How do you adapt yourself to the transition from adolescent to adulthood?

Now I have children, and as I grow up, I have changed a lot, because if you want to live in today's society, you must learn to be a man, learn to speak, learn to advance and retreat with everyone, in short, you must have a good relationship with the people around you, so that you can go further, others will not reject you, you can stand firm and go far, personal heartfelt words.

In the process of transitioning from teenager to youth, the boundary line is not too obvious, and some teenagers do not know the taste of sorrow, and the edges and corners of the personality change at this time are not too obvious. However, after marriage, when moving from youth to middle age, due to the experience of more experience, the hardships and pressures of life, the world view and beliefs gradually matured, and the understanding of people, life and society, the deepening of cognition, insight and penetration, and the personality of the people gradually drove away from the enthusiasm and resentment, and the health was excited, suppressed the anger, and became a little low-key.

Experiencing the same thing, everyone's reaction, understanding, and ending are different, but in terms of growth or maturity, you have to go through things! People, as high-level beings, are not told in the process of growth, only when they have experienced things themselves, and only after thinking about them will they have discoveries and epiphany, and only after epiphany will they grow. Only the growth after epiphany will shine and become more and more spiritual!

Knowledge only solves the problem of the answer, that is to say, you know how to do it, it does not mean that you can do it, you can do it, and you can do it well. For example, if you are a graduate student of medical school and have learned a lot about the practice of surgery in school, as a patient, do you choose a doctor who has performed many surgeries, or do you choose a doctor who knows how to perform surgery? The answer must be the former.

Therefore, transforming into an adult is not a process that can be completed by a ritual, you need to increase your professional background, the so-called professional background, that is, what you have done, how well you have done, and how capable you are, it takes a time process, the sooner the better.

In terms of appearance, you have become mature, old, and loving, and you have accumulated a lot of life and work experience, but society is changing, people are changing, factories are changing, and science and technology are advancing. Your scriptures are outdated, and you are not keeping up with the times. So, to think, to change, to be different every time.

When we are teenagers, we are forced to learn, and when we become adults, our learning is to learn for our own lives and work hard for our dreams, so our learning attitude should be close to the direction of passive to active learning.

Before everyone studied on campus, the main task was to study well, learn the knowledge of related majors, and pass the exam successfully, and now after becoming a working person, many things need us to face, choose, and work hard, so the transformation of one environment to another environment is the problem that we must adapt to when we just step into the social workplace.

There is a way to do things, do your best in everything, do things with a learning attitude, prepare, execute, summarize, analyze, and improve everything in advance; Adjust your mentality, be ready to be exploited, there is no exploitation, what kind of workplace to talk about, the existence of the enterprise is premised on interests.

This requires us to continuously improve our ability to adapt to society, team and work, improve our employability, so that we can quickly adapt to development in the time we enter the society, and give our youth time to hand in a satisfactory answer.