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You can see from your question that you have a non-assertive personality!
You actually feel like you should do these things for your girlfriend, and it's not a big deal. But when you're laughed at by your friends, you don't know if you're doing the right thing.
In fact, this is a very normal reaction. One is because I feel embarrassed when I was bumped into by a friend! Even in your subconscious, there is a kind of masculinity like women should serve men! But it's just because you have feelings for your girlfriend and feel very conflicted!
I don't think you care what your friends think, because your friends have their own outlook on life, their own values. He thinks he should change how to treat girls, you also have your own attitude and method of treating girls, don't let his tricks be applied to you, that will only backfire!!
You just need to be clear about your own concept, as long as you want to open it, you will have no psychological burden!!
Hope I can help you, hehe.
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Go your own way. Let people who don't understand go to fight.。。
They never understand the joy of walking. What they lose is not fun, but chance.
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It's up to you to ask yourself, and if you like it, don't care what others say.
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Like a gentleman, we can do whatever we want, as long as we don't feel so much, you can do it, you say!
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I want to ask how your girlfriend treats you? Love you?? If you love you, it's not bullying you, and if you don't love you, it's playing tricks on you, bullying you.
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Silly! Do you think it's not a happy thing for someone to "bully"? This is not too much, it's just a sweet talk between two people, and others are jealous!
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Don't listen to what others say Do you think your girlfriend is bullying you, if you think she is bullying you, talk to her.
Tell us about your own feelings.
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Actually, it's not a matter of bullying.
If you love her, you will do it.
Why don't other women come up and let you carry her?
In fact, if you love him, you don't have to care about other people's eyes.
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She's your girlfriend and she's not your friend, whatever they say.
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Love is a matter of two people.
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Hehe, friend, it doesn't matter how the two people are together, what others say, what matters is how you feel, how you feel, so what's going on.
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Only you love her, she loves you and has a good relationship, and she doesn't care what others say. Oh, they may still be envious!
Whether it's suitable or not, only you know, but you must listen to the words of your friends, one says you don't care, if you say so, you really have to take it to heart, listen to their true words, and think about it yourself.
In fact, two people don't need to say anything too deliberately when they are together, since she accepts you, it means that she is not dissatisfied with your current state, just let it be; If you really want to change yourself, you can try to take the initiative to say your inner thoughts and opinions when chatting, see her reaction, over time you will know her preferences, her way of thinking, her habits, etc., there will be more and more topics, the most important thing is to express your concern for her in actions and words, when you take the first step you are not far from the goal you want.
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