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Know how to love yourself. to know how to love others.
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I think people who lack love, because they lack it, see it as a resource, and often choose to take it out carefully when facing important people, and usually keep this box closed.
However, it should not be like this, loving others and loving oneself is both an action and a state of mind. It is inherently inexhaustible. Of course, maintaining vitality and maintaining a state of "love" is very difficult and hard for people who lack love, and they need to take the initiative at all times, and they need to do it very deliberately and let themselves do it.
A lot of times you don't know the essentials, but this is the best way to practice, and even if it's sincere, even if it's clumsy, others can feel that sincerity, remember the love itself is not perfect as mentioned in the previous article, as long as you really love, you have already outperformed many numb people.
In short, use all your abilities to love at any time, whether it is to love yourself, love your friends, your family, or not. Keep it this way, and gradually it will become much easier and more natural. But don't love all people, it doesn't have to, God needs to love the world.
Just love those who deserve it, and hate what you should hate.
People who lack love have a subconscious ode to the law: I have to be good enough to get the other person's affirmation. This logic is getting stronger and stronger, so strong that it will distort our will later on, forcing us to perform, to please, to avoid conflict.
Because of this logic or the desire for love, and the lack of experience of being loved, it leads to thinking of love as too divine, great, perfect, or omniscient. In fact, this is not the case in life, shortcomings, quarrels, mediocrity, boring, and vulgarity. These are all part of normal human love.
I've never met a person or couple who loves right and loves perfectly, but that doesn't prevent them from having their own happiness.
Look at the couples around you, don't think that these things are too short-lived, and there is no reference value. The longer I think about it, the more I understand that loving oneself or loving others is not abstract and does not have to be metaphysical.
On the contrary, love is embodied in all trivial life, in the unbearable relationship. Look at what others do, take the best and get rid of the dross. For example, instead of being entangled in how to reconcile with this and that, it is better for the round chain to learn how to make one's life more enjoyable first.
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To learn to love someone, you must first learn to love yourself, and you must let yourself have a strong heart when you get along with each other.
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It's easy to spoil someone, you can just dig it out, but it's hard to love someone, you have to understand him, you have to love him, you have to hide your inner worries, while encouraging him, stumbling all the way, you have to suppress the joy in your heart, and at the same time be strict with him.
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To figure out whether it's love or affection, it's a two-sided thing, and a single line is not called love.
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Let's figure out what love is...
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To love someone is to give him freedom!
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To love someone, you have to give your all, and if the other person loves you, he will also give everything. In this way, they will love each other deeply.
Love someone: to understand, but also to understand; To apologize, but also to thank; We must admit our mistakes and correct them; Be considerate and considerate, accept, not endure, be tolerant, not conniving; It is support, not domination; It is a condolence rather than a question; It is to pour, not to accuse, to be memorable rather than to forget; It is to communicate with each other, not to explain everything: it is to pray silently for each other, not to ask for many things from each other, it can be romantic, but not wasteful; It's okay to hold hands at any time, but don't break up casually If you do it all, even if you don't love someone anymore, you will only miss it, not hold grudges.
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True love is not something that can be expressed in words, it comes from the heart, when you fall in love with someone, your whole heart will be attracted by the person you love, fascinated by it, worried about it, I hope you can see it every minute, you will think about it all the time when you can't see it, you will be excited when you see it, your heart beats faster, you will feel very warm and safe when you are together, and you will be willing to take care of it and care for it, give it everything you want, When you see your loved one happy, you will be happy, and when you see him troubled, you will also be troubled, but you will want to do your best.
Find a way to make the person you love happy, a person who really loves you will want to grow old with him, and he will be in love with him, you will look forward to using all your love to bring him the greatest happiness, and you will also get another happiness in this process!
I often think of TA and I am happy, I mind TA very much, I care about TA very much, without TA it seems to have lost something, with TA I have happiness!
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It's easy to spoil someone, you can just dig it out, but it's hard to love someone, you have to understand him, you have to love him, you have to hide your inner worries, while encouraging him, stumbling all the way, you have to suppress the joy in your heart, and at the same time be strict with him.
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Love this thing.
Not really. You can do what you want.
You didn't do it.
He or she can understand.
Or gladly accepted.
For example, one in the morning, one in the evening**.
Maybe you'll find it annoying.
Yes, old man. Let me tell you about my experience.
When I was in college.
I was in my classmate's dormitory.
Accidentally fell asleep.
Suddenly felt. Something pressed on his body.
Confused, I opened my eyes and looked.
It's a classmate.
Covered me with clothes.
That's it.
Then we became good friends.
Although the relationship was relatively good before.
They all attach great importance to each other.
So care about this thing.
It's best to have no regrets.
Silently giving.
Things don't have to be.
How great. Just cover a garment.
Maybe someday.
The other party felt it.
You care about him.
It's hard to find.
You can't deliberately hide it.
Or acting. Remember not to be deliberate.
Then you will be tired yourself.
Maybe the other party will also find it annoying.
Just do it. Shh
That's it. Got it??
Good luck, I am sincere and sincere, and I hope to get your affirmation.
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To love someone is to give him freedom!
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Happiness will not wait for you all the time, the people who love you and the people you love are not ready to appear, please learn to cherish them.
When a person who loves you deeply changes for you, it is because he loves you, and when you meet someone, he puts away his stubborn temper for you; And because he loves you, he turns your interest into his interest when ,...Or because he loves you.
There is no reason to like someone, and there is no regret to give.
They all think it's worth it, as long as they can be with the people they love.
In fact, we all have some such people around us, but (you. I. He hasn't discovered that the person who knows you best will always be by your side to protect you and not let you have a trace of grievances; People who truly love you may not say many things that love you, but they will do many things that love you.
If you find.
If there are such people around you, please cherish .......
Please remember! The stars that can't be picked are always the brightest, and the small fish that slip away are always the most beautiful. The missed movie is always the best, and the lost lover always understands you best.
This world, every.
Everyone has someone they want to seek, and if they miss it, they won't come back.
If you fall in love. Don't give up easily. It's awkward, maybe you regret it for a while; But you give up, and it may make you regret it for the rest of your life. A life that has experienced love is beautiful, and love that cannot stand the test is not profound.
Beautiful love enriches life, and love that has passed the test is perfect.
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It's easy to spoil someone, you can just dig it out, but it's hard to love someone, you have to understand him, you have to love him, you have to hide your inner worries, while encouraging him, stumbling all the way, you have to suppress the joy in your heart, and at the same time be strict with him.
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To love someone is to give him freedom!
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