Why do you always want to run away from your job?

To clarify this problem, we must first clarify a word that everyone may not be familiar with, but everyone relies on - feedback.

Feedback means that if you just do something, you need a corresponding thing to appear as a related event of what you just did. For example, if it's the progress bar or the percentage of the software that completes the task, without this, the task has been carried out for a long time and you don't know how long it will be, you will feel very broken, you will suspect that the computer is broken, and you will have the urge to shut down and restart.

The spare tire chases the goddess, and suddenly one day does not chase, the goddess may ask "why don't you chase", the spare tire is "I really don't know how far from success", this is the goddess did not give feedback to the spare tire, and forgot to raise the fetus.

One of the harsh punishments imposed on prisoners in prisons is confinement. No one spoke to the prisoners during the confinement, the prisoners were not informed of the changes in time, and they were left alone in a small space to endure all this, and those who were not very psychologically strong would soon collapse.

I always want to change jobs, probably because his work is always repeated and unchanging, and there has been no positive feedback, which makes people tired and disappointed.

I don't know the blessing in the blessing, a mountain is higher than a mountain, and the little monkey goes down the mountain.

Because you're tired of it.

Dislike? Working for money?

I think it's because you don't like your job, or that you are tired of doing your own work and can't handle it, but it's actually a matter of mentalityLet the mind calm down and think about it, the more absent-minded, the less confidence to do, adjust the mentality, think to the good side, you can feel, in fact, you are enjoying the fun of work, not avoiding work, bravely face the reality, work as a kind of enjoyment, encounter problems to face difficulties, come on.

There are several reasons why you might want to avoid work.

The firstIt may be that you are not able to do your job well, and you often suffer setbacks and blows in your work, and you may want to do it well, but because of their own lack of ability, they can't do it, which leads to an escape mentality.

The second,It may be caused by the work environment around youTarget. In addition to the hardware supporting the office, the working environment is also the interpersonal environment of the office. This also accounts for the majority.

Tension in interpersonal relationships around you, and poor communication with them can also make you run away.

The third, it may be that it is not in harmony with life. I didn't get a good rest when I should have rested, and it was often a problem of staying up late. So when I work, I want to sleep and don't want to work. Not sleeping well can also affect your work status and make you not want to work.

There are so many extraordinary things in life. Make people feel alive. There's too much pressure.

It makes you feel that the world is so helpless. Whenever you encounter a problem. You still think why this is the case.

There was a very strong fear in my heart. I'm afraid that I'm not doing well. You'll have to try it to see if you can do it.

It's not an escape from life. It's that you're running away from yourself.

Losing the meaning of life and the yearning for the meaning of life. Adjust your mindset. Maintain a positive and optimistic attitude towards life. Make your life exciting. Live every day in a down-to-earth manner, enrich yourself, and grasp the moment.

In this case, the only one who can help you is yourself. I would like to make a few suggestions for reference:

1. Participating in work is a manifestation of the growth and maturity of thought. It is to create value and give back to society.

2. Participate in the work, encounter difficulties in the work, find a way, find a way out, and have the courage to face it, rather than escape.

3. Participating in work is not the patent of highly intelligent businessmen, ordinary people have the ability to participate in work, which is also a survival need.

4. Living in the world, we can't close the door and live by ourselves, we always have to deal with others and give ourselves more encouragement.

I think it's due to high work pressure, and I don't like my current job.

Guidance: If you are under pressure and are not satisfied with your current job, you may consider trying another job if possible. In normal times, you can do appropriate physical exercise, read books, listen to ** walks, distract your attention, and if necessary, you need to receive psychological counseling or even take medication to control the development of the disease.

When carrying out career planning, it is necessary to find out the career opportunities that suit you according to the results of self-evaluation and career evaluation, and correctly choose the career that suits you, which mainly follows the following principles.

The reason why I always want to avoid work is that I may not be very interested in work, and some of them are because of the reason for avoidance.

What to do in the face of this situation.

