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I believe that many people are struggling, should they participate in various clubs, student unions and various on-campus and off-campus activities, and keep themselves busy every day? Or should you step back and relax on your own, make the most of your time to discover your abilities, do what you love, and expand your interests? In my opinion, there is no conflict between the two, the key is to arrange it reasonably.

[As a freshman, you must match the two].

Freshman year is like a place to try your hand at the knife, not afraid of stumbling, but afraid that you will not dare to break through. In your freshman year, you must not let yourself be idle, because we know that many times college life is relatively easy, and you can have time to rest, but you must know that the time freed up in college is for you to expand yourself, not for you to be idle, and the freshman year has developed the habit of being idle, and the sophomore and junior years may be even less motivated. So, in your freshman year, what you're going to do is:

Go to the event and don't leave your interests behind. It is enough to organize two participation, which is imperceptible to network development, and the rest of the time to develop your own interests, of course, it is not easy, and you, all you have to do is to keep yourself busy and enriched.

[Sophomores, you can have a choice].

In your sophomore year, you will feel a little too busy to take more professional classes, at this time, you can calm down and think about what you want, and you still want to continue to broaden your network and prepare for your future work? Or do you want to do well in your studies, stick to your interests by the way, and let yourself have a skill? At this crossroads, you don't have to dwell on it for too long, because everyone's goals are different, and if you want to mix at the leadership level in the future, people who are especially good at socializing should insist on doing a good job in interpersonal relationships, and people who want to have a solid foundation and do things in the future can maintain good interpersonal relationships and calm down to do what they like.

[You, a junior, must know what you want].

The freshman and sophomore years are a critical period for self-expansion, and what you have to learn in the junior year is to precipitate, understand what kind of path you are pursuing, and what kind of ability you need, just like a broken sheepfold and immediately fill the hole. At this time, if you feel that your network is not wide enough, fortunately you have the opportunity and opportunity to take the initiative to meet friends, if you feel that your interest has been disappointed, you still have time to explore. The point is, after all, time is running out, understand your own needs, and hit the key points directly to be effective.

In the end, it is you who go directly to the battlefield in your senior year and let the society test your growth in four years. Therefore, connections and interests are important, depending on how you arrange them properly, you can have the best of both worlds.

On the one hand, college students have just escaped from the shackles of high school teachers and entered the university to enjoy the beauty of youth, and on the other hand, college graduates have to enter the real society and accept the test of job hunting. Therefore, many people are entangled in the fact that it is better to do more things they like in college, or to prepare for future work, participate in more clubs, student organizations, and accumulate network experience.

Strive to improve yourself at the most appropriate age].

The student years, as the name suggests, should be focused on learning. When you were in college, you had something you loved and you couldn't do it. Of course, chasing hundreds or thousands of episodes of anime and staying up all night playing games is a hobby, but it can rarely be of use to you.

College students are energetic and energetic, and since they do what they love, they should strive to do their best, which is also a way to invest in themselves, and at the same time, the college period is also the best and fastest period to improve your abilities before applying for a job.

The accumulation of one's own thickness is more important than the network].

During their freshman year, many people were hesitant to join a student organization to get to know the so-called "connections." However, many people have also seen such people in college, who are glamorous before and after, as if they "eat very openly", even if they skip class and are named, they can find a way to come up with fake notes, many students are actually envious and jealous of them in their hearts, thinking, this may be the so-called connections! However, these so-called well-connected people are easy to inflate themselves, and we "envy" them that they don't have to go to class, but they are likely to be ordered to retake by the school because of insufficient grades.

Therefore, the essence of the network is the exchange of value, in the university without any strength at all, the network is false prosperity, the accumulation of their own thickness is particularly important, whether it is the mastery of professional knowledge or the improvement of extracurricular learning ability, it is more cost-effective than making a seemingly important but no practical friend!

It is better to deliberately get to know people than to become a network yourself].

When I was a student, I always wanted to know the powerful boss, but I didn't know that I should become that kind of person. You must know that only with strong ability can you gather contacts, and it is more reliable for others to come to you than for you to "stick" to other people's relationships, so it is even more inseparable from the improvement of your own ability. So do what you like and do it to the extreme, there will always be people who will find your shining point and move closer to you, a group of like-minded friends together, this is both hobby and networking.

Do more things you like, cultivate your own interests, and better improve yourself, do you still want to have no connections!

I think the people we meet in college may go to all walks of life in the future, but how many of the friends we know in college are friends who can really make friends, just nodding friends, adding a WeChat, QQ friendship. But what are these so-called friends? Instead of being obsessed with shuttling through the crowd, all kinds of flattery, shuttling between various characters, and carrying out the so-called accumulation of network experience.

It's better to do more things you like, cultivate an interest, and care more about the people close to you.

Most of the friends who may not be in contact with each other for 10,000 years in the WeChat address book will only take the initiative to appear when they need your help. In this way, a lot of your energy will be wasted on these dispensable connections, which will affect your mood and life over time. Accumulate network experience, and you are not in a hurry to do it during college, and you don't need to bother to run it.

If your personality and temperament are good enough, then everyone will take the initiative to make friends with you, are you afraid that you will not have connections?

