My boyfriend loves me a lot, why is he acting cold 20

First of all, find the reason from yourself He is good to you not to indulge you but to make you love him as much as he loves you If he is good to you in exchange for your eldest lady's temper and irrational behavior After a long time, love will be worn out Love must be managed with heart if you want to last a long time.

Secondly, don't think about changing the other person, if he really has bad habits, you can let him change, but also pay attention to the way, because human nature is more judgmental, and using the wrong method will backfire He loves you and wants to be with you, not to be your pug, the two of them must have at least respect, especially men's self-esteem is stronger.

Besides, don't mention this matter again, but you have to know how to be good to him, people have to grow slowly in the relationship, and finally I wish you happiness

In fact, two people should tolerate and understand each other together, communicate more, reduce suspicion, and use good attitudes and skills to manage love, so that love can go for a long time. I will tell you a good way to strengthen your determination to love and stabilize your mind, and I suggest that you go to the "Tower of Hearts" to participate in their "Love Test", because in the process of participating in this seemingly game-like "Love Test", it can not only help you witness how deep your love for him is, but also record how far your love path can go, and permanently record your love file for you. It can also help you understand how to manage your love and maintain your relationship.

After participating in the test, you can also water and care for the seven-colored flowers that symbolize your love in your own space, compile your own love history, pour out your emotions, and communicate and work together with many hard-working comrades-in-arms on the road of love, so as to become the home of your soul. You can find it by searching for "Tower of Hearts".

Don't care about his "coldness", it may be due to his personality, such a person really loves you, and will definitely be someone who can care about and love you for a lifetime. I think you are a very willful girl, don't look at his shortcomings, look at yourself, understand each other, don't put up with each other, I wish you happiness.

Maybe the events of the other day made him feel uncomfortable, and he hasn't completely gotten out of that mood until now. So, don't ask him too often what's wrong, and leave room for his emotions to adjust and ease. After a while, it will be fine.

The current coldness is only because he is not in a good mood.

I think it's you who needs to change, your temper is too dry...Self-abuse alone can be seen here. It's really tiring like this...

I don't know, maybe he doesn't know how to face you! Or maybe he felt that his behavior that day was a bit excessive! If you have something to say to him in the future, don't lose your temper so much, both of you calm down!

You are stupid, why are you masochistic, if you can't do it, you will separate, it's not a big deal, the best person in this world can do the most to you, and it is impossible to pay you unreservedly. It is recommended that you also be cold to him, this is the principle of psychology boxing, generally speaking, if you talk coldly, he will be enthusiastic, and if he is enthusiastic, you will be cold.

Some of his habits you can't get used to, you can't use ways to hurt yourself to make him change, if every time you quarrel because of something you are like this, you think about him depressed, people only make others like it, you mess with him all day long, so when you think of you, you feel crazy, what do you think he will do towards you.

When someone who loves you threatens you with self-harm, there's no guarantee that they won't point a knife at you one day.

Because you and your boyfriend are in a long-distance relationship, the other party already has an inherent life circle, and even if they think of you occasionally in their free time, they will send you very few messages. So you have to be vigilant and not let this situation develop, otherwise you won't be far from breaking up.

First, the best way to solve a long-distance relationship is for one of the parties to live in the city where the other party is located, so that even if the two people don't live together, they can meet each other often, and take Bi to eat and watch movies together after work. So you might as well communicate with the other party to see if you go to the other party's city, or if the other party comes to live in your city through personnel changes. Based on the other person's previous attitude, he is not very enthusiastic about this aspect, so you should not have too much hope for him to come to work in your city.

So if you want to save the relationship, the best way is to take the initiative to go to the other person's city.

Second, in addition to the above circumstances, it is also possible that he has the idea of breaking up. Because he doesn't see each other often in one place, he has lost confidence in long-distance relationships, if you also have this idea, you might as well take the initiative to break up with him, so that no one will feel embarrassed, but if you still want to stick to this love, you should also communicate with each other what you want in your heart, such as when to get married, when to go to live in each other's city, reach agreement on these issues, and work together in the future, so that you will not be as insecure as before.

Third, it's likely that your boyfriend has other girls he likes, or is already with other girls. Because many times when a person is suddenly cold to another person, it is because he spends his mind on others, if this is the case, you can't ask at all in **, even if you find a clue, the other party will not admit it happily. So the best way is to visit out of nowhere without greeting the other person, see how the other person is doing, and if he is really with other girls, he can also find clues.