1. Communicate more. Harmonious interpersonal relationships can greatly buffer the pressure that work brings to us. Report to the boss more, ask for instructions, communicate and contact with colleagues more, ask them for advice if you don't know how to do it, and resolve the difficulties and risks in the work through early communication, and eliminate them in the initial and embryonic stages.

With a harmonious interpersonal relationship foundation, colleagues can also help you come up with ideas and solutions, and leaders will excuse and consider you more, which is a virtuous circle.

2. Study diligently. Learning is the most basic and important ability, and it is the ladder of our growth and progress. Especially in the face of work that cannot be done in the short term, we must have the confidence and determination to compete with ourselves, find out the crux of the problem, learn from books, learn from colleagues, learn from practice, increase knowledge in learning, summarize experience in practice, and through a period of accumulation, we will inevitably make great progress and will inevitably be recognized by everyone.

3. Be good at making trade-offs. If you work hard for a long time and are really not qualified for this work, the pressure of work has caused a great burden on your own psychology, which has seriously affected your work and life, at this time I think you should learn to give up, take the initiative to find the leader to explain your own situation, and see if you can arrange an employee who is good at this aspect of the work to assist, and jointly do the work of the unit well; After all, work is for a better life, and now work has made us very unhappy, and if we can't change ourselves, then change our job.

First, you are like this, first cut off the economy, so that you have no way out, you must go to work, only to have food, so that you will find a way to make yourself work. Second, you look forward, work can reflect a person's value, and it can also allow you to learn more things, including how to get along.

It is recommended to gain some time to find a place with beautiful mountains and rivers to travel and release the pressure accumulated in the bottom of your heart. You might as well take advantage of your leisure time to read some books with a more relaxed atmosphere, or cultivate a harmless hobby, such as drinking tea, striving to get up early in the morning and insist on morning exercise, and try to move as much as possible.

Don't let making money be all there is to your life!

Work gives you an income, you don't have pressure because you have parents to take care of your food, clothing, housing and transportation, and you have to go out and be self-reliant.

First of all, I feel that I need to have a good positive attitude towards work. When we encounter trouble at work, we should ask the old employee for advice, and then don't always run away from work.

When I am in a particularly bad mood, I especially want to escape from work and feel that I am not motivated.

It was when my boss criticized me that I felt that I was really wronged, and I wanted to run away from work as soon as possible and didn't want to go to work anymore.

When the work pressure is particularly high, I want to escape from work, I feel that I will be overwhelmed, and I want to live some of my life. I feel like my ability can't keep up with my income.

That's when graduate school is about to graduate and look for a job. My graduate degree is in Hong Kong Chinese, double degree, one of which is also a major in finance and economics, which is vertically equivalent to my undergraduate major.

As an undergraduate, I was able to enter the top 30 schools in the world, passed two CPA exams, and had three or four professional-related internships in my hands, one of which is still a very good company.

Because it was very smooth to find a job internship or something, I floated.

I'm sorry, I'm not knowledgeable, but I'm really floating.

When I was recruiting in the autumn, I got offers from China Securities Construction Investment and several domestic small enterprises in Hong Kong. Actually, it's already good, but I'm not convinced, I think I can still participate in the spring recruitment of the second year, and I will definitely find a better one when the time comes, so I didn't accept any of them.

In March, there was no movement when the resume was sent out for spring recruitment, and then I finally got an interview with Deloitte Hong Kong. This was the only one of the four that I had ever voted for and gave me an interview, and I was thinking about using the big four to come out on top. Hehe.

Crazy preparation for two weeks, going to interviews, group meetings.

The leader of the group is an undergraduate at Harvard.

Chinese, Undergraduate, Harvard. Okay, you're awesome.

Next, introduce yourself, everyone else is Qingbei Resumption of Diplomatic Relations 211985 foreign undergraduates, graduate students from famous universities, and everyone's academic qualifications are the Rolls-Royce of the study abroad industry.

It's just me, like a refurbished Xiali 2000.

Fluent in English throughout the whole process, fully fluent in native language. At that time I was already breaking down.