It's better to do more things you like, make up for the regrets left in childhood, and don't feel that I'm so old now, whether I can learn hobbies well if I re-learn hobbies, there is a saying that where there is a will, there is a way. As long as you are interested, then you will definitely be able to learn well, so that when you graduate from college and enter the society, you will have one more skill. Do what you like, love the people you like, and then look back on it later, and college life is so beautiful.

What if you are obsessed with the so-called connections that you don't know if you will use in the future?

I don't think the two contradict each other, but should complement each other and can be done at the same time. While doing what you like, you can also accumulate some network experience for your future.

There are many clubs in every university, and freshmen choose to join their favorite clubs according to their interests and hobbies, isn't this just doing what they like? Aren't the friends in the club all like-minded people who share their interests, they can continue to develop their hobbies, and at the same time do not delay their interactions with other people, and their interactions are not just accumulating contacts for themselves?

People are not solitary animals, the things you like are not unique, you can always find some people with the same hobbies as yourself, a person is always lonely, and people must have the ability to interact with others, if you just live in your own world, indulge in your own hobbies, you lose the ability to get along with other people, such people can not survive in society.

Just like the work-study guidance center I joined in college, I love working in this group, what I do is what I like, and I am also building a good relationship with my friends, subtly pulling a big network of interpersonal relationships. I joined this club since my freshman year and stayed until my junior year, and in the past few years, I have known many people, different majors, different grades, and they have provided me with great help in my growth.

And many people who have been in this club before will come back from time to time to take a look, many of them have been working hard in the society for many years, but they have always paid attention to this club and take good care of the people in this club. Interacting with them also helped me integrate into society very quickly.

The connections in the university are quite naïve, although there are student unions and club officials everywhere, but after all, it is just a university activity and game, although you can gain a certain ability from it, but it is not a panacea. Those people who you see are very good at student work are not necessarily good people in the society in the future, they are just better at paying lip service, and they can't actually give you substantial help.

In my opinion, what can really help your future at university is your own efforts, not relying on other people's connections. College students are actually children in ivory towers, with no real strength. If you really want to get really useful connections, go out of the university campus and reach out to the community.

How you want to live in college depends on your own choice, and the most important thing is to make results. For example, in college, I still do more things that I like, and when my roommates are busy with internships, I am relatively calm and doing my own things. At that time, it was a very incomprehensible thing in the eyes of others, but now I think about it and I am very relieved, because maybe when you step into society, you will never have the time and mood to do these things again, so you will not regret doing it in time at university.

So whenever I think back to college, I appreciate my pure emotions that nothing else can buy.

Whatever you choose to do in college, there will be pros and cons, and the most important thing is that you have something to gain and don't regret it in retrospect. Although I didn't give 100% of my attention to my major when I was in college, I also felt lucky for what happened later. Even if I had to go back to college, I would still choose to do more of what I loved.

Young people's learning ability is the strongest time, comprehension and memory ability are at the peak, don't waste your precious time, learn more things that interest you, and when you are old, learning will not be so easy. The road of life is very long, and if you want to grasp everything, you will not be able to grasp anything. Of course, if your hobby is to network and experience, that's a different story.

You must develop a good character, you can participate in some clubs, you can make yourself very cheerful, so that you can open up your own network.

To improve social skills, we should participate in more club activities, improve our language communication skills, and should also take the initiative to approach others and show favor to others.

I think I can join some clubs, and I should also understand the world, and I should invite some people who are helpful to me to eat or play in normal times.

Improve social skills, participate in more clubs, improve language communication and expression, take the initiative to approach, and express ideas.

In fact, generally speaking, you still have to look at yourself in society, and if you look closely, you will find that the stronger the ability and richer people in society, the stronger the connections, why is this? In fact, to put it bluntly, these people can bring benefits to others, so many people surround him, and thus form what we call connections, society is like this, if you want your connections to be useful, work hard to improve yourself!

I don't think it's really useful to enter the society, because the relationship between society and the university is stratified, and after entering the society, your university is a classmate, and you may not be able to see it.

It may not be useful after entering the society, but if everyone has equal resources, resources can be exchanged, because everyone will be engaged in different industries, and many people will be based on interests.

1. Things gather by like, and people are grouped.

The most basic network is someone who is very similar to you. The contacts that can be expanded during the study period are mainly students in the broad sense, including students in this major, seniors, seniors, juniors, juniors, juniors, students in similar majors, student unions, various clubs, etc.

In the student circle, it is definitely easier to be accepted for academic success.

Second, the core network is my hardcore friends.

A wide range of contacts will definitely help you in your career, and true friends will help you the most. Everyone wants to have a few elite friends, so they have to make elite classmates in school. If you want to make elite classmates, you must not be bad at school.

According to the general principle, the higher the education, the more elite.

3. The premise of making extensive use of contacts is that you are strong.

Everyone knows the four sons of the Warring States.

stories, they befriended all kinds of people, made the best use of their talents, and achieved a story through the ages. The reason why the four princes of the Warring States period can gather talents is that they have enough financial resources, status, ability and charm. Only if you are strong enough can you use the energy of your connections.

Therefore, the first task during college is to improve one's core competitiveness through study.