anxious for you, life will inevitably encounter times like you are now to challenge your self-esteem, since things have happened, don't panic, to analyze rationally, find a good way to solve it, even if it can't be solved, you must minimize the loss. It seems that your in-laws also know that you did something wrong, so it seems to challenge your self-esteem, many times we are willing to fight with our husbands, no matter who is right or wrong, but we don't want others to know, otherwise if you are too compromised, you will have no self-esteem, if you do not compromise, your marital feelings will be buried in a moment of anger. But since things have come to this point, you still have to be open-minded to admit that you have done wrong, of course, it would be better if there is a reason for the past that can be said, and then tell you that you will not do the same wrong thing again in the future, and you will definitely take into account everyone's feelings, no one is perfect, and they will forgive you.
Especially your husband, he may just be angry for a while, vent his anger on himself, scare and scare you, but also to maintain his own self-esteem, his parents know, he has to express it. The main thing is that I don't understand how unforgivable things you have done, and I can't solve the problem in a targeted manner, but I really want to help you, remember, since things have happened, don't be rash, you must be calm, and if you are angry for a while, you will say that you can't get it back, after all, the relationship between the two is very delicate, and when you are very close, there is no flesh and blood affection between parents and siblings. Be sensible, come on, you can contact me at any time if you have any questions, I hope you can solve it perfectly.
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Don't treat marriage as a child's play.
I think you are too disrespectful of marriage, it is definitely not a matter of truth after marriage, and I hope you will honor your in-laws, after all, they are old, and it is not allowed to pull your husband up, and now they are watching their son get married, it should be time to enjoy happiness, don't quarrel with the elders, this is what a daughter-in-law should do.
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If people knew that you were divorced because you didn't want to live with your mother-in-law, I don't think anyone would want you.
Honoring the elderly is a very important requirement for many people looking for a daughter-in-law.
I don't want your share, I just want to scold you, I hope to wake you up, and don't get divorced again.
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Don't think about whether anyone wants it, and you can't be too selfish. Communicate with your husband well, this kind of thing is normal, and it doesn't have to be divorced.
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After marriage is definitely different from before marriage, there are a lot of things missing, but there are also a lot of problems that have not been encountered before. Don't talk about separation, then you will definitely regret it later, thinking about how to solve the current problem is the main topic, divorce is not the only way out.
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The reason is that his parents, I said before marriage, I don't want to live with the old man, but he didn't listen, and now I don't get along with his mother, and the whole family feels uncomfortable.
The main question is "I don't want to live with the elderly", is it a special case or all the old people.
It's a matter of principle.
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Because he is a soldier, it may be a little difficult for you to divorce him. According to our law, a soldier cannot leave unless he is grossly negligent or voluntary. You'd better have a good time with him!
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I think that the endurance of the military should be very good. If he can't stand ......
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are already married, and live with the elderly, you can change your strategy, if you divorce, it will have an impact on your husband's future, you can change your thinking, treat your mother-in-law as your own mother, be coquettish, and it will pass, the more you make trouble, the worse it is, don't keep thinking about what you said before, accept the reality and start over again Come on, you have the courage to marry a soldier, why don't you have the courage to do a good job in the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law.
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All of the above is true.
I think you're a little selfish. Since you have chosen this marriage, you have to manage it with your heart. Now is the time to test you.
Could it be that you married him so that you didn't have to live with his parents? The marriage of two people is equivalent to the marriage of two families. Come to think of it, you didn't fall in love and get married.
So you have to make up for the relationship class in the future, if you make a fuss at the beginning. How will I live in the future?
You can live with them first, and then slowly discuss moving out with your husband. Plan slowly.
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Legal Analysis: It is normal to divorce after two months of marriage. The law protects citizens' right to freedom of divorce, which has nothing to do with the time of marriage of both parties, and it is understandable that couples do not understand everything before marriage, and feel that it is not suitable to want divorce after marriage.
If both parties reach an agreement, they can prepare a divorce agreement and apply for divorce at the marriage registration office, and if one party does not agree, the other party can directly file a divorce lawsuit.
Legal basis: Civil Code of the People's Republic of China
Article 1076:Where both husband and wife divorce voluntarily, they shall sign a written divorce agreement and apply for divorce registration in person at the marriage registration authority. The divorce agreement shall clearly state the parties' expression of intent to divorce voluntarily and the consensus on matters such as child support, property, and debt handling.
Article 1079:Where one of the husband and wife requests a divorce, the relevant organization may conduct mediation or directly initiate divorce proceedings in the people's court. People's courts hearing divorce cases shall conduct mediation; If the relationship has indeed broken down and mediation fails, the divorce shall be granted. In any of the following circumstances, if mediation fails, a divorce shall be granted:
1) bigamy or cohabitation with another person; (2) Committing domestic violence or abusing or abandoning family members; (3) Having gambling, drug abuse, or other vices that have been repeatedly taught; (4) They have been separated for two years due to emotional discord; (5) Other circumstances that lead to the breakdown of the relationship between husband and wife. Where one party is declared missing and the other party initiates divorce proceedings, the divorce shall be granted. Where, after a people's court has ruled that divorce is not permitted, the parties have been separated for one year, and one party initiates divorce proceedings again, the divorce shall be granted.
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It's normal to get divorced after two months of marriage. The law protects citizens' right to freedom of divorce, which has nothing to do with the time of marriage of both parties, and it is understandable that husband and wife do not understand the potato nationality before marriage, and feel that it is not suitable to want a divorce after marriage. If both parties reach an agreement, they can prepare a divorce agreement to apply for divorce at the marriage registration authority, and if one party does not agree, the other party can directly file a divorce lawsuit.
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