Then start to state, I'll go, people's logical thinking is really good! I've watched Zhan Qingyun debate, everyone is that style, on-site organization of views and language, four points of view and four angles, views plus examples and analysis, the head is the Tao, each of them makes sense.

I myself was in a mess, and I had to speak in English, I really didn't know what I was talking about, and I felt naïve to come up with a view that I could barely come up with.

This is still the result of two weeks of crazy preparation for me, and it was crushed in an instant.

The result, of course, was brushed off in one round.

However, this is not the worst of it.

The worst thing is that the interviewer at that time was a Hong Kong man who did not speak Mandarin well, so he used English to communicate throughout the whole process. It wasn't until it was my turn to introduce myself one-on-one that he asked me, what is your undergraduate school?

I said, Inner Mongolia University of Finance and Economics, not 985 211.

He asked me very sincerely and deliberately in Chinese:

I am one such example. I don't like my job because it's boring and it's not what I like at all, and I don't want to have a job like this, which doesn't pay much and is very tiring.

Although I don't have a formal job yet, I'm in college now, I'm studying nursing, but I don't like this job, so I won't do it after I graduate. There are so many reasons why I don't like this job.

First, there will be a salary for internships in other majors, and it is very high, but only in our major, there is no salary, and we have to pay money to the hospital and pay tuition fees to the school. The money paid is very large, and it is not suitable for a child from a poor family to study. So I don't like this job.

Second, there is not much way out of this job, even if you complete the internship in the future, you go to the county to find a job, a hospital and other nursing jobs, which is two or three thousand yuan a month, and for people with family difficulties, you can't work at all. And in our county, if you want to enter the hospital, you need to get a lot of money, and after taking the money, you will only be given one or two thousand a month's salary, so it is better to work for others in a restaurant outside to earn money. And the job of nursing is more troublesome than the waiter in the hotel, and it is more tiring than them.

Thirdly, it's a thankless job, and even if you do too well, but a mistake can make someone scold you. Because they just can't get used to seeing you do something wrong, so even if you have a hundred strengths and only one weakness, they will grasp your shortcomings and stick to them.

What I want to pursue is my own dream, and if I say that I work for money, then I don't think I need to do this job, because I don't have to fight for a lot of money in this job. At this age of dreams, I want to break through and learn from others who can get 10,000 dollars a month.

I think that if a person is still young, he must go to the adventure, find a job that suits him, and don't go to those jobs that only earn one or two thousand a month, after all, this society is too competitive, and he only earns one or two thousand a month, and this kind of job will be suppressed sooner or later.

Because the company has too many regulations and is too strict, it will deduct money and fine money at every turn; Because I don't want to work for such a boss, I think he's too disgusting.

A job with a stable income and your own business, you will never want to escape. But a job that makes you have nightmares from time to time will always want to hide. I've really experienced such a job, a very small company, and those systems are similar to those of listed companies.

10 yuan will be deducted for 1 minute late, 20 yuan for 2 minutes, you have to pay for anything you do wrong, and you will report criticism at every turn, doing things in this kind of company feels like going to prison. I could have done something well, but I was always nervous, and I wanted to quit every day when I looked at the colleagues around me who kept losing.

Because you always have to tense your nerves, and it's like the sky is falling when you're a few minutes late, and this kind of manager is definitely sick. You can only arrive early and can't be late, but there are often things at home that make you late for a while, and you will do it in vain that day! The exploitation is still taken to the extreme, overtime is commonplace, and it is your business to work until 11 o'clock.

There has never been overtime pay. It's just a hellish company, a prison-like work model, you must escape, and you don't have to flee, because it's still worth it to get your life back.

The boss is also very disgusting, and he will ask you to be grateful for a meal, as if you have never eaten a big meal in your previous life, which is simply a low IQ. That boss still has a problem with his character, and he likes to swear casually, which makes people lose their glasses. To work for such a person is to feel that you have wasted your knowledge and time, and you will be liberated as soon as possible.