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It is recommended that you watch the series "Snail House", although it is cruel, but realistic. It is about a couple of men and women who are very eager for the future to pay the price of settling in a big city.
In addition, I want to say that a lot of love in college is unreliable, don't get excited, maybe you will say how good your relationship is. But it's an indisputable fact that graduation equals a breakup (for most people). My girlfriend met in college, and now that I'm a sophomore, how long have you known each other?
It's a lifetime so soon?? Actually, I myself am a college student who is about to graduate, and I am also a person from the past. Don't think so much about emotional matters, just let it be.
It is recommended that you study hard, don't say that the courses you learn in college are useless, there is a certain reason for the setting of these courses, first of all, you must learn knowledge, and you must exercise more professional skills, logistics management I don't know, your teacher should have said what professional skills you need. In addition, it is also important to learn how to behave in college. Expand your life circle, get to know more people, and learn more things.
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That's right, study hard, knowledge changes fate, what can you do if you don't study now, then you will naturally know what to do, it's really early to think now, how to study now, how to be good to your girlfriend.
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Agree with the opinion of the fifth floor. You are still young, you have not really entered the society, and you don't know how hard it is to make money. Thinking so much now affects your studies.
Moreover, you are going to spoil your girlfriend if you think about her like this right now. Even if you go back to Beijing in the future, will your girlfriend go with you? Does his family agree?
Even if you agree, will you buy a house in Beijing if you say you will buy it? After graduation, the two of them decided on the direction of their goal and worked together to buy a house.
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Study well, it's too early to think about this.
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Doing it yourself will definitely not satisfy your wrongs, you can only start a business from now on.
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Study hard, and if you have the ability, you can naturally have a good job.
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Love is an indispensable part of human society, and its power can allow people to achieve things that are not normally possible, and it brings us endless happiness and joy. Therefore, for individual human beings, the degree of sacrifice for love usually varies from person to person.
In this question, it is possible to consider the individual and his or her place in society, and the choices and sacrifices faced in different situations may be very different. Here are some perspectives and reflections I can offer you:
1.Sacrifice time and effort. Love takes a lot of time and effort to maintain and develop, and correspondingly, some people may sacrifice their independence time and personal hobbies in order to spend more time with their beloved.
If love is worth more than personal interests, some people may not see it as a sacrifice, but a worthwhile choice.
2.Sacrificing habits and habitual actions. Everyone has their own habits and behavior patterns, and these habits are difficult to fundamentally change.
However, due to the need to be with a loved one, some people may give up certain behavioral habits or habitual actions in order to bridge the gap between the needs and habits of the partner. This change may depend on people's personalities and values, some may put more effort into love, while others may not be able to do so.
3.At the expense of personal interests. In some cases, in order for the love to grow and mature, some people may give up personal interests or goals, such as changing jobs or lifestyles.
This can lead to some serious consequences, such as job loss and financial hardship, but for some, these sacrifices are made to maintain a loving and happy relationship.
4.Part of sacrificing oneself. Love often prompts people to give their own simple character or individuality traits for each other.
This may include letting go of certain characteristics of oneself, such as personality, attitude, lifestyle, or way of thinking, etc., in order to be able to get along more harmoniously with the other person. However, this sacrifice can lead to changes and uncertainty in people's sense of personal identity.
All in all, there are many sacrifices that people can make for the sake of love, but it depends on their values, personal traits, and the situation they face. Some sacrifices may be worth it and others are not, so we need to weigh them carefully and think rationally to achieve the best possible outcome.
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Hello, yes, I will make myself better and better because I like someone, and I will also change myself for the people I love. In fact, many people will change for the sake of the person they like after meeting the other half who really makes their hearts move. I've had a similar experience.
It was when I first met my current wife, when I first met my wife, I fell in love with her, but at that time she was so good, and I had a lot of shortcomings, in order to be able to get the other party's recognition as much as possible, I seriously reflected on the problems in my own body, and made a lot of changes, just to make myself better, because only in this way can I really achieve what I want, and I can be with the other party really together.
First of all, I got rid of my habit of smoking, for many smokers, it is a very painful thing to quit smoking, but in order to make myself better, in order to be able to really get the recognition of the people I like, I gritted my teeth and persevered for two months, although I also suffered a lot in these two months, but in the end I still persevered, let myself quit smoking successfully, it is because of my success in quitting smoking, but also let my overall mental state have been further improved, And my wife really recognized me because of these changes in me back then, and my current wife accepted me. Because of my hard work, I can finally be with the person I like.
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People may make all sorts of sacrifices for love, and the degree of difference will vary from person to person. Here are some possible sacrifices:1
Time and energy: People may sacrifice time and energy for love, and devote more time and energy to interacting and getting along with their lovers, and reduce their personal time and hobbies. 2.
Resources and money: People may sacrifice their financial interests and money for love, provide financial support and help to their loved ones, or even give up their jobs and careers. 3.
Ideas and values: People may give up their original beliefs and values for love, accept their lover's views and beliefs, or change their lifestyle and habits. 4.
Life and health: People may risk their lives and health for love, take on more responsibilities and obligations for their lovers, and even sacrifice their own bodies and health. It is important to emphasize that while people may make all sorts of sacrifices for love, it doesn't mean that those sacrifices are all right and worthwhile.
Everyone should consider their choices and decisions rationally, and do not easily make excessive sacrifices for the sake of love, so as to avoid causing harm to themselves and others.